Tamar Braxton (What Are You Saying)

Wow Tamar I thought you were getting it together when you walked out a relationship that apparently was becoming on healthy for you although you will not admit what really is going on and you seem to be hiding a lot of things in your closet. For every reason Tamar it is that you don't want to say things are not as they appear, I myself was respecting you right to privacy and what went on in your own private life, although you threw a lot of stones at your sister's houses. But Tamar what was that statement that you got on the Steve Harvey show and made. You said that a woman should change herself for a man, or what did you mean a woman should become whomever that man wants her to be. Tamar are you teaching young girls that they should pretend to be someone they are not for their men, or they should become something they are not for their man's satisfaction, or our you just saying a woman can't be herself too her man if that is not what they want? Really Tamar can you please explain this to me because I am so confused right now at the message you sent to so many young impressible women in the world. You said you had over a 100 blonde wigs because you knew that is what Vince liked, but you did not explain how that really worked out for you, especially since you are in the process of a divorce and things are more then a bit crazy. So Tamar you said Vince was happy when you became this other person with the blonde hair, or when you were not who you really wanted to be or when you decided you had to be someone other than yourself all the time? So Tamar can a women really be happy when she has to pretend to be another woman for her man all the time, or can a women really be happy when she tries so hard to please her man she forgets who she is and becomes someone who she do not recognize? Tamar I am still trying to understand is it really happiness if a woman is pleasing her man but in the process loses herself. I am not understand Tamar if you were making your man so happy by doing everything he wanted then why is it that he still stepped out on you, allegedly. You can try as a woman to please your man over and over again to make him happy but when two people get married in the eyes of God, I thought they both make that promise to make each other happy and work together in the marriage to make it a union that God is proud of. One that is filled with communication, respect, honor and love. Not I will make you happy as I am miserable in the process. I will do for you while you do not do for me and give me all the excuses why you should not have to do for me because I am the one with the money. So Vince apparently when Tamar married him had plenty of money and apparently this was a motive for Tamar to marry him and he controlled all the money so Tamar was his paid wife, wow. That is it, Tamar was chasing that dollar bill and in the process she got played. People are so quick to sale their souls for a dollar bill and in the process don't realize what they are really doing to themselves. Young women I have a word of advice and it is not the one Tamar gave you from her book of lessons, but it is from that book called the Bible, you know the one with God words are written in. If you keep God's word and follow what God has told you to do in his book the Bible and apply his plan to your life, everything else will fall into place. That husband, the children your long life journey of living and watching those around you prosper. So you don't change who you are for man because man can steer you wrong, you don't do things to please a man because man is just that a man and if he is not happen with you, a child of God, then he can be happy with no one and you should not have to change who you are to make him happy because he will not find happiness in you unless he puts God first. Put God first women, not men, and walk that walk to greatness in Jesus name, Amen.

The Braxton Family Values Has Returned with a Bang

Me for one was so glad to see the Braxton return because I was under the impression that they were not planning on doing anymore shows. With the Tamar and Vince situation going on I was hoping the show would return with Tamar, who open some what on her and Vince show, would go into more detail on what was really happen with her marriage. But in normal Tamar fashion, she did what she always do and that was walk away when her sisters tried questioning her about her marriage. Tamar was a hard hitter when the Braxton Family Values show season began and was always going at her sister hard about their husbands and their bad men they had and their destructive relationships. Tamar bashed everyone her sisters about their choices in men and how none of their men could compare to Vince. Now that the shoe is on the other foot, Tamar is not speaking and says she owes none of her sisters any explanations. Well Tamar how quickly do we forget, that you were all in middle, front and back of your sisters when they were going through things with their husband and you will not let the sisters even get a fork in between your and Vince situation and you have to wonder why. Why is Tamar fighting so hard against anyone knowing what has been expiring between her and her husband, is it because of Logan. Now if this is all to protect Logan I can kind of understand, but at the same time your sisters had kids and yet you was on television putting the fathers of their children down on tv, so why is you situation so different Tamar. Everyone is claiming that Vince is abusing Tamar and we can not get a clarification on this because Tamar is not talking, but that does not stop mama, who was staying in the home to help Tamar with Logan from talking and mama says she knows what she knows. But everyone even though they suspect it does not have a real definitive answer for the horses mouth herself that Vince has abused her. Tamar was on Steve Harvey show and they talked about women being abused and what a woman should do in that situation and Tamar went in on this subject and everyone said that this was proof that she was admitting to the abuse, but everyone fails to remember that Tamar was married before. Vince was Tamar's second marriage and the man that Tamar was married to before was known to abuse Tamar and this was one that she admitted too. So Tamar abusive situation in her first marriage could be a sort of embarrassment to her because she could be so ashamed that she got into the same situation a second time. Now with all this being said I wonder why no one talks about Tamar's first marriage, including Tamar. When Tamar was going into all her sisters the way she did about their husband and marriages, why did none of them through her first marriage in her face. It seems to me that Tamar's sister are more of a sister to her then she are to them, with all the judgement Tamar threw at her sister at the begin of the show airing, she had her own skeletons and really had no place to talk. So the show for me has started out with a bang but I am looking for Tamar to become more open what is going on in her marriage too her sisters, like she was open to her friends on her show. Tamar seem to talk more to her friends about what she is going through and close herself to her family. I think Tamar you will feel a lot better if you are open to your sisters and stop trying to get the show, like I allegedly heard that you were trying to get them to edit things out about Vince. Let it all on the table Tamar and you really need to stop making it look as if you mother is a liar, wow, talk about sin against the parent.

Married to Medicine Reunion Part 3 (Well Done)

Of all the reunion shows I have seen I must say Married to Medicine you out did them all with the way you guys brought forth your true emotions to this stage. You guys were so open and honest about your feelings and tears were streaming down my face as you all open up to one another, especially Simone as she tried to fight back the tears without putting Cesar out on blast but at the same time showing that there was some deep rooted secret that was making her feel a very strong dislike for her husband. This all came to surface when everyone of the cast members got involved, at first I though this was not a good idea but after hearing everyone talk and everyone being calm as they talk and not in judgement or to point fingers. The cast reminded Cesar what he needed to grab his wife back into is arms if he really wanted her back, they let Cesar know what he was doing wrong and tried to explain to him why it was so essential for him to understand from his wife point of view, why something he thought was so innocent was very wrong in his wife eyes. All I could say was wow as I listen to everyone talk and actually understood where they all was coming from. I also believe that I began understanding Cesar a little better. Cesar is truly a nerd who loves his wife, Cesar was not trying to hurt his wife but was lacking in some area and did not know how to handle a situation that involved a friend got out of control. Instead of Cesar just saying to the friend they needed to not come around Cesar the nerd was thinking this friend was there to help the entire family, but what Cesar the nerd did not know is that women can be cunning and if certain women see something they want and have no boundaries, they will go after it, not matter who stands in the way. So Simone having the divorce papers signed up was very true and she was very hurt by something her husband did and felt it was over for them and she as a strong woman refused to live a lie, unlike some woman choose to do, or pretend that they really are happy and neglect to look deeply at what happiness really is. So now we come to a stand and there is a break taken and the Simone needs to get off stage for a while as Cesar is surrounded by a group of the cast to talk to him about what he needs to do to get his wife back, while Toya goes off to Simone side and trying to convince her that she needs to come back on stage and listen, really listen what her husband has to say because he does not want the divorce and he loves his wife but he is not sure what to do to stop it because his wife has made up his mind. Well the ending went really well, although everyone did not get a chance to solve their issues or really go deep into their issues, Simone listened to Cesar and they talked and kissed and decided the divorce will be postponed as they go back into to consulting and really work at it, can we get a Amen. A couple of 21 years is going to give their marriage a chance and I can say from the bottom of my heart guys, I am praying for each of you guys steps as you find your way back to one another arm, because we know it will happen. What a reunion to remember, I never have seen such a stage full of classy women and men couples who made me proud this final day of the reunion. I love you guys and wish you all the best.

Bambi and Scrappy Married?????

So when did this happen, Bambi and Scrappy married, supposedly last year is what I am hearing. So why was Scrappy on Love and Hip Hop Miami or is this why he had a short and very limited time with his appearance on this show, because as I am hearing the two of them were married around October of last year, so him coming being on the show turned into something different and that is why we did not see him. So now it sounds like they are settled in Atlanta, so does this mean by any chance that they may end up appearing on Love and Hip Hop Atlanta, or maybe Bambi will end up on Atlanta housewives, now that I would love to see. Bambi with all those bogie , any way I am happy for Bambi and Scrappy as I am sure a lot of people are because we in the public thought you guys made a great couple and I know myself was very disappointed when you guys went your separate ways, I was sadden but had accepted the fact and did not have a clue that you guys had found your way back to one another and now is one. Scrappy by the way I am in love with your father and you can do a lot by following his guidance, him and your step mom are really a great and spiritual couple and this is what I want for you and Bambi. I do think the show was interfering a lot with Bambi and Scrappy's relationship and that is what made it so hard for them to really work on it, because the show was just full of drama and they purposely created rift among you guys. It seems as soon as you guys took the time to get away from the show and the drama, you actually found the time to get your relationship back in tack, enough to take it to the alder, or lets say in front of God with your promises to each other, and that is what you should do, remember the promises you made together in front of God, don't put other people in between and you guys might just be that dual couple, you hear me. I am so excited in hearing this news and so happy for you guys I just want to jump for joy and look forward to when you do come back on the television as a married couple so all those women who had so much too say about you guys relationship can  just shut up. Maybe Bambi and Scrappy can get their own show, sh** Stevie J did it why not those two, they would be more interesting then watching Stevie J trying to grow up with his children and decided if he does or does not need a woman by his side, how sad is that at his age. Anyway whatever Bambi and Scrappy decides to do or Love and Hip Hop decides to give them their own reality show, I will back you guys and write about it on my blog, because you two in my eye can be that dual couple. Some people may not see it but I do. Bambi is a strong woman who can hold her man down and Scrappy has his woman's back no matter what, and that is what makes a couple a couple. They may argue behind close doors but when they go out into the world, they got to have each other back no matter what an d take on that world together. Again, congratulations Bambi and Scrappy, you bother deserve it.

Black Ink Crew (Cuckoo Sky)

What are you doing Sky, this situation with  your son is really upsetting me. He is so emotionally upset and we have to understand we may have kids and there may have been things that we did for our kids that we may have thought was better for them, but we have to also remember that not all children handle things or accept things the same way. Listening to your son Sky say that he remember as a young boy that you dropped him off with strangers and never look backed, and to hear you say that yes you did this but you not accepting him being angry because you gave him a better life, well that is bullshit Sky. Your son has a right to be angry, some kids never forget that image in their heads and as a child you don't understand why your mother is leaving you and especially why she never comes back is a hard thing for a grown up to accept, how do you expect this child, who is still that child in his mind to understand this. Sky before you dropped your son off, although I know you was young, you should have explained to him why you was doing what you was doing and damn sure should have made sure you visited him at least one time, and talk to him again why you had to do this. Why not Sky have at least written your young son a letter or letters to let him know how you was feeling and how much you love him to remind him that you may not be there in body but you was with him in spirit. So yes Sky your son is angry and he really has a right to be angry and you should hear this young man out so he can get what he needs off his chest and know that you hear how he felt as a child and then maybe he can move on. Meet with your son Sky with an open mind and don't carry on about how his daddy and how Duchesses is getting in his mind, stop the finger pointing and move on to working on you and your son repairing a relationship. Let your son go back to that moment when he was a child and let him tell you what he felt and how was it for him after you left him, listen to your son Sky and stop getting into these crazy antics with people on the show to make you larger then life, because right now Sky that craziness you is showing just makes you look like an idiot in my opinion. How is it that Sky is trying to block Teddy from getting any game, why is it that if any of the women in the shop want to mess with Teddy, Sky goes off. Does Sky and Teddy have a relationship or am I missing something? And why Teddy, you as a grown man letting Sky dictate whom and whom not you mess with. But Teddy I must say you did look like a punk ass when Sky ask you did you mess with the girl and you covered up your head and face, what the "f" was that about. If you are a man who can mess with whomever you please, then straight up tell Sky,  hell yeah I mess with her and what is it too you, but maybe you two are still doing the do, uggg. If Teddy and Sky are still messing around, I hope someone is using protection, please tell me protection is being used, why is the thought making me shake. I am not a fan of Sky any more, she creates drama and I know some people like that, but her drama is crazy drama with a capital C that I don't like. She is over extra, loud and just nasty for no reason. Now there is Melody, I really love you girl and your relationship and by the way your son is the cutest, oh I could eat that little man up. I am so glad you connected with your father's family, now you need to call your father and tell him because he needs to see his family before he dies, there is nothing like family and he seems to have a great one.

Married to Medicines Part I and Part II Reunion

Wow, these reunions from married to medicine have been very gripping. I mean everyone is laying it out on the line and they are talking from their hearts which is making these reunions so great and so juicy. But Curtis is still trying to take the heat off himself by attacking someone else, like Eugene just as he did Jackie when he so called talked about his cheating but threw that boomerang to attack that person he is having the conversation with. In my opinion Curtis needs to see a therapist because he is failing to admit his part or really talk about what he did was wrong, all he is talking about is how everyone else mistakes and where they went wrong, like telling Jackie she made no time for him like this was a reason to break your vow and telling Eugene instead of talking about what he did on the show he should have come to him as a man and talked about it instead of saying it on the show for the entire world to see. Why not Curtis, you did wrong, you are wrong and you continue to be wrong for pointing all those fingers at everyone else and trying to make them feel guilty for what they said about or did too you. Why does Jackie accept what Curtis has done and try and work it out when he is showing the world that he is not really accepting his part. Curtis had no problem with flaunting this young woman around knowing he had a wife, so what is the problem with putting his business out on television. Now listening to Simone talk about her and Cecil divorcing, wow, no I did not see this coming but I do understand that you can live with someone who refuses to give you what you need and that is just living a lie. If Cecil if refusing to get help where they need it and live a lie because of television and what he thinks everyone else will think, well Cecil I have to admit Simone is right, why live together. Now it makes more sense as to why Simone got the separate house and why she was feeling comfortable living there alone. When you live in a house with someone and they dont say they love you or show you any love, you feel the emptiness and try and find out what are you guys doing anyway. Why be in a house with someone alone, when you can live alone and not feel uncomfortable and the negativity that comes from them being unhappy so they start making you feel unhappy. Wow these reunions are hitting home for a lot of people, it reminds me of my marriage to my late husbands and the struggles we had to go through before we got to a point where we knew what we had to do to live our life and make what God put together work like he planned. Thank God me and my husband figured it out before he died and oh what joyous years we spent enjoying each others company as we walked together with smiles on our faces as we realized we figured how to make our marriage work that involved no one but us and God. Now Mariah and Heavenly you need to let this go, we all know Heavenly is messy and does not believe the wrong of her wrongs, so leave it alone and let Heavenly hang herself on her words. So let the petty things go, Quad, you still throwing those pebbles at Mariah but yet you can't get your marriage to make any sense, I say this because I am confused on your marriage Quad, I really am. So before you point fingers Quad or judge others, get that train of a marriage not look like an ugly wreck.

Real Housewives of Atlanta (Kandi What Are You Up Too?)

Kandi all we are hearing out your mouth is Tyrone, Tyrone, Tyrone, you are bringing up Tyrone more then Sheree and why is this Kandi? Why Kandi are you confronting NeNe about a man that she said she really has nothing to do with other than knowing him some years ago and she has not talk to the man since. So why Kandi are you stirring up a pot that don't need to be stirred. Oh I get it, at least in my opinion I get it, I see Kandi, if you focus on this Tyrone guy and Sheree and NeNe, guess what, know one will notice that you have no storyline at all and that your family has completely being left out of this season, what the crap. So Kandi you don't have a story line so to keep yourself relevant you dig in other people business, the same thing you got upset about when people were digging in you and your family business, can you say hypocrite. Kandi even got upset when NeNe and Sheree shared a laugh together, so why are you upset that Sheree and NeNe laugh together. It seems as almost Kandi want people to be at each others throat, if they can actually get along Kandi does not like it, she acts as if these people are being phony, but did not you do this with Porsha. Yes Kandi you act as if everything was alright with you and Porsha when she was around and that was all good, so why can't NeNe and Sheree do this, why do they have to be going at each other throats. Kandi you are all on this page in my opinion because I feel like you are a sneaky snake, you pretend to be something you are not and judge others when it is not your job to judge others. You ask if you life is all good but you in my opinion are a negative person when it comes to other people life. Kandi you show a lot of negativity at others and their situation, why show so much negativity towards others, unless you are not happy. But then Kandi you say that everyone want you and everyone wants to be you and are hating on you. Kandi if you have God in you then you know that God does not show hatred of others, I know you only human and we fall down, but if you can at least show positiveness on the outside and try to work on the negativity on the inside, you will find that God will work in amazing ways on you and how you really handle certain situation. Not for you too gossip and try to stir up drama in other people life, while you hide your own life, or try and hide your own personal life from the public. You have to remember the harder you try and hide your own demons in your closet, the harder they work to come out and to light for the entire world to see. Work on you Kandi without trying to bring others down in the process. This fixation you have on NeNe, Tyrone and Sheree needs to stop, stop trying to make something that is not there, there for you to stay relevant on the show. If you really want to show people that you are person who is just trying to live your life, then keep quiet on others situations and relationship. What you said Kandi, let it go then you took it back, yeah girl you have problems.

Little Women: Atlanta

I have not talk much about the show lately because it still has been more drama then anything. But now with Andrea being pregnant once again, which I am with the mother this is such a bad idea. What I must say I agree with is that Andrea talks about possibly putting the baby up for adoption, now this is a good idea for her and her boyfriend. Andrea has just been having babies and not really being in a situation in which she can really take care of these babies. Her mother and father already has her son whom she wants to get custody of, but now they are talking about adding another baby to the mix. This is the only good idea I think I have heard Andrea say out of her mouth, she is always so angry and I think a lot of this comes from stress and the pressure she has on taking care of her little children and trying to keep her relationship going. Now I know that Amanda has a lot to stay about this decision, but Amanda you are not the one in Andrea's situation and you do not have to take care of the babies, just play with them and walk away. Also Andrea, other then her parents do not really have anyone who really has her back or can help her take care of the babies like need be. Now with Andrea having all these complications, like she had before, so why would you want to put yourself through so much stress,which she is having because this. They want to keep Andrea off her feet and she has to take care of Aubrey and Chris seems to be there now, but how much help is Chris, he needs to work on getting a job instead of being at home having to take care of Andrea and Aubrey. Someone has to work, really, the show will not last for ever guys and besides a man should work outside the home in my opinion. By the way does anyone know about Chris other family, I remember when him and Andrea was having all these fights and going back and forth and he kept running away, from my personal opinion when a man keep running out on you like that it means they usually have another woman hidden some where. Then Andrea mother mention that Chris was with a women in Texas, down the street from them, she knew where the woman was, what the? So Chris would argue with Andrea, storm out to go back to Texas, where in Texas, apparently to some woman's house he mess with on the side. In my real true opinion, Andrea you are doing the right thing putting your child up for adoption and letting someone who is more stable enough to take care of your child do so, and if be have an open adoption where you can visit the child when you want to, to check in on her to see how she is progressing.