Monday, December 2, 2013

Generation Cryo 12-2-13 (@MTV/Generation Cryo)

This generation cryo show is really shocking me, I am learning a lot about how children born from sperm can trace someone down. This is crazy because this man was thinking that he was just going to make a quick buck by going into a clinic and depositing some sperm and now he may have all these children showing up at his door, what will this man think. These kids took swab their mouth and sent it to a lab and got back some DNA results of people they could possibly be related to, now they have narrowed it down to a certain vicinity and they have even learned the school he may have possibly went to. Now listening to the one who basically started it all is the young lady named Bree and she what I have gather from the show is a very intelligent young lady but of course this is to be expected since her mothers picked a man who was athletic, smart and tall. Can you imagine, you can go into a clinic and pick the traits that your child could possibly have. Wow, I think if we could all choose the traits are child would have, now you know we would do it if we could but leave the clinic out of it. It was also interesting to watch the children to go to the bank and watch how the process was done, this kids got to see how they were really made and it seemed cold to me, I know these kids were hurt to know they came from a tube of many. I do understand how some of these parents don't agree with what the children are doing but stand by their sides and support their kids to finding out their other half to see what help and make them. The woman at the clinic did tell the children that she can contact the donor and ask him if he wants to be contacted by their kids but if the donor says no than they can not tell the kids anything. Bree is so hype about searching for her donor and it is leading me to wonder what she expects from the whole entire thing, does she thing he will welcome her with open arms, does she think he will include her with his family, does she think he will keep in close contact with her or what? I know we all what to know at one time or another who did I get what characteristic from whom and this is why I do not think these parents who raise these kids understand this when they do this, they do not think about what the kids will go through. Now they do a profile on the donors but I always questioned that because I was wondering if these sperm banks do a clear background check to make sure these donors are not lying or do they just take their words for it, now that would be interesting. A drug addict cleans up and come off the street to offer sperm, now I prone to believe this could not happen but you never know. Now Jessie seems pretty smart as well but I really do not like the way his sister Emily teases him because her parents ended up having another child naturally, how ironic right. Jessie is a cute boy and should not worry about being a donor child as much because this is mostly the way a lot of children are being conceived in today's world, so you are not alone. What is seems to me is Jessie just hates the thought of being conceived this way and then with his father trying to push him into meeting some of the other siblings that were used with this donor only upset him because for a child in my opinion, it would make him or her think the father did this for some strange reason just because Jessie is not his real son. It would be hard for me as a child if my father said to me go meet your other siblings made by the same sperm. On last night show Bree and her sibling Julian had a little heated discussion on rather or not it was immoral for her to try and find someone who was just trying to make money with the assumption that it would not come and hunt them in later life. In my opinion Julian has a point, that is exactly what a sperm bank is about, it is cold and feeling less and that is why the men do this in a room alone. So although Bree has this very strong feeling that she has to track down this sperm donor she has to seriously think about how that donor may really take this when she and her other siblings show up at the door. Well I support Bree in her quest and I hope she actually is told by the sperm bank that, yes the donors does what to reach out to them and meet them all and maybe then all the children can have their curiosities  filled, they can answer any questions they want. What else they hope to accomplish I am not sure, I was a little taken when on of Bree's siblings started to cry because she loves her now father and is really confused on rather to accept this sperm donor in or life or not. I know this must be really hard for the children, especially if you have a really good life and now it makes it makes you torn.

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