Blank Ink Crew (@BlankInkCrew @VH1)The excitement is Back

Tonight  Black Ink Crew was one of the best episodes that I have seen in a long time. I am glad Ceser proposed to Dutchess, he should not have let others direct his life and lead him into a empty fog. People likeTeddy who clearly can not get his act together rather it be a woman or a real job. It is just like Sky sude Ted will be on the couch forever in Black Ink if Ceser lets him. Ted needs to grow be a real man and stop judging others for doing their thing, if you ask me Ted sounds  jealous of Ceser, why else will you own cousin talk sh** about  you to another guy. Where I come from blood is thicker than water and you never turn your back on your relatives, no matter how mad you are at them. We found out tonight that O*s*it name is really Richard, does not suit him. But I have to commend O*s*it for finally being responsible and taking the steps to check into getting a vasectomy. No man should be scared to take a precaution to prevent  unwanted children from coming into the world and then not taking care of them, why should it always be the woman's responsibility.  And why in the he** is snagger tooth Puma trying to give O*s*it advice and try talking him out of the surgery and scare the man by trying to say the are going to cut his bal*s. I dont care how young Richard is, he have  three children and talks if he has no plan on really getting married anytime soon, and the mans baby mamas are all crazy. Get the bal** cut and get them cut quick, dont look back and dont pass go, no need to think about when you have os*hit's life. I love  you girl Sky but  you disappointed me when you kissed that dead weight Teddy, if he wanted to sleep with you I know you would have done it and that is all he was doing was testing you to see if he could get in your pants anytime he called, guess what Sky, you felled the test with a big F-, sorry girl. The highlight of the night was Cesar's party for his reopening.  Yes the party was a little empty and rain can keep people away, but why did Puma find the need to come to Ceser's party, get drunk and talk mad sh** about this man's party being a dead beat. Why did Puma think standing in the middle of the floor and putting everthing in the man shop down was a cool thing to do and the man was not suppose to get mad. After Ceser told the man he did not appreciate what he was doing, Puma had the ordacity to say he coukd not take a joke, you don't joke on a man's livelihood. So how did Ceser react to Puma who threw a chicken bone in the man's floor as a sign of disrespect.  He did the onlt thing he could, he oicked up Puma's boney a**, swung him around like a  rag doll and slam his a**hard on the floor where Puma threw the chicken bone. Now  that is what I call a man, you disrespect my place and I will lay you flat in front of everyone.  Puma is a big show off and the shop got a show when Ceser laid him down flat. I needed the action, I jumped to my feet at the excitement. Thank you Ceser for a real man take down that brought a little  excitement back to television.  Instead of thise women cat fight we got to see two men,well one and a half man. Puma tried to get back in the shop to get to Cesar like he really was going to do something, other than end up on the floor again. Wow now thats funny.

Real Housewives Of Atlanta (#RHOA)

I did not think that the real housewives of Atlanta could get anymore ratchet then it alreadywas but I was truly mistaken. I guess in order to secure their roles on the show Peter and Cynthia are digging the bottom of the barrel and making a living of other peoples mishaps on the show. Apollo talked to Peter for support and Peter could not wait until he got home to tell Cynthia all the juicy gossip,  does this not sound familiar. We all judged NeNe for saying Peter was acting like a bit**, now man are quick to say females gossip, so what does Peter do, act like a female dog and spills everthing Apollo tells him to his wife. As for Ms. Cynthia her loyalty seem to lay with that check that bravo keeps on rolling in. I guess Cynthia is so scared of getting fired off the show she has to keep the drama going by feeding into unproven lies and passing it on to the devil in disguise herself Miss Kenya, knowing Kenya is going to blow the entire concept out of context. Why would Cynthia want to see Phadera hurting when she knows the women is going through a lot already and trying to do what is right for her children.  Cynthia always acted is she had a good heart but I can not tell it from her very ugly attitudes recently.  Cynthia is making dislike her more andmore and I ddefinitely put her in the same boat as Kenya. They are greedy hungry bitch** that will do anything to make a dollar this include making that paycheck off other peoples misery, wow what some as*es. Now Miss Claudia has stepped in with the fake crocodiles tears like Kenya acting though if she is being bullied by Porsha.  Please Claudia if a person does not what to talk with you or hang with you, you keep walking and move on like a real bit** who has her stuff together would do. No one defies your life but you and if you choose to cry over something so petty you have bigger issues and they pay someone with a degree to help you with that, like you paid someone to finally do that jacked up hairdo of yours after you had the audacity to talk about NeNe hair and you talk about bullying, can we say Hippocrate.

True Life Story (The Passing Of A Loved One)

I write blogs because I enjoy writing them, but recently I have not felt in the mood because I had a tragedy. My husband passed away on Feb. 4th, it was quick, me and my daughter saw him early that morning and I said goodbye to him as I headed to work, at around 11:30am he called me to talk about something and we both said we love you before we hung the phone up. At around 2:30 pm I was being told by my husband best friend that I needed to get to the hospital because he had passed out. I called his sister to see if she could go to the hospital and check on him thinking he just had a fainting spell. Well his friend came to my job and told me I needed to get to the hospital quickly, now I started to worry and called his sister who told me they would not tell her anything at the hospital and that they were waiting on me. So of course I left the job immediately picked up my daughter who was worrying about her father as well and on our way to the hospital I get a call from the sister who was in tears and saying get there get there immediately. Now I am in tears and my daughter is in tears and I called my brother who told me he will meet me at the hospital. As we jump out the car and go into the emergency room we are meet by my nephew who rushes us to the back to a room in which two of my sister husband meets us crying hard all while telling us he has pass on and my daughter collapse. I could not believe it and told them they must have the wrong person, have they actually laid eyes on him and his sister said they were waiting on me being the wife, the nurse come in and ask are we ready to go back and see him. The entire time we are following the nurse, my daughter holding on to my arm, I am thinking to myself this can not be him. His sister enters the room first and begins crying louder and I am immediately know it is him and my daughter who is next in the rooms runs out and I stand over his body thinking he is just asleep, he looks as peaceful as when he is asleep and I touch his body which still feels warm and I said to myself they are mistaken he is just asleep. One of his sister ask did they do everything possible to try and bring him back and they said yes, he was actually to far gone before reaching the hospital, he actually died in ambulance on the way to the hospital. I was overly shocked in disbelief but I also knew that my husband had heart disease and had triple bypass surgery in 2000. But in my mind he still had plenty of time to live and be with his family, it seemed so unexpected but then I began tracking his last days back in my mind. My husband died on a Wednesday, on that Monday he and me were down stairs watching television that evening and he ask me was I ready to go to bed and I said yes and upon going to get up, he said hold on I am having chest pains I need to sit back down a little bit, so I sit back down with him until he was ready. I had been working a lot of hours the last three weeks and had to continue working these hours, so every time I came home I was exhausted and I realized I was too exhausted to realize one of the signs as to him having that chest pain on Monday, I should have made him take on of his nitro pills and got him to the hospital immediately, something I did in 2000 and the doctor said I had saved his life. I feel guilty about not catching this sign like I did in the past and I feel guilty about working so hard that I did not realize how much my husband was doing for everyone else and not taking care of himself. I should have taken care of my husband, because he was the man who thought he needed to take care of others so him ignored his own needs. I want people to understand that you can help others but remember is you do not take care of you then you can not take care of others like you want because you can lose your life like my husband. He is no longer here to take care of his sisters, brothers or me because he did not take care of him. He was a man of many talents and help other solve their problems but now he is gone and we are left wondering what we are going to do without him, how are we going to fix our problems or get needed things done without his input of solutions, or his talented skills he had. My husband was very knowledgeable, he had mad gifted skills and it was not item he could not fix, question he could not solve, or make shift item he could not come up with. I said my husband was a McGuyver in disguise but a lot of his skill came from his military training in infantry. You make think about the hell someone has put you through over the years and I think I even wrote about his discretion, but all this does not over come the good times and everything is cleared and forgotten as soon as that person that was an important part of your life is no longer there. That is why people have to learn to forgive as I did and do it before that person is gone.