Real Housewives of Atlanta (#RHOA)12-21-14 (Kendra what a Piece of Work)

Did anyone watch Real Housewives of Atlanta on Sunday night, well I did and all I have to say is that Kendra is proving me right more and more everyday. This woman is one of the nasty person I have everyseen, in my personal opinion she takes joy out of other people displeasure. How does the old saying goes, misery loves company and because Kendra is alone and has no man in her life, she loves seeing other people relationship fall apart. I know that Phadera and Apollo are going through their troubles and for Phadera this is a serious matter because she has two little boys she has to think about and for me I am with Phadera, something this serious is personal and should remain between her and her household. If Phadera wants the thing that she is going through with her husband to remain private then so be it and who is Kendra, Cynthia or the world to judge how she handles it. Yes, I did say Cynthia because I do not know if anyone notice how Cynthia threw out that little comment about something was showing on Phadera, whatever the hell she meant by that. Kendra sitting in the corner laughing and commenting on the entire situation was also very inappropriate, not matter how much she dislike Phadera, the woman is a snake in my opinion, sneaky and attacks quickly. I watched Donald Trump talk of the upcoming celebrity apprentice show he has coming and two of the celebrities is Kendra Moore and Vivca Fox, well I do not know if you heard but Donald Trump said that Kendra Moore stole Vivca's phone and got on her twitter account and said some very nasty things pretending to be Vivca, wow. Donald said he did not want to tell details but he said he had to talk of this because what expired from this was off the chain and we have to see the boardroom face to face action between these women. I can only imagine what Kendra said, she will put on that innocent act as she always do and say that she was only doing it as a joke, not harm. But how goes into someone else account and do things like this but a rat, it does not matter if you did not mean any harm, the thing is you did do harm and someone was hurt in the process. Now Kendra claimed that what Apollo said about her really hurt her feelings and ruined her reputation, so her getting on Vivca''s twitter account and saying nasty things to people pretending to be Vivca did not? Wow what a real hypocrite. I do not think anything Kendra does will make me like her because she is a real skizzer of a women, she talked about this man Bill Bob and his girlfriend who she pretended not to know. Now this Billy Bob is a producer who dates Demetria McKinney, who planned Janine Payne on the House of Payne, a Tyler Perry Production. What black person has not watched or know of Tyler Perry's work? Kendra know she knows of the woman but played totally dumb about it and said she never seen her work, yeah right, but she is the actress and all we seen Kendra do is little parts like the beauty on a man's arm. Kendra life is missing a lot and she is apparently unfulfilled and because of this she wants to poke holes in other people lives, how sad. Please take her off the housewives show and let her find a husband because she will definitely not find a husband showing her true colors on this show.

Richard Armitage/Hugh Jackman

I was watching into the storm the other night, although I watched it when it first came to the movies, but enjoyed the movie so much I had to watch it again when it came on dvd. What I did not realize was how much Richard Armitage and Hugh Jackman favored, so I did a side by side photo of the two both in facial hair and I tell you these two men could pass for twins. I know that Hugh Jackman is having health issues related to cancer and was unsure if he could continue to play Wolverine or play another X-men but if they every need a fill in I think Richard Armitage would be the one. I am not counting Hugh Jackman out, don't get me wrong, I even heard that he maybe returning as Wolverine. What I do suggest if he find it too hard to do another wolverine or X-men, look into Richard Armitage playing the part, he fits the Wolverine persona, great actor and he almost act as if he was a superhero in this movie, that is why Hugh Jackman popped in my mind. Watching Armitage doing his scene at the papermill trying to save his son I began thinking he remind me of someone and after looking at him more closely, the resemblance of Jackman as Wolverine fit his profile. If you put both of these men side by side in a picture with facial hair as I did you will see exactly what I mean, very uncanny. Still I wish Hugh Jackman every bit of recovery because I do love this man as Wolverine but I think if he needs to take time to work and focus on his health he should and he should not worry about pleasing the fans when he needs to work on himself. He can let Richard Armitage take over and once he has recovery he can come back and take his place. Jackman can step right back in his role as if he never left, or maybe we could do something like he had this long lost brother or brother he did not know about and maybe they could do like a focus on the brother on only have Jackman do like a small part to introduce him into the X-men storyline, well I am sure the writers could come up with some different ideas.

Hollywood Divas Reunion (#HollywoodDivas)

Hollywood Divas had their reunion show last night and surprising enough it was interesting. I was thinking that this reunion show would be a pretty quiet one with not much to hash out because these women usually hash their problems with each other while they are on the show itself, so when the reunion happen I was not expecting much but I was totally wrong. I have to say that this first part of the reunion had it moments because the women spoke what they felt and they did not hold back, hash tag, #thesearesomerealwomen. Notice I did not say bitches because I will not stoop as low as Forrest, you know Ms. Paula Jai Parker's husband and call these women bitches. Now I have to say it seem that everyone was going for Golden and I am not saying I do not why, because Golden does speak what she is feeling and she does not hold back and we all know that the truth can be hurtful. But my problem is why is no one upset about how Forrest seems to have such a disrespect for Women in general. Now Ms. Paula Jai Parker might like this kind of man and is willing to put up with his disrespectful mouth of women but us women as a whole do not believe in a man who upright shows his disrespect for women because when you call one woman a bitch you are calling all women bitches and what you think of them. I do not think any man who yells at women and disrespect them should be in a position of actually trying to lead a woman. Forrest in my opinion should be banned from Hollywood altogether if he does not know how to control his mouth and treat a woman like she should be treated.  Now in my personal opinion Ms. Paula Jai Parker was showing a little ghetto attitude on the reunion, but I notice this on the show as well. Paula seems to think acting like a hood rat who admits to taking medical marijuana is something to jump up and down about. To me admitting that you are doing medical marijuana is meaning that you have some kind of issue and that issue could be related to delusion that everyone is stabbing you in the back and trying to steal things from you. Paula was on a trip that Golden wanted her husband Forrest, who would want a broke down man that did not have the backbone to get a job that would not have him, his wife and his child out of a hotel room. Most men would take any job to make sure that their family is doing okay, and there are lots of job beside producing that Forrest could have done to keep his family in a real home. As for Lisa Wu, I love the new hairdo, I wish I could get someone to cut my hair and style it as gorgeous as yours. Lisa Wu I have to say I like the way you carried yourself on the reunion and gave all the women their props and respect, unlike Forrest. Lisa admitted to having her fall out with some of the women but she admit that she has nothing but love for each of the women and their talents. Although Lisa you was wrong for questioning Golden and Elise on their picture on the red carpet and Elise saying her bestee, what was wrong with that and did not these women have the right to call whomever they want their bestee. As for Countess Vaughan, she was being herself and not saying much, she looked good coming out on stage as she always looked to me. I am not one for surgery for vain purposes, but sometimes people need a hand up to get their self motivated and I hope for Countess sake this surge, as she calls it, is the step to working on a healthier her because as someone who battles with weight issues on a daily basis, I know that you will have issues that you would not have imagine if you don't get the weight off. Elise did not have to much to talk about but I have always admire the way Elise speaks up for herself and she says what she means. Elise told Paula straight up that she did not steal her idea and that is that. Elise I think feels as a lot of the women, some who will not admit, and that is that Paula have some mental issues and again we know this because she acts as if someone who flew over the coco nest. One meant Paula can be understanding and listen to everyone opinions and the next meant Paula can fly over the handle and go off. So far the first reunion has been interesting and I am waiting on the second half. I would like Forrest to stay out of the women's business, I wonder why Paula has the need for her husband to be in everything she does and every aspect of her life, maybe because she cheated before with someone on the set he does not trust her to be on the set without him. Moving on, I want more of the women to talk of Paula and her ticky tock ways. We show on the entire season that Paula Jai was just in a zone of her own, she made her own rules and she could not stay still to save her own life, yeah signs of an unstable person. I hope the show comes back for a second season but I think we could go without some cast members and maybe replace or add some. I know you say if you start out with a certain cast why change it. I just think although she is suppose to have started it, Paula is unstable I can see why people in hollywood is not trusting this woman, she can go and I think no one would miss her because she never stayed around anyway or came to any of the meetings. Along with Paula would go Forrest because he just has such a disrespect for women that as a women watching this show, I am so disappointed that the producers would allow him to be on television calling women bitches, what the hell are they thinking? I guess they say this kind of drama makes money. We have Golden who is so brutally honest and speaks what she is think, so I personally think she should stay because she gets people stirred up with her honesty. I like Elise for I think she is a great actress and she brings experience with her and she in my opinion can write a storyline of her own that the girls can do together and I think it will be done like a real movie should be done and it won't be all these delays because of Elise not being there when she needs to. I like Lisa Wu and think she should stay because she brings something different to the show, that is refreshing and new and she wants everyone to succeed, so she gives it her all, although I did want to see Lisa Wu go back on the housewives of Atlanta instead of that new woman they added to the show. As for Countess Vaughan, she is someone I do not know how to take and where she stands. She seem to want to do the show but she have a lot of deep rooted issues that she seems to need to work on first and I personally think she should get these issues worked on first and then come back, let us get her friend Shar Jackson, why was Shar not cast anyway. I think personally Shar is a good actress in she should could have brought a lot of drama to the show. Now is is just me or is anyone as disturbed that Todd Tucker, Kandi from housewives of Atlanta husband is a producer. You may not be but I don't trust his work and to me the show is missing something and a lot of that could be coming from his dry sense of leadership, the man to me is not a leader and as for producing, something seems to be missing, a lot of something.

Sir Charles Barkley ( A Foot or Two)

I will do a take on Charles Barkley and that mouth of his. I do not know if Charles Barkley is grasping at straws or he just don't know what to say out of that big mouth of his. This man is talking on the killings of them men and children by police officers and he is putting everything on the black men and boys. Wow Charles, how in the world can you say the officers are not at any fault, especially in cases where they could have prevented the person from being killed. Excessive force was used in all of these cases and Charles had the audacity to said it may have been excessive force but not murder, okay so why were the policemen not indited at all, that is the point being made by many. If they are indited then they are not being charged with anything, so the message is that you can kill and use excessive force but don't expect to get any prosecution when it comes to a police officer against citizens. These cases that has come forth in the news are only a small portion of the cases that are actually happening around America as a whole and if I was Charles Barkley I would have done my research before I open my mouth and if I was not sure of what exactly what was going on I would have kept my mouth closed and I mean closed tight. Now Charles Barkley who is a known basketball player who may have been given breaks in his life because he was a face that is known in this country by many may be doing this to try and look good in others eyes. He who has an education that apparently amounts to nothing is running his mouth that if full of shi*. One way to keep the droppings from falling out Sir Charles as you like to call yourself, is to swallow the shi* and let others who know what they doing talk about something that is so crucial to others lives. Stick with B-Ball and let the experts deal with reality. So Sir Barkley, I can tell you with your attitude you will never be crowned as anyone's night or any Kingsdoms royalty, sorry charles barkley.

The Walking Dead Season Finale

Yes I watched it and I know I am a little late at writing about it but I know so many people including the Talking Dead did so many takes on this finale. Yes Beth has been killed and yes, it like many other past episodes has surprised us to the fullest, as all walking dead episodes has proven to do. Hell the people chopping off Bob's leg and eating it was just over the top for me. What was so tragic about Beth's death is because the way it was done so suddenly and at the end so you did not really get anytime to think about it. It happen so quickly that my husband who was watching it with me kept saying what happen and I was steadily repeating she killed her, she killed her and he was like no way something else has happen. It was a quick shock to your system so to some they had to make up a storyline that it did not happen or there was that lack of grasping what really did happen. Rick in the show was shocked as well to a point he could not even pull his trigger saw it was Darryl who stepped up and kill the woman who killed Beth. I think something else that shocked everyone was that Beth stab the woman who in returned I think out of reaction shot her, I really do not think it was attentional and she was as shocked as everyone else. We really just did not see this coming and the ending that everyone let it go right there was good enough other than Rick saying that anyone who wanted to go along with them could. Now the only person I seen that joined them was Noah, why did not these people who were treated like hostages not run along and join Rick them. Did they like staying in the hospital due to the fact they thought they were secure and that this security outweighed the risks that were outside of the building. Of course it seems as if some of those security guards that was the nasty ones were mostly killed, so maybe because of this the hostages felt safer, it is an environment that they know and have put up with on a daily basis, why adventure into something you are not sure of. Now I have to say I was sadly disappointed in Michonne and her helping out that pastor. This may did everything he could to get out of the church and then after getting out of the church and some walkers getting behind him, he begs to be let back in and Michonne risk the life of Carl and the baby to let this pastor back in after he is the one who let himself out. If he let himself out he should have been man enough to deal with the consequences. Michonne ripped off the boards and let the man in as well as some walkers and then they had to fight to get out of the situation, that was a bad deal on their part. Why not make this pastor start answer for his bad behavior. He acts like everyone is wrong for fighting but this man would not let the people of God into the church when they needed him to and he got to live as these people died outside of the church, what a loser. Why not let the pastor die, I guess this would be no surprise to anyone and everyone would probably celebrate his death. I think for some unknown reason Michonne has a soft spot for this pastor and it may one day get her in trouble. I can not wait until next season to see exactly how this play out and if Noah will actually try to make it back to Richmond, VA. Someone talked about the group actually moving outside of Georgia to change up the scenery a bit and I have to agree with them, travel to another state.

Flex and Shanice (#FLEXANDSHANICE)

I think I have never mentioned the Flex and Shanice show and for that I must apologize. I am a big fan of the show every since it came on last season. I admire how this family came together so that Flex and Shanice could keep their house. Yes the house has nine occupants living it, but what the cost of living in America today, why should families not band together to make living a little easy on each other, if they actually have enough room for it and I think the house Shanice and Flex have is enough room for the nine. What I like best of all about this season is we get to see Flex and Shanice in their elements and we actually see them reliving their dreams. The family members all are actually pulling their own weight and they are making it happen as a family. Yes this family may argue, the normal family things but after the arguments comes the understandings and then forgiveness and I have to say I appreciate this in a reality show. For me I would have the say that the Flex and Shanice show is one of the best family realities show that is out there. We do not see all this crying and sad rich people problems. What we see is a normal family who at one time had it all and was doing rather well, fall. Life happen to Flex and Shanice as it happens to all normal people, it did a 360 degree turn and left us with us trying to figure out how we would make it from day to day with children to feed. Flex and Shanice left with these decisions decided that they would move in family members as a means to continue to pay their bills and mortgage and their family jumped right in as real family members should do. I think some families tend to forget that family is suppose to stand for something and that includes doing things like letting family members move into your house even if you are less than happy about it. Me and my husband had to help his sister out when she was down on her luck, we let her move in until she could save enough money to move her and her children into their own place. Living in a house with two teenagers when you have no kids on your own was not easy but we got through it and she was able to move out in a matter of months. This show is one that makes you really think about life and the sacrafices people are making everyday to live. I personally want to thank Flex and Shanice for opening their doors to us and letting us see how celebrities who are struggling have to endure as a struggle in their life. Not all that crying and pretend I am broke drama, just straight up day to day life drama.

D L Hugley (Judgement on Bill Cosby)

I listen to the D.L. Hugley radio show and heard his comment about Bill Cosby and these allegations that has come out about him as of lately and I have to say that I was a little surprise. Now I know there was not love lost between Bill and D.L. but to put this man down as he did on the show all because he did not like what he did on his stand up jokes. I will tell you now D.L. Hugley I was not a fan of you stand up comedy and stop watching after I heard you talked about certain people out of their name but I did watch your television show and liked it and I also was enjoying your radio show until I heard the antic you put on about Bill Cosby. I am no way gratifying what Bill Cosby may or may not have done, but I listen to some women who talk of something that happen many years ago and want to know why now are they so call coming out with these allegations. It is sad to think about but we know in this country when it comes to being a person of color you will always be judged and put in second class when it comes to people making decision about your life. We know that if we wanted to go back we can look at the early twenties, thirties, forties, fifties and so on their were women who in the movie industry that were taken advantage of by men of power in that industry, if they wanted to grow in their careers. I am sure their are a lot of women who can talk of men who took advantage of them at young ages in that industries. I heard of security guards talking of what Bill Cosby having women sent to his room, now talk of the other celebrities who did it as well because we know it was not just Bill. We know that men were being men as they always are and doing at time when women rights were not look at much, men basically got their opportunity to take advantage of these women. Now doing a time when Bill Cosby was suppose to have done what he did, how many of these women and men were running around talking about make love, not war and smoking all kinds of drugs as the orgies were the rage of that time. Most parties back then were orgies and a lot of these young girls were not willing it was just they were high off the things they smoked and snorted and so on. So come on D. L. Hugley if you are going to make Judgement of Bill then you will have to dig and go make judgement on a lot of things that happen during those times. Janice Dickerson is speaking out and this is the first time this woman has been sober since she started modeling in the sixties and she ask as if Bill is the only man who may have taken advantage of her, he maybe the only black man that has taken advantage of her but I definitely doubt he is the first.

The Real Housewives of Atlanta

I have continue to watch the real housewives of Atlanta as I said I would but I am not liking a lot of what I see. It seems as if certain people such as Cynthia and Kendra are fighting for their positions of the show and because of this they are putting on shows. Cynthia is showing her a** to the viewers by putting what she said is that negative energy out of her life but she is bringing Kendra into her life, and we are suppose to believe that Kendra has no negative energy, yeah right. What about this friend of Kendra who is new to the show, Claudia. She is divorced, again another cast member who is not a housewife but a single woman out to get what is hers, as they explain. Claudia does not have children, as Kendra does not and apparently they really don't know what it takes to run a real family household, the reasoning I thought they started housewives show, to show how a woman can be married, raise a family and have a career all at the same time. It is being to seem to me they are changing the game this season of the housewives of Atlanta with sneaking other single women into the show. We finally got Kandi married off so she would experience what the rest of these women were experiencing, now we have to go through another group of single women who are on a housewives show trying to get a possible spin off if they think they are special enough to wow the show and the viewers. Yes we know what agendas some of you have but I am a little focused on Apollo and Phadera situation, I am on the side of Phadera. This women knows that her husband made a choice and when he made that choice to do wrong, he was not thinking about his family and now he has the nerve to want Phadera to think about him and stand by his side, what an ego on this man. I have to say that I was hoping the show had gotten rid of Kendra because I am not a fans of hers and I think she is only bringing the fakeness to the show, pretending to have a boyfriend when she did not and then this so called African prince that no one got to see, boy she is really grasping at straws to make us believe she has some kind of relationship or can get a relationship. Kendra is almost as pitiful as Kandi was when she first began on the show with no man but the difference is Kendra is older then what Kandi was and the hopes of a baby has faded as well as a man. So what do Kendra do, she decides as most single women do when they can not get a man, they act as if they will focus on their careers and forget that they want a man or a baby, yeah right. If you are a woman who wants a man and a baby, it will always be on your mind. Maybe Kendra if you stop looking for a man and put your trust in God, which you seem to be failing to do in your life, he will send that man right to your door stop. Stop all the fake, drama air you put on for television because we don't need the crocodile tears and the pretending you don't want the cameras in your face. Kendra has a narcissistic personality in opinion, vain, self-loving, self-admiring, etc, you get the point.

The Walking Dead (11-16-14)

So we find out that Carol on the walking dead did not plan to in up in the hospital where Beth is, but we do know no a little more about Carol and her journey when she was kicked out by Rick. I was not understanding why the go who played everyone hates Chris took the weapons from Carol and Darryl and left these two people out in the open to fight creatures with not real way to protect themselves, I thought he would be more humane after dealing with those crazies in the hospital but then again I guess after dealing with those crazies in the hospital you do not know who to trust. Now that Carol has ended up in the hospital with Beth some people are doubting that these two really will be able to get out, but we already know that Darryl is going back to get his group to do some serious fighting and it will be on. I think Carol, once she gets well will be back to her old self and when she wakes up she will automatically go into defense mood because of her love for Beth and the need to protect her. I think Carol who was doubting her sanity and reason for being here anymore will understand that she is needed and why she is needed when her extinct kicks in siting Beth. I think the fight will be on and I will not predict who they will lose in the fight because we all know that the finale is coming up and with a finale coming up anything can happen and that could even mean someone dying in the situation. Rather the will finish the fighting scene this season or next only stands to remain. What I will voice my opinion on is how disappointed that there return episodes are so short, this was one of the quickest season I think I seen as of yet because there is only two episodes left, but I understand the writers have to stay on their toes and have to break it up because they have so much to write on and they have to keep it fresh and going. Great job writers but I still think you could make the sessions a little longer, give us just a little more. You made us wait forever for this return episode, so don't keep us waiting too long, the anticipation kills us.

The Real Housewives Of Atlanta

Housewives of Atlanta is back with much anticipation from fans like myself, only the best housewives show on the air. Anyway this show has really started off a bit messy to me and the reasons can easily be explained. We have Apollo who is about to go to prison, I am so sad that this man has to be out of his children lives for as long as he does because he really does love his boy, but we all know that is you do the crime you must do the time, depending on who you are, that is a wink wink at the American so called Justice system. I have to say I understand Phadera's position on the entire thing, she has her boys to think about, so I personally can see why Phadera has turned her back on Apollo because he turned his back on his family when he decided to take this route. I myself would be like Phadera and focus on my boys and let Apollo who is a grown man who has been to prison before do what he needs to do to prepare to go to prison mentally. Again Apollo was not thinking about his family in this equation apparently and now he wants to cry, well people may call me cold but I would have done exactly what Phadera did and I will say to Phadera you do what you need to get you and your sons through this. Now another mess is Cynthia and her new take on everything. Cynthia has decided that she is no longer friends with NeNe nor Porsha for the fact that she claimed NeNe's friendship was draining her and Porsha talked behind her back, now who on the show has not talked behind another cast members back including Cynthia. What I think is that Cynthia was dying on the show, she really had no storyline and she found out that they were possibly going to cut her out, so what do you do when you feel the producer may fire you, of course you spice it up. You make a storyline where there was not one and you lean on it so that it will look like in this season of the show that you have a storyline. I can not believe that Cynthia is actually befriending someone like Kenya to show us that she is really serious about her changes in her life, like Kenya is not going to be any drama. We know Cynthia if Kenya was not any drama then her storyline would be dead as well, so we know Kenya will be all about the drama especially since they still have yet to explain how Kenya ended up on a show that is called the Real Houseswives of Atlanta and Kenya was never married and there is still not prospect in the picture, what the hell??? So Kandi, Todd and Mama Joyce are still in this triangle that I am sure a lot of married people can understand. But what gets me is that Todd does not want Kandi to do for her mother, like buy her a house and Todd has still yet to show that he could have been employed outside of his wife giving him a job. Todd hooked up with Kandi and quit his job and got a job with his now wife, now I am one for spouses being around one another but sometimes working with one another can be a pain in the rear end, but I guess when you are in Todd's position, you don't have to really work, just walk around on your cell phone and ask everyone is everything ok and how does that work. That was hilarious how Kandi threw out there that the play she made would not have been possible without Todd, yet this man should have gotten finger cramps from the way he walked around texting on his cell phone and by the way, why has no one brought up the fact how Todd just stays on the phone constanly even when Kandi is near by, who the heck is he talking too? Kandi is in everyone else's business, asking Kenya questions and Apollo questions, so why the hell is she not asking questions about her hubby and what he is doing. Well I guess Todd is being like Peter, Gregg and Apollo was, just the men of theses wives her really earn the money and they sit around as man and blab about what they don't like about it, yeah and man say women are the ones who run off at the mouth. Well it is still entertaining and I will continue to watch and I am so happy that my girl NeNe is not thinking about these pigs and is doing her own thing to maintain her acting career, you go girl. I am looking forward what will happen on future episodes. I am hoping that Apollo get out quickly, he did added to the show. I hoping that Kenya really finds a man that is into her, and then watch an attitude change on this woman when that happens. I am wishing that Cynthia will stop the ugliness and make up with NeNe, life is to short to put on a hater show, although I know you have to think of your pocketbook since Peter keeps adventuring into these failing businesses. I am praying for Phadera because she has a lot on her plate, but as always I am sure Phadera will pull through because she is a strong woman. I wishing Kandi and Todd good luck with the tangled web they have going on, I have to say that Kandi standing by her mother side is the right thing. You only have one mother and when she is gone she is gone and if you have the means to do for her while she is alive you should, I wish I did for my mother. I am still missing her after ten plus years. As for NeNe, we the fans love you and I hope you get another show to do soon because you belong on the big screen honey.

K. Michelle: My Life

I have to say I love, love, love K. Michelle's new reality show. Now I may be bias because I am a K. Michelle fan but I think her show is reflecting everything about K. Michelle that I love and that is her great personality, her realism and her down home country way. Now as I said I am loving K. Michelle in her new show but I will have to say in my opinion I am not feeling some of these so called friends of hers. I know we all have friends we may have grown up with and have even trusted, when we were brought and had no one who would hang around us. But K. seems to be having a lot of friends who are just needy. The need money so they borrow hers, they need a place to stay so they move in with her. K. said that they should not take her kindness for foolishness but there comes a time in your life, especially after you have blown up and is becoming this shining star when you have to separate your real friends from your fake friends. These friends does not always mean they have to be around you either. I have some friends but I can tell you right now that they are better kept at a distance, except for those special occasion and I know sometimes being at the top can be lonely but it does not have to be lonely because as long as you talk to God you are never alone, in my opinion. I saw that K. Michelle wears a cross on her neck and she said she always does, so let the cross lead you and great choice to keep it on, we need to remind people that their is a hirer power and that some of us will not be afraid to show that we still believe in him and that it is nothing wrong with showing it. So as I was saying, if anyone want to know how K. Michelle is doing, I will say it is off to a good start and of course I will be watching with open eyes, hoping that maybe a friend change or two will be in her future. Good Luck K. Michelle.

Big Foot!!! (The Reality Show)

Big Foot the reality show is returning and all I have to say to this is, really. Are we for real about having a show about big foot that is coming season after season after season without even a glimpse of a big foot. Well guess what, this season promises to bring a glimpse of the infamous creature, yeah right. I wrote this blog saying 1800SmackMe for a reason and that is exactly what I want to do to all those who watch this reality show to a point that the network believes in bringing the show back. We have people in America who choose not to believe in God but they will run around in the woods looking for a nine foot creature. If you have every read the entry to my blog than you will understand why I am saying are we as Americans becoming stupid or are we just refusing to open our eyes to what is happening around us. I want to reiterate that in my opinion we as Americans are becoming stupid. We would rather give ratings to shows like that of Big Foot, Teen Mom, Ghost in my Attics or Long Island Medium with that chick Theresa, and yes I choose not to believe that Theresa can talk to my dead kin folks because if she did she could give us more information of the concept of death, something no one is able to do. I would call Theresa out if I every met her like I would call out those so called Big Foot hunters who seems to have the highest tech cameras but fail to catch even a glimpse of this so called creature. To me it is all fake and all they are doing is making money for the network while making fools of the idiots who choose to watch this show and actually believe in such a creature. I would rather the show I watch be like that of the walking dead, which I know is made up and can get more enjoyment out the fact that the writers are great and have some awesome story-lines. What are we doing people why are we choosing to watch these programs with no proof of a ghost, dead person or creature. I want them to catch bigfoot on camera, I want to see the ghost that walk through people houses and I want Theresa to talk to my relatives and say things only they and I would know about them, then maybe and only maybe then I will believe. I know what those of you who choose to believe is saying, you are saying I can not see God and I choose to believe he exist. Yes I choose to believe God exist because it is a feeling in me an a voice that speaks to me on what I should or should not do as a guide in my life. God does not go around trying to scare me in my house, or walking in woods looking like an oversize creature, nor does he claim to talk to my dead one and tell me what they are thinking. This is why I choose to believe he can exist because he is within me and not someone else idea or what they can only see.

Maleficent (The Movie)

Now I am sure this movie had all kinds of reviews and everyone have their opinion on it but I find myself having to talk of a movie if I watched it and it really catches my attention and that is what Maleficent did. I really enjoyed this movie and I did have a small child to watch it with. I decided to watch the movie because I am a big fan of Angelina Jolie and I have always admired her as an actress, none of her movies have every disappointed me. I was actually in tears watching this movie, to she how Maleficent grow up as a very happy child without a worry in the world and grew up to really enjoy this wonderful world with a smile on her face the entire time, had to see the ugliness of this world come out by a few. Maleficent naiveness and trust of all and everything was soon destroyed as her trust was turned to be used against her, tell me I did not cry at this part because yes I did. This movie took me back to my childhood when I was so trusting as a child and had to grow up in a world that I found out was not always to be trusted. It is a hard lesson to learn when you open your heart to people only to be stabbed in it over and over again. The way Maleficent turned for a light of joy to this dark shadow that had to be something that was a force to reckon with, was not exactly all bad to me because it showed how Maleficent, who we must remember was a girl who had to become a woman to role her land, so becoming this strong woman to protect her land and her people was not all bad to me because she was so strong. On the other hand Maleficent had turned her heart cold towards love and beauty. Although Maleficent turned herself to what we saw as this dark shadow it began showing that this was not actually true, as she had a child that came into her life that needed her and from the beginning she protected this child as if she had given birth to the child herself. Oh yes the tears continued to fall. The child who had a curse put on her by Maleficent and could only be removed by a true loves kiss was soon showed to us that true love comes in many different ways, it is not always between just a man and a woman and we all know this to be true. What a beautiful, beautiful version of snow white and Angelina Jolie did a magnificent job, I am sure her kids were really proud of the work their mother did in this movie.

If Loving You Is Wrong (Season Finale)

I love, love, love Tyler Perrys new soap opera "If Loving You Is Wrong. Now it started off slow and I was not into it as much as I was The Have and the Have Nots but oh man when this soap opera warmed up, it warmed up. If Loving You is Wrong has won over my heart and the season finale was off the chain. Marcie finding out that Randal her husband was cheating with her best friend Alex or A.K.A Peppa was a great ending. The way Marcie, the actor known as Heather Hemmens, really showed us her acting skills when she went all out ham on Randal. Marcie always played this meek little woman who was just trying to please her husband and give him a baby, really showed us what can happen to a meek woman when she is scorned. Oh yeah and Marcie was all out crazy on Randal and the only reason she did not go straight crazy on Alex is because Randal held her back but we do know next season that this will have to come out some kind of way, the question is now in which way will Tyler Perry let it come out. Now the way Marcie found out was disappointing to me because Kelly, who became a friend of Marcie after Alex, led me to believe that the only reason Kelly told because she was heartbroken about her situation with her ex, so as they say misery loves company and I on the one hand feels the only reason Kelly did it is because she wanted someone to be hurting because she was hurting. Now Kelly said she only did it because she thought Marcie had the right to know, if this was the reason why did she not straight out and tell Marcie who was cheating with her husband instead of throwing out these stupid little hints so that Marcie would find out who Peppa was. Someone who has to sneak and do something is a side of guiltiness to me. Now I am very interested in how Alex husband Brad will be taking this news. Brad is one of those mild mannered guys who does not talk much and I can almost see him losing it too a point of no return. Now Brad is friends with bad boy Edward and for anyone who watched the show Edward is a cop that is way past the point of no return and he abuses his cop privileges as if he is above all in the eyes of the court. I mean no harm and I know Edward is the father of Esperanza child, but if you ask me if anyone needs to leave this show it is this man. You have citizens distrusting cops as is but Edwards is the type of cop that you despise with a passion and distrust all cops for it. This show is not just focus on cheating spouses and crooked cops, although this is one of the most entertaining, this show touches all kinds of deep subjects. It talks of war and what can happen to a man, it tackles low income struggling and trying to raise your child up in poverty and keep them safe, it shows us how just because a thing looks perfect on the outside does not mean it is always perfect on the inside. This show has everything that is everyday and I thank you again Tyler Perry for showing us a show that is real.

Hollywood Divas

I was watching Hollywood divas last week and they came up with this idea to do a show about five black witch sisters, now I listen to them talk and describe what they could do in the movie and it all sound great to me. But this week it was said that because the black people are so religious that they would not be very open to the ideas of five black witches because it is like demonic. Now as a black person who is religious I have to say because of these days and times I have to disagree. I know we do not like the idea of things like evil spirits, but we know the difference between reality and fake and how many of us really believe in witches without knowing it is made up. There are lots of movies with demonic attributes in it and a lot of young people are watching them. If anyone would not be accepting of this movie I think it is most likely the older generation and that is maybe sixties and on, the ages before that maybe very receptive of this movie and it quirkiness. I do not know who this producer Paula was talking to but I have to disagree with him although he have a lot of movies under his belt, his ideas may be outdated. He has to look at this idea from a younger generation view that actually is an influence on their parents. Most younger kids coming up these days are a bigger influence on their parent than their parents are on them. Most parents are open to what their children suggest to watch and try, they let their parents know that times have change and that they should try things out before judging it. So I for one want to say that I think the five black witch sisters movie would be a great idea. I think it has not been done in a while, especially with female black actors and it can be fun and lively, instead of some said storyline that has been done to death about a group of black sisters that all have their personally issues, including crack addiction. Now tell me that has not been done to death and is rather old in my opinion. Can we put the five black witch sisters back on the table please and may it happen.

Big Driver (By Stephen King)

Has anyone watched the lifetime movie Big Driver that was written by Stephen King, well I did. If you did not watch it I am advising you to do so. I have always like Stephen King movies, not matter how odd they were, although I for some strange reason relate to all of his movies. Anyway this Big Driver movie was no different. I thought the movie would not have to much going for it being on lifetime, but let me tell you Stephen King has out done himself and this movie was great. Yes it was still with that strange twist that Stephen King likes to put on things but the strange twist is what always make Stephen King movies stand out and this movie stands out. It is like a revenge movie but not your average revenge movie if you know what I mean. I was not sure about the title and was trying to figure out why the movie was given this title but once you watch the movie and get into it, you will understand the meaning and its entirety. All I can say it I loved the movie and I think others will too once they take the chance to watch it and I want to say thank you Stephen King for bringing us a movie to lifetime that was great and that we did not have to go outside our homes to a movie theater and pay money and sit with a bunch of strangers to watch. Although I must say this is one of those movies I would have really enjoyed going to a place for adults like Cinebistro and eating and drinking while I watch it. Yes it was that great that Stephen could have put it on the big screen and made millions and people would have enjoy watching it. I would have really liquored myself up and had a few things to say while I was in the theater because the action and the emotions this movie brought out of me was great. With all this being said, all else I can say is that if you have not seen it then do, you will not regret it. I forgot to mention that Maria Bello was absolutely wonderful in this movie, she did a wonderful job as usual.

The Hunger Games: Mockingjay-Part 1

Okay I did not know that they were planning on another Hunger Games coming out this November 21st,2014. I just learned and I am hesitant on rather I should watch it or not. I was so excited about the Hunger Games catching firing and because of the shooting at the school in Connecticut of 2012, I think they decided to cut back on the kids killing in this movie, the only bad thing about this was the movie the Hunger Games was based on the kids killing so the cutting out of the killing made the movie very boring because all they did was a lot of talking and faking things. It was no really storyline other than to possibly take over the games and to make an effort to stop these games they had the kids to play, which I think is a good point but they had to actually fight to have a take over and it seem as if they cut all and I do mean all the fighting out, you knew that some people died but you did not actually see it happen. Maybe since it has been two years they will resume with the fighting but again I am unsure because it seems that since this movie was made there has been more shootings going on in the schools by children and it only seems to be getting worse. It seems as if or younger generation is becoming more and more angry, at what I am unsure and they are using violence to get their points across. How do we tell our children that violence is not the way to solve your problems when some people, especially living in the backwoods have hundreds of guns in their gun cases and they brag of the damage they can do with them. Will movies stop kids from being so violence if they stop showing movies like these, I personally do not think so because it begins at home and rather or not if we have these movies, some kids have to deal with their teachings of their parent and their attitudes about guns and what they can do or is for. So hopefully this part 1 movie will bring back some of that action, because it is a part 1 so that means we have to be ready for a part 2 rather we like it or not.

The Calling (The Movie)

I show this movie in red box called The Calling, I never heard of it or saw previews, but after reading about it and seeing that Susan Sarandon was starring in this movie I knew I wanted to watch it. First of all Susan Sarandon has always been and amazing actress to me and there is no movie that she has done that I have not seen and always loved. So on Susan name alone I watched the movie and was amazed at how many other great actors were included in this movie, like Donald Sutherland, Ellen Burstyn and many others. Now back to the movie, the movie had a few surprises but the most surprise was how Susan actually played a sheriff. I like the suspense in the movie and the twist and turns, I not speaking on specifics because for those of you who have not seen it I think you should and I do not want to spoil the surprises. I really like the realtionship Susan who played Hazel had with Ellen Burstyn who played Emily her mother. If you have a some what dysfunctional realtionship with your mother, than watch this movie. Now without spoiling the ending of the movie, I do want to know if there will be a part two. The way the movie ended made me think there should be a part two and I was wondering if anyone know if it was in the works or if this was only depending of rather or not how will the first part did. If it is depending on how weill the first part did then I am one to say there should be a second part to this movie and for those who have not seen it, I suggest you do and demand a second part as I am. I am still wondering why I never heard of this movie until I saw it in the redbox.

Wendy Williams in Las Vegas

I heard Wendy Williams tell of her comedy stint she will be doing in Las Vegas. Now watching Wendy Williams on her talk show I take her to be rather funny with her own comedy right. My issue is with her only doing a show in Las Vegas, me and my sister talk of wishing we could she her but not being able to fly to Las Vegas to see this show, so we were thinking why could Wendy not do so small comedy clubs, say like the Funny Bone in Richmond, VA. Of course I guess you will figure that I live in Virginia and is trying to put out a little hint to Wendy or anyone who knows her that we would love to see her do her comedy stint in VA. Besides Wendy it is a short trip, you could come to Virginia do your one or two night in Richmond and fly back to home that same night, a quick trip. Now if do decide to come you have to let me and my sister know so that we can get seats because we know they will fill up very quickly and the purpose of putting out this hint is to make sure that I am able to see you perform in person. Why not just bring the entire Lipshtick comedy show to Richmond, VA and Wendy you join them with your performance so that we can see you too. Now that I put it out there let me know what you think and if you think it is not possible than just tell me by putting it out on your show because I will be watching.

Hollywood Divas

I have watched this new show Hollywood Divas, with Paula Jai Parker, Elise Neal, Golden Brooks, Countess Vaughn and Lisa Wu. Now I did not understand why this particular five women would get together to make a reality show until I heard Paula Jai Parker explain she wanted to get women who had Hollywood backgrounds but now find that it is hard to get jobs in the fields that they once flourish in, she wants them to come up with an idea for a movie they as women could make together. Now first after listening to this I thought what a great idea, especially since a lot of these women have not done anything in a while, but then things started to come unrivaled because I was trying to figure out why was Lisa Wu was there, although she says she has a history in writing and why Paula Jai Parker began bringing up things that some of these women have done to her. Paula Jai Parker talked of how Golden Brooks and her friends treated her like dirt at one time and then on the last episode she made a jab at Elise Neal who was suppose to be one of her closes friend. Elise was visibly upset because she said she did not know where this was coming from and the more that I listen to Paula Jai Parker talk to people the more I am understanding that she is more or less creating a situation in which she is trying to have five women who actually will come at one another. She has five women she know will collide with one another and she pick two women to join the group that she personally has beef with, so what is this saying to me. It is saying that Paula has an agenda and that agenda is making a show of celebrities who will show their a**es like some of these reality show people do. She is trying to create entertainment that people will like. Now I know Paula has been out of the lime light for a while and she feels everyone in Hollywood has turned their backs on her because she has fell down on her luck but isn't this stooping a little low to make a show. Does this other women know what she is doing, or is this just part of the plot. I do not know but I do know that one reason I am interested is because I want to know will a real movie come out of this reality show or is the movie just a ploy to get everyone to do this reality show, think about it. Either way, I for some reason have to watch to she what becomes of it and how everyone handles the situation when they find out they are possibly being used.

The Walking Dead has Returned

The Walking Dead has returned and I know I have failed to write about the two first episodes but this is because I was so wrapped up in the returned and so excited about the anticipation I forgot to write about the first episode. I was glad to see Carol come and save the day, which I had a feeling she would since her and Tyreese were on the outside. Carol did a great job and Rick brought the crew out by becoming his old self again. I have to say that I was disappointed to know that the group did not do as Rick say and go back to the camp and make sure they wiped everyone out. Rick was right, if you do not finish these demons they are sure to show back in your life, as they did with the second episode. Those who were not killed came in the second episode to finish what they started and that was to make a meal out of those who go away, what a bunch of idiots. They have some chip on their shoulders because another group did them wrong and took over their camp awhile back, so now they want to eat everyone else. I guess they are just starving for the taste of meat or the taste of flesh is so good to them they can not help themselves. This was apparent when they captured Bob, knocked him out and when he awoken he learned his leg was missing and this cray cray group was eating on his leg. Yes they actually had Bob's leg on a grill, shoe and all and they were making a serious meal. The apparent leader actually was talking to Bob as he chowed on a piece of his flesh in front of his face, how disgusting. Anyway as we track back before Bob was captured we do know that Bob was attacked by a Zombie earlier and taken under water and now some of viewers are hoping and wishing that Bob was bitten by the Zombie and told no one and now that a-hole of a group is eating tainted meat, now that would be special. Bob was in the woods crying about something that none of us really know what it was and I am one who thought he was bitten and did not want to tell his group so he went outside by himself at night. What else I am hoping is that this group,who has a very egotistical leader, have unknowingly saved Bob by possible cutting of the tainted part and eating it. Would not this be hilarious if this group who is so determined to eat other people may have unwilling cause themselves to possibly become Zombies because of their on selfishness. Now this is not a spoiler just only a guess on mines and other fans views. Now the anticipation to see what the writers have really in store for us is only that more exciting. I am loving this show more and more and never thought much of the competition they have but now find myself wanting to be compete in their recent competition just so that I can visit the set and meet some of these great writers. Keep up the great work is all I have to say and keep us on our toes and guessing with every turn as you have always done.

Divergent The Movie

I finally got to watch the movie divergent for the first time. I am fan of movies like this but my husband is not so when I get a chance to watch a movie without him it will usually be a movie like this. So divergent starring Shailene Woodley, who I must say was awesome, this young lady did a great job. Who I was surprise to see was Miss Zoe Kravitz, Lisa Bonnet's daughter I did not know that she was suppose to be in the movie and automatically recognized her because she is the splitting image of her mother. When I saw Zoe I said that is a very breathtaking you lady who looks rather familiar and after looking more at her during her appearance it hit me that this was Lisa Bonnet's daughter because it was Lisa Bonnet's face. I had never seen Zoe act and I have to say she did a great job, so great that she was a close second to the starring role and I think she herself should get a movie in which she does have a starring role because she was very good in this. Although Zoe has her mother's face and personality she is definitely in a lead of her own because this young lady did her thing. She has proven to me that she has what it takes to be a great future actress and I personally can not wait to see this young lady in other roles on the big screen and like I stated before, maybe even being the star of the movie. Now as I watched her act in this particular movie, I began thinking about X-men and even began thinking of her as maybe a daughter to storm, because she could definitely play a role like that and it would make for a great storyline on the X-men. Anyway, great job Miss Zoe and good luck on that bright future in acting you have started.

The Walking Dead (#thewalkingdead), Oh the Anticipation

Yes it is true, THE WALKING DEAD will be returning this Sunday October 12, 2014 and I can not wait. I am so excited and it has been a long break between the seasons, so it is town that we have a show such as the walking dead that will return on Sunday night and keep those of us who are now surfing channels on Sunday nights looking for something exciting to fill our empty hours and now the wait is over. 8:00 pm watching AMC in anticipation of the Walking Dead return, 9:00pm The Walking Dead itself and 10:00pm the Talking Dead. I do not know about anyone else but for me and those of us Walking Dead fans, you do not know how this anticipation has us on the edge of our seats, especially since when we left off, most of the cast members had been captured and put into these empty railcars hoppers and Rick actually begins to show us what made him a leader in the first place as the old Rick has returned, oh yeah. Now there are a lot of loose ends that needs to be tied up and explain to all of us who have so many questions regarding what has happened to some of the cast members as we all know they had their own little journey for a bit but now most of them have been rejoined again and it is about to get good and I do mean good. I know the saying don't wish your life away but this is one week I am wishing away because Sunday night can not come fast enough for me. Hell I might just sleep through Saturday so that I will not driver myself crazy trying not to think about the show next day return.

Love & Hip Hop Hollywood (I Am Just Not Feeling It)

Okay I have been watching Love & Hip Hop Hollywood and have since it been on and I have to say I am not into it. This show for the most part seems to be phony and one of the biggest phony on the show is of course Ray J. He in my opinion seems to be using his acting skills to bump the show up and put a little fire where there is none. Most of the cast members to me really have nothing that is as spicy as Love and Hip Hop Atlanta or New York, now those cast members bring the drama. I am personally waiting for love and Hip Hop New York to come back on so that I can hear more about Erica Mena and little Bow Wow soon to be marriage, never seen that coming. What happen to Cyn and Rich dollars? Well moving on to the Hollywood show, the cast members are just not doing it for me and it is so slow that I am not remember any of the cast members name without looking it up because they really do not leave an impression on me. I do have to say that I admire Fizz and the way he is raising his child in the absence of the mother, who seems to be ticky ticky boom. Fizz love for his girlfriend and the fact that he wants to make a serious commit to the point of her moving in is lovely on a guy to me, now the girlfriend is stupid because she hesitated and hesitation to a man inviting you into his home means that you are not ready for him yet and you have other plans. Be honest with the man so he can move on with him and his child life. For you Fizz, keep it moving don't let any woman hold you back, keep focusing on your child as you are doing, I am now a fan. Omarion I like you and your baby mother, but you really need to put your foot down with your mother and tell her to either respect your woman or stay the hell out your life. You do not need that drama, especially around a new born baby because the stress the baby mama is feeling can be easily detected by the baby and that is not good. Have a stress free house for your newborn baby and the mother as well so she can pass this positive energy to the baby. As for Soulja Boy and his girlfriend, you are not ready for your girlfriend to move in with you, if you refuse to stop partying and she has a baby to raise. Although I know Soulja boy is still young and that is what young people do, if you are man enough to tell a woman you want her and child to move into your house than you should be man enough to know when to tone it down, if you don't want to tone it down then don't take on the responsibility of a woman and child moving into your house. With all this said the women on the show are the most turned up, they do have their little drama but what women do not. I just do not care for Hazel E or Nikki Mudarris, these two women seem to be just putting on some kind of act to get some kind of spotlight shinning on them on, Joseline wannabes if you ask me. Why would Hazel E act a fool over a man she know is not into her and then want to fight another girl because he took this woman out. Nikki wants to fight another woman because her saw call boyfriend is dating both of them and instead of asking her man point blank, she tells the other woman she is straight up lying. All I can say is who ever said that this show was to be as more turned up then the other two Love & Hip Hop shows must have been a paid employee of the show because I am not feeling it, at all.

If Loving you is Wrong (#IflovingyouisWrong)

Okay I have to admit it took me a little to warm up to Tyler Perry's new show, If Loving You is Wrong. Most of the actors were not recognizable to me and I thought it was a cast member of new and younger actors whom Tyler Perry was trying to break in. But after watching this show for a while now, things are starting to heat up on the show itself and the actors are really doing a great job with their characters. Now most of the cast seems like that are off the chain, a bit cray cray, if you know what I mean. In fact the only sane couples seems to be the Natalie and Lushion and they are not actually a couple, because at one time they were together had a son and are no longer together but for the sake of his son Lushion has moved to the state Natalie is in so that he would be around for his son and to help out Natalie, what a good man and ex military. Now the real cray cray of the cast members to me is Eddie or Edward, he is a cop who is down low and dirty and use his status as a cop to shake down criminals and take money and drugs from them, not to mention how he uses that power to exploit women as well. The next cray cray person for me in the cast that runs a close second to Eddie is Randal, you talking about a man off the cliff. Randal was or shall I say maybe continuing to have sex with his friend Brad's wife. Alex is her name and Randal, who is at a point of stalking this woman because she cut off the relationship with him but the cut off time maybe a little to late as Alex is pregnant and you know what this mean. Brad himself is married to a wonderful woman name Marcie who is trying to get pregnant by her husband but is having difficulty. You wonder where does Marcie, Randal's wife and Brad, Alex wife fits into this entire situation, well I can tell you that the both of these spouses are clueless. Yes they are clueless to what is happening under their noises and what makes it even more interesting is they live next door to one another. Then there is poor little Kelly, the woman who has a man that is always doing relief work overseas but has returned to only tell poor Kelly who has now brought a house for the two of them thinking that they would be a family and him a daddy to her son. Has now told her that he is love her but don't really love her because he fell in love with someone else as he has decided that he would love to be a great friend with Kelly. Yeah I know you are thinking as I did, what the hell, this man wants his cake and eat it too it sounds like. Personally for me I thought he was about to tell Kelly that he has married the other woman and wanted her as his mistress and I still not sure this will not happened because in up coming episodes he is still trying to talk with Kelly after she has told him to get the hell out her house. If I was Kelly in this situation with this man and I brought a house hoping that his income will be added, I would be that mistress and as that mistress that dam* man will pay. He will pay the electric bill, the water bill, the half of the mortgage bill and anything else I needed, because we know it pays to get laid on the side. Of course I know you already know this Mr. Perry, but it does not hurt to hear it again, you have another fantastic show on your hands. Look I like to write and come up with ideas, how about help a fellow sister out and giving her a chance to write on some of this great strips.

I AM A MAN, PLEASE FORGIVE ME

I had a truck driver who often come into our establishment and he found himself compelled to let me know that he cheated on his wife. As I was talking to him I make light of the situation and told him that it is because men do not know how to cheat, not realizing that he really did cheat on his wife. After knowing that he was serious he felt it was okay to tell where he did go wrong in getting caught and what he did to rectify the situation. He let me know his wife is getting herself back into shape, and grooming herself more and that when she is done with the outside she will then make him pay for some new boobs after already making him by her a seven thousand dollar ring. Now I myself as a woman believe in making a man pay if he cheats but will that will this really fix the problem. I listen to this man talk about how his wife gained about forty pounds and really began letting herself go. He said she did not dress like she use to and that sex was limited. For all you men who do not know who who have yet to get married I am going to tell you that, she probably gained the forty pounds barring his two children, she let herself go because she as a real mom put her children first and the lack of sex is the tiredness from running around taking the children to their games, making sure the house is clean, making sure the bills are paid and making sure that dinner is on the table and this is a everyday thing when you have children. You can not get sick, but if you do you push through it, you can't take a day off because if you do your children will go hungry or not make it too an event. You have sex with your husband even when your tired, your body aches and it is just another responsibility because your husband does not really hold you anymore, take you out for a romantic dinner or even remind you what a wonderful wife and mother you are. What the man chooses to see is how much weight she has gained, how she has let herself go and how much sex he is not getting. So he goes to this woman he does not know, who possibly works with him and he notices that she is younger then his wife, she is is thinner then his wife and she smiles as he walks by. Without knowing this woman, he decides it is okay to flirt a little, which later on leads to other things. What is this woman who either knows or don't know this man is married, she feels he is ready to move on to something new and she is possibly that something new, for the woman that does not know he is married she believes that she has found true love and that he promised to her and her only. So he is caught up in a web of lies and for some crazy man thinking reason, he is okay with it. He wants to believe he can have this quick affair and continue to be with his wife like nothing is happening, when the wife already knows what you are doing. The wife notice that you are staying out later, or so called working more often. The wife knows that there is no extra money coming in but your hours are longer, she finds the receipt in your pocket, or bank statement of dinner for two. She finds female women things in the car and condoms, which he tries to explain as either his child or a sibling. Yes we women know man do not know how to cheat and I have decided that they should print up a t-shirt that says I AM A MAN, PLEASE FORGIVE ME. On the back it should say, I think with two heads so I am told, Walking on water I can not do, My children are my life but my wife is too, Cheating in this world has become acceptable today, but for me if I cheat or choose to cheat I know my woman is not to blame. Please Forgive me I Am a Man!!!!! Your national anthem, gentlemen.

What You think of the new talk show (Real Talk)

What do you think of the new Real Talk daytime talk show? Okay, I have watched and continue to watch, hoping for something a little different then what we have been seeing of daytime talk shows and I am not seeing it. I know most of the host are younger, this I guest in a attempt to draw the younger crowd in but we already have daytime talks shows that are drawing the younger generation in, need I say Wendy Williams. We do like celebrities and yes we like to see them in everyday run of the meal work environment but for me the host are in need of some changes. They have Tamar Braxton, she is just like she is with her sister on this show, a lot pushy and overwhelming. Then there is Tamera Mowry-Housley, the sister wantabe, if you watch her reality show with her twin you will understand what I mean. I am sorry Tamera but you just do not have that spunk and you are a bit of a bore to watch and try to be spicy. Either you have it or you don't and for me Tamera does not have what it takes to be a talk show host. I do not know this Adrienne or Jeannie women, so I really can not comment on them other than they just are a there to be like a symbol of ethical means, in other words, the others. The only one that does fit this type of talk show to me is Loni Love, I think if they take Loni and replaces Tamar and Tamera, with someone of younger mindset (youthfulness) or with a little more spice, that is not faked, hint Tamar, then I think the show may be able to survive. Now someone like Chili from TLC is someone I see as a plus to the show, she has that energy and I see her really telling it like it is. We need someone who will talk it but not pretend to talk about something they only guess about. Erica Mena, who will be marrying bow wow, she is a spicy woman who has tried a many things, why not get views from a person like her. She will definitely not hold back, you need that person who will speak a truth to be spoken, again not some half truth. Now I have to congrats on the girls for trying a talk show that is some what different but I am just confused on why these host. Take a poll with the younger generation and she who they think will be great host. You could even add Tiny's friend off The family Hustle Shekinah, who in her own right is funny as crap and can definitely add some great views to opinions.

Preachers of LA

Okay I have been watching preachers of LA and for the most part everything is going okay but I looking at Deitrick have a disagreement with his wife on hiring a nanny and as outlandish as Pastor Haddon can be I must say that I agree with him for the fact his young wife, who as young as she is will find herself overwhelmed with taken on the new duties of a pastor's wife. I agree with Derrick's mom in that maybe a couple of hours if she does not want a full time nanny. Dominique I want to give you some advice as a women of three children, if you can afford to hire a nanny please do so because it will definitely make your life run smoother. Some how I manage to raise all my three children with no help but if you ask me how did I do it I will have to say I must have sleep walked through the entire process because I do not remembering doing it, take that help girl. The one pastor who the season seems to be focusing on this season is Pastor Wayne Chaney and the issues his is having with his family problems. Pastor Chaney wants his mother to move in until he can figure out how to heal the relationship with his mother and brother, but then there is the issue of his wife not wanting the mother to move in. You know that women are known to have issues with other women moving into their house, but me personally I would welcome the help from my mother-in-law, because she would be a help. I see any women who is a family member and need your help for a short period of time, should be welcomed to your house with open arms. Now if a pastor's wife can not try and get along with another women in her home with some understanding, then who can. I myself have helped my sister when she was down on her luck and what I got was a hot meal every night and a spotless house. So in my opinion try it and if you find that it is not for you than I suggest you both just stay out of each others way, usually the other person will get the hint. For me I love my mother-in-law and would not hesitate to move her in if she had such and issue as Pastor Chaney's mother has. What upset me about the show was when it returned Bishop Gibson and his wife choose to judge Bishop Noel Jones and his friend and thier relationship or kind of friendship they really have. In otherwords Bishop Gibson and his wife believes that Bishop Noel Jones is fornicating and therefore can not interact with Godly projects. Now I understand as men of God they have to follow the bible, but why is it that a man and he is just a man, like Bishop Ron Gibson who was once addicted to drugs, choose to judge someone else and their particular lifestyle. Bishop Gibson tried to say to Bishop Jones by saying as men of God they have to lead their flock and as leaders of their flock they have to show what they preach, but the entire thing about it is that Bishop Noel and his friend have never said that they are actually having a sexual relationship, it is only assumed. For me Bishop Noel and his friend Loretta, saying that they are not in a sexual relationship is good enough for me, who am I to judge or assume that it is anything else. For Bishop Gibson and his wife to assume that they are having a sexual relationship seems like their mind is in the gutter. If you do not have positive proof, other then your assumption then you are doing what the law said not to do and that is presume that a person is guilty before it is accutally proven. I still enjoy the show as I did last year, although I am missing a lot of Bishop Gibson and Bishop Noel, who seemed to both have very busy schedules but of course their ministry should come first. I am hopeful that they will do a Preachers of Atlanta or maybe Preacher of New York or Preacher of Louisiana, just some preacher of the East coast. What can I say I live on the East Coast and although I enjoy the Preachers of LA, I am just looking for something that has a little more view on things from the East coast side.

I Disagree with you Wendy Williams (9-22-14)

I watched Wendy Williams this morning and I have to say I disagree with her approval of the Dont Be Tardy reality show on Bravo. But it is like Wendy say, we agree to disagree because we all have our own opinions. What I don't agree with is that she said this is a great family show, it makes me wonder how many reality shows do she really watch. She said she loves the way they are raising these children and although I do not see anything really wrong with what Kim and Kroy are doing, there is the lacking of respect as far as cursing in front of your teenagers and little children, also where are the prayers over their meals, or is it like I stated in my post are we becoming Americans who do not believe in praying over your food and teaching your children about God and being thankful to what you have. Duck Dynasty although a lot of people are disagreeing with the things they have said is a great family reality show, they pray and they taught their children as well as teaching their grandchildren to pray over their meals and be thankful what they have received through that day. They have life lesson learned during the show, what life lesson is Kim teaching her children. I do like the love that Kim and Kroy have for their children and you can tell that it is there, but they live in their world and their world only. There seems to be not thankfulness for what they have been given, because for all of us who do believe in God we know that it can be taken away from you at anytime. Kim lucked up with Kroy and has a great family, now as for me she should show it. Reality shows with family and friends are always niece and sometime these can be great storylines, but like Wendy said about Honey Boo Boo reality show, this too can get boring, if there is not drama with Dont Be Tardy and it is just about a happy family, what is too keep us watching. I have a family with children, why do I need to watch someone with money have a show about their happy family with not money problems? So yes the show is missing a lot, think about it, we are watching to see keep shop and what designer thing she will get next and curse when she is not happy with something. We get to watch the kids disagree with their parents and make messes as Kim holler to her multiple help when she needs them to do something. Wow, the excitement thrills me Wendy, how long have you been watching the show?

A Walk Among The Tombstones (The Movie)

I watch the movie A Walk Among the Tombstones this past weekend and all I can say is disappointed. Now the movie too me was suppose to follow the taken movie in my opinion, which did very well and was a box office hit. But tombstone, which is definitely not taken, was a slow and somber kind of movie. In the opening the movie started out with a lot of action right away and you are too believe that this is how the entire movie will be, but it is not. The rest of the movie does not follow the opening action, don't get me wrong there are some gruesome parts, like torture to those whom are kidnapped but still you really do not get to say much of this taken place, it is just put in your head with body parts cut up and missing. So the time of the movie was surprising to me as well because you try to relate what the title has to do with the movie throughout the entire movie and you do not find this until the movie ends and even then it did not have much to do with the movie's title, what a bummer. Now Liam Neeson who I love as an actor is who is known for his somber movies did his part as an actor, but the movie plot and the way it was written could not be saved by an actor as good as Liam or any other actor for that matter. I think the movie was written poorly, a lot of action, the sort of action you are looking for was lacking and there was a lot of parts that were cut out, I guess because of the gruesomeness of it all. The movie stayed in a dark atmosphere, although people being kidnapped is nothing to be bright about. It just to me dread at points when there was a lot of talking for long periods of time and not action, and people trying to figure out things before anything really happened. There was a little boy in the movie as well and although it was a good thought on someone part, I really not sure why the little boy was there other than to be in the way and make Liam character look as though he had a heart because of his past act. I am sorry but I did not like the movie and even took a bathroom break and found that I missed nothing. It was a good thing I had food and popcorn because this movie was so long and dragging, I ate every bit of my food, drink both of my drinks and ate all of the popcorn to the end of the bowl.

Dont Be Tardy

I need to ask as anyone really watching the show Tardy for the Party, with Kim Zolciak Kiermann as I guess you will now call her. Now I told myself I would not watch this show but of course I going to watch it because I like critiquing televisions shows. Now I watch the program and I kind of knew what to expect, especially from Kim Zolciak but after having all these children and actually getting married, I did expect to see some change in Kim and her ways and I have to say that I see a little change, but that is very little. Kim impressed me how she pushed through with her twins and how she showed that a real woman can have a baby who is breached without getting a c-section, bravo on that great job. But Kim's spending and her filthy mouth is beyond what I thought she would have on the show. Kim is no means a role model, as people say that those who are on television are role models to those who watch. Every other word that comes out of Kim's mouth is profanity, I can not believe she does not try to clean her language up around her children and she does this in front of all of her children. Why would any mother think that language like this is okay for her to say but then will expect her children to do differently. Kim shops like she is insane and I know that shopping is a lot of women's thing, but you have to show your children that you have self control and spending money on selfish things is not what the world is about. Kim's and Kroy's rift between their parents is also a disappointing thing to me as well, why not try to talk to your parents and do the entire forgive and forget. If Kim thinks her mother is that bad for selling information on her secrets, something we all know Kim has did on Housewives of Atlanta to get pocket change. Just let her mother know her hurt see was about the situation, she what she has to say and she if there is some kind of compromise within the situation, let this grandmother she her grandchildren. As for Kroy, he knows how Kim is and I know that it is disappointing that your parents don't agree with who is your new wife, you can have an understanding that she is your wife and that either they can live with it or not and let them see their grandchildren. We are all entitled to our opinion about someone and you can not make people love someone just because you married them. Kim mouth is filthy for a woman or a man and she needs to clean it up around the children, at her age I do not know why she would not want to change her ways. There is a time in your life when you should have a recognizing that some of your ways are not right and that you need to change them, Kim too me has decided her way is the only way and she is not changing for anything. The reason I say anything is because you do not have to change because people want you too change, you should change because you believe it is wrong in the way you are going about things and you get this voice inside of you that tells you something is wrong. For me it is God, I do believe in God and for me he exist and he talks to me when something is wrong for me and this something that I have learned has talk me that life is not how much you have, or how much you can get over or even how much you can do more than the other man. It is about how your life reflects other, and how you as a person can make a difference in others life by the way you live yours. So for me Dont Be Tardy is not a series that is for me, it maybe for others. I personally do not know how it has lasted three seasons, other than bravo putting it on everyday they can to get people to look at it. The profanity, the shopping and Kim's 1001 surgical procedures is just not my thing.

How Do You Say No

I went on a little quick trip with my sister and her grandchildren, all five of them. Now the trip we took was only two hours away but it was in a area in our state that have a lot of resorts along with shopping, amusement parks, lots of other different entertainment. I really enjoy the resort we stayed at and the housing facility we had. What I did not enjoy was all of my sister's five grandchildren. The grandchildren was too much for me and found that as I get older and my children our grown and on their own that I myself need a quick vacation without children, especially since I raised my children and did everything with my children, like take them on trips and to amusement parks every year. So now I feel this time is my time but yet my sister talks how much of a great time her and her grandchildren had and she is planning our trip to go next year. She never asked me if I want to go or if I had a good time. Now if she noticed by the end of the trip I was ready to go and one of her grandson had gotten on my last nerve to a point on the final day, I was packed any ready to leave at 7am that morning and check out was not until 10am, the time I actually got us back home and them out of my vehicle. I am not sure how to tell my sister that I really did not find it a fun time for me with her grandchildren, especially when there parents were back home free of children. Why do she make plans with the mother and father to spend time with their children and leave me alone as I plan on taking a trip in the same area but this time with my husband and other adults, no children allowed. I should not have to worry with making sure children are having fun. I need some advice on how to handle this situation, my sister does not drive and I think she just depends on me to take her around with her grandchildren, but again this is not a responsibility of mines, it is hers and the children parents, who by the way take a quick anniversary get away while my sister is stuck with their children. I did not get to have an anniversary when I had my children, me and my husband enjoy our day with our children, if we did get away it was too a movie and back. I do not want to go with my children and her grandchildren. I love them but I just dont enjoy myself and I think my sister knows this but she is willing to ignore my feeling for her grandchildren.

Falcon Rising (Lets All Watch)

There is a new movie that has come out with Michael Jai White and Laila Ali, now although I did not see the movie yet, I have watch the previews and watched Laila Ali do interviews on the movie. The movie is an independent movie, so it is only playing in selected theaters and showing in specific places. You can buy it out Amazon as I have downloaded it from amazon and plan on watching it this weekend, so then I can really give you my review on the movie. From what I have seen it looks great, it is about a brother who was in the navy find himself having to find out who hurt his sister. Now Michael will be doing a lot of fighting in the movie to get justice for his sister and although we do not get to see Ali fight, because she will be hospitalized doing most of the movie, if they are lucky enough to do great on this particular movie, there will be a sequence and we could she Laila Ali fight along side her brother. So lets all watch this movie so the sequence can be in the making because I personally want to see how Laila and Michael fight together as sister and brother. So lets check it out and I will put a site where you can check out the preview.
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Love & Hip Hop Atlanta Reunions

I saw all three love and hip hop Atlanta reunions and I have to say that the first part was the most exciting for me. I know, I know everyone is probably saying why do you watch this show and all this drama with the fighting of grown people and my reasoning. It is just so real life. I watch Stevie and Joseline talking to the host and I heard Benzino, who in my opinion should have kept his mouth shut, talk about the two doing cocaine. Now Stevie had a natural reaction which was do you want to go at it and Joseline did as anyone with a hot temper would have, saw the opportunity to get up and punch someone like Athea in the face, but I could not believe Benzino took the opportunity to hit Joseline, what a whimp. Now you may say why am I defending Joseline and Stevie J with all the things they have done to people. Well I listen to Joseline and Stevie J do their separate interviews, after all the fighting was over and Benzino and Athea do there's, who was the most believable for me, it was Joseline and Stevie J. Joseline and Stevie J admitted they were wrong about certain things, Joseline admitted she was a hot headed woman who blood gets fired up when someone talks about her and she tends to never forget and when she promises to get someone, she does. I understand Joseline and I have been there when I was younger. When someone made me mad, I did not beleive that forgive and forget, if I saw you, believe me you were mind. I was going after that person rather it was in public or not, I was hard headed and hot tempered, just like Joseline. So when Joseline said if someone did something to her and she promoise she was going to get back at them, I believe her, it may had nothing to do with being high on drugs. I never did any drugs but my adreline was almost pumping when I was mad about a person and them pissing me off. I droped fist instead of trying to talk it out with a person because I wanted to show those people I meant business and to keep me out of their mouth, I felt like Joseline felt that I was misunderstood. Now I have to admit I admire Stevie J for actually saying that he believes that Joseline should seek some kind of counseling and I have to say I agree with him. Joseline has been through a lot in her lifetime living the life she had to live to make it. She has probably been judge by a lot of people, just because she was judged first and she always felt on the defense. Like I have grown to understand, Joseline needs help to understand how to let what others think and say about her, role off her back and keep on moving. She needs to get God in her life and listen to him and him only because what everyone else say just don't matter. So I believe that Joseline and Stevie was very open about what they felt, now the marriage is another story. Everything Benzino and Athea talked about, which was very little, seem to be a made up story or some kind of illusion, did not know what they were saying most of the time. I do not believe in Benzino's and Athea's relationship, if there is really one. So the story continues and no I do not think they will get rid of Joseline because her and Stevie J do bring on the drama, now the show may have to focus on getting Joseline some real help. Maybe they have to make the counseling a part of Joseline's contract. Joseline to you as a former hot head, take the counseling, it will not hurt you, it will only help you and may even help your career, if you not sure ask your girl K Michelle.

No Good Deed (THE MOVIE)

I was taken this weekend to the see the movie NO GOOD DEED, with Idris Elba and Taraji P Henson. I saw the previews and thought it would be a great movie to watch over the weekend and because my sister decided to give it as a birthday gift for me we went to a cintro bistro theater where we could eat a dinner and drink a little wine as we watched the movie. I am not a movie critic but I do speak on what I have personally watched with my on eyes and I am here to tell you the movie was worth watching. Of course Idris Elba who is a great performer did his role as a convicted felony and Taraji P Henson as a mother of two played a woman who was not just a mother but a mother who once had a promising career. The movie had some things that were not surprising and I would tell you but I do not want to ruin it if you did not see it, but the movie also had a twist that again I will not reveal. All I have to say is the movie was worth seeing and the star characters did not disappoint. I tried eating my dinner but did not once want to take my eye off the screen in fear of missing something. I heard that they possibly want Denzel Washington to play the first black James Bond but watching Mr. Elba in this movie I would have to say that I think he would do more justice by playing the first black James Bond, no offense Denzel but I think Elba and his british accent has a one up on you. So if you are wondering if you should go and see this movie or if it is worth spending your money to go see it, I will tell you a definite yes, it is worth your money and it one of those movies you do not want to leave while it is playing, so use the bathroom before and get your food either before the movie starts or during the previews because you don't want to miss a thing.

Basketball Wives Reunion 4-28-14

Okay I must admit it was off the chain, the basketball wives reunion took it too another level. I also must admit I admire Draya for not attending, she is in a place she is feed up with the B.S. and she decided seeing Jamie's face would set her off, I know it would set me off. I would have been like the ladies in the audience and have jumped on the stage just to have whipped Jackie's old A**. Did anyone see Jackie on the stage trying to act bad as if she was going to fight someone, she need to get that rocking chair out and use it. Now as for Sundy I am in agreement with the other women that she has some deep issues. She has children that do not like her and to hear her daughter took, she would never win the mother of the year award. Now to me Malaysia and British were the only two acting like real ladies. I was sorry to hear about Malaysia situation, I lost my youngest brother some time back and it still hurts. As for Brittish she got that huge ring for her man doing wrong, that is one way to do it, get what you can girl. Brittany I pray for you and wish you all the luck for that nect miracle baby and you are right it does seem like people of Sundy's evilness who don't take care of their children can have them and someone like you who do take care of your child is not blessed with one. Now we talk about who I want to see back next season, Malaysia would not confirm if she was returning but I am hoping she does. Draya is probably not returning but if Shawny was thing she would do everything to bring Draya, who is young and beautiful, back and get rid of old azz Jackie and leave her alone with her husband to drink her cognac. Jackie think she is the star of the show and she runs things, that is when you need to be brought down a peg. I believe Malaysia, Brittany,  British, Draya and believe it or not Sundy should come back, I believe she would change with no Jackie around, let the beast go, please. Jackie is like the black plague, something you don't want and if you got it you do everything you can to get rid of. I also must say cudos to the host he did a much better job than the host of the housewives Atlanta's reunion, with keeping the women separated and setting things straight with his own opinions.

The Real Housewives of Atlanta (4-27-14)

I watched Houseswives of Atlanta last night reunion and have watched the show from the very beginning. I listen to people like Wendy Williams, who may watch the show off and on and make what the call their decisions of who must go. According to Wendy almost the entire cast should go, she includes Kandi, Phadera, Nene, Cynthia, and Porsha. What about that trashy Kenya. Now for all of you who know the show is called housewives, not single women who open their legs to any available men. I am in totally disagreement with a lot of people that Nene should go, Nene is still doing the show and she is playing the game she should play. I disagree with Kandi being kicked off as well as Porsha, I do agree with Cynthia and Kenya leaving, because Kenya is not a housewife and Cynthia is just boring. Cynthia used her relationship with Nene to stay on the show and if you ask me Peter does not want to get kicked off the show so he tried to abstain him and Cynthia's part on the show by being a bit** and getting into the women's business. Yes I think Peter was in fear of him and Cynthia being cut from the show and the show is the only real money they have coming in so he had to do something that would make Bravo want to keep them on the show. Everyone know that Peter is in all this financial turmoil with Bar One, and we also know Peter does not tell Cynthia every thing so the situation is probably worse than what he is admitting to Cynthia. Peter spends money and does not tell Cynthia, you see the new car Peter brought and all that money he just keeps on spending. I am looking for the two to file for bankruptcy in the near future. If Bravo cuts Cynthia, watch what happen to this couple. Everyone is so ready to hate on Nene they are not realizing what Peter is trying to do, he is trying to save his wife's place on the show. Kenya is so busy trying to get more money and be the star of the show, she is trying to get anyone that could possibly be a threat kicked off the show. I do not like the dirty games Kenya is playing because she is playing with people life and trying to make Nene look bad by saying she is snubbing her fans. Kenya wants to be the next Nene and she figured what better way to do this by making Nene look bad to people and she become the star, this is a true back stabber. What Kenya is not realizing is what goes around comes around and Karma can be a bit**. Stop acting innocent Kenya, you are trying to be the top BIT*H and I am not buying it. I think for all your antics you should no longer be a factor, goodbye. I think a housewives show should be actual housewives not a women using these pretend men as a potential of becoming a housewife.