D L Hugley (Judgement on Bill Cosby)

I listen to the D.L. Hugley radio show and heard his comment about Bill Cosby and these allegations that has come out about him as of lately and I have to say that I was a little surprise. Now I know there was not love lost between Bill and D.L. but to put this man down as he did on the show all because he did not like what he did on his stand up jokes. I will tell you now D.L. Hugley I was not a fan of you stand up comedy and stop watching after I heard you talked about certain people out of their name but I did watch your television show and liked it and I also was enjoying your radio show until I heard the antic you put on about Bill Cosby. I am no way gratifying what Bill Cosby may or may not have done, but I listen to some women who talk of something that happen many years ago and want to know why now are they so call coming out with these allegations. It is sad to think about but we know in this country when it comes to being a person of color you will always be judged and put in second class when it comes to people making decision about your life. We know that if we wanted to go back we can look at the early twenties, thirties, forties, fifties and so on their were women who in the movie industry that were taken advantage of by men of power in that industry, if they wanted to grow in their careers. I am sure their are a lot of women who can talk of men who took advantage of them at young ages in that industries. I heard of security guards talking of what Bill Cosby having women sent to his room, now talk of the other celebrities who did it as well because we know it was not just Bill. We know that men were being men as they always are and doing at time when women rights were not look at much, men basically got their opportunity to take advantage of these women. Now doing a time when Bill Cosby was suppose to have done what he did, how many of these women and men were running around talking about make love, not war and smoking all kinds of drugs as the orgies were the rage of that time. Most parties back then were orgies and a lot of these young girls were not willing it was just they were high off the things they smoked and snorted and so on. So come on D. L. Hugley if you are going to make Judgement of Bill then you will have to dig and go make judgement on a lot of things that happen during those times. Janice Dickerson is speaking out and this is the first time this woman has been sober since she started modeling in the sixties and she ask as if Bill is the only man who may have taken advantage of her, he maybe the only black man that has taken advantage of her but I definitely doubt he is the first.

The Real Housewives of Atlanta

I have continue to watch the real housewives of Atlanta as I said I would but I am not liking a lot of what I see. It seems as if certain people such as Cynthia and Kendra are fighting for their positions of the show and because of this they are putting on shows. Cynthia is showing her a** to the viewers by putting what she said is that negative energy out of her life but she is bringing Kendra into her life, and we are suppose to believe that Kendra has no negative energy, yeah right. What about this friend of Kendra who is new to the show, Claudia. She is divorced, again another cast member who is not a housewife but a single woman out to get what is hers, as they explain. Claudia does not have children, as Kendra does not and apparently they really don't know what it takes to run a real family household, the reasoning I thought they started housewives show, to show how a woman can be married, raise a family and have a career all at the same time. It is being to seem to me they are changing the game this season of the housewives of Atlanta with sneaking other single women into the show. We finally got Kandi married off so she would experience what the rest of these women were experiencing, now we have to go through another group of single women who are on a housewives show trying to get a possible spin off if they think they are special enough to wow the show and the viewers. Yes we know what agendas some of you have but I am a little focused on Apollo and Phadera situation, I am on the side of Phadera. This women knows that her husband made a choice and when he made that choice to do wrong, he was not thinking about his family and now he has the nerve to want Phadera to think about him and stand by his side, what an ego on this man. I have to say that I was hoping the show had gotten rid of Kendra because I am not a fans of hers and I think she is only bringing the fakeness to the show, pretending to have a boyfriend when she did not and then this so called African prince that no one got to see, boy she is really grasping at straws to make us believe she has some kind of relationship or can get a relationship. Kendra is almost as pitiful as Kandi was when she first began on the show with no man but the difference is Kendra is older then what Kandi was and the hopes of a baby has faded as well as a man. So what do Kendra do, she decides as most single women do when they can not get a man, they act as if they will focus on their careers and forget that they want a man or a baby, yeah right. If you are a woman who wants a man and a baby, it will always be on your mind. Maybe Kendra if you stop looking for a man and put your trust in God, which you seem to be failing to do in your life, he will send that man right to your door stop. Stop all the fake, drama air you put on for television because we don't need the crocodile tears and the pretending you don't want the cameras in your face. Kendra has a narcissistic personality in opinion, vain, self-loving, self-admiring, etc, you get the point.

The Walking Dead (11-16-14)

So we find out that Carol on the walking dead did not plan to in up in the hospital where Beth is, but we do know no a little more about Carol and her journey when she was kicked out by Rick. I was not understanding why the go who played everyone hates Chris took the weapons from Carol and Darryl and left these two people out in the open to fight creatures with not real way to protect themselves, I thought he would be more humane after dealing with those crazies in the hospital but then again I guess after dealing with those crazies in the hospital you do not know who to trust. Now that Carol has ended up in the hospital with Beth some people are doubting that these two really will be able to get out, but we already know that Darryl is going back to get his group to do some serious fighting and it will be on. I think Carol, once she gets well will be back to her old self and when she wakes up she will automatically go into defense mood because of her love for Beth and the need to protect her. I think Carol who was doubting her sanity and reason for being here anymore will understand that she is needed and why she is needed when her extinct kicks in siting Beth. I think the fight will be on and I will not predict who they will lose in the fight because we all know that the finale is coming up and with a finale coming up anything can happen and that could even mean someone dying in the situation. Rather the will finish the fighting scene this season or next only stands to remain. What I will voice my opinion on is how disappointed that there return episodes are so short, this was one of the quickest season I think I seen as of yet because there is only two episodes left, but I understand the writers have to stay on their toes and have to break it up because they have so much to write on and they have to keep it fresh and going. Great job writers but I still think you could make the sessions a little longer, give us just a little more. You made us wait forever for this return episode, so don't keep us waiting too long, the anticipation kills us.

The Real Housewives Of Atlanta

Housewives of Atlanta is back with much anticipation from fans like myself, only the best housewives show on the air. Anyway this show has really started off a bit messy to me and the reasons can easily be explained. We have Apollo who is about to go to prison, I am so sad that this man has to be out of his children lives for as long as he does because he really does love his boy, but we all know that is you do the crime you must do the time, depending on who you are, that is a wink wink at the American so called Justice system. I have to say I understand Phadera's position on the entire thing, she has her boys to think about, so I personally can see why Phadera has turned her back on Apollo because he turned his back on his family when he decided to take this route. I myself would be like Phadera and focus on my boys and let Apollo who is a grown man who has been to prison before do what he needs to do to prepare to go to prison mentally. Again Apollo was not thinking about his family in this equation apparently and now he wants to cry, well people may call me cold but I would have done exactly what Phadera did and I will say to Phadera you do what you need to get you and your sons through this. Now another mess is Cynthia and her new take on everything. Cynthia has decided that she is no longer friends with NeNe nor Porsha for the fact that she claimed NeNe's friendship was draining her and Porsha talked behind her back, now who on the show has not talked behind another cast members back including Cynthia. What I think is that Cynthia was dying on the show, she really had no storyline and she found out that they were possibly going to cut her out, so what do you do when you feel the producer may fire you, of course you spice it up. You make a storyline where there was not one and you lean on it so that it will look like in this season of the show that you have a storyline. I can not believe that Cynthia is actually befriending someone like Kenya to show us that she is really serious about her changes in her life, like Kenya is not going to be any drama. We know Cynthia if Kenya was not any drama then her storyline would be dead as well, so we know Kenya will be all about the drama especially since they still have yet to explain how Kenya ended up on a show that is called the Real Houseswives of Atlanta and Kenya was never married and there is still not prospect in the picture, what the hell??? So Kandi, Todd and Mama Joyce are still in this triangle that I am sure a lot of married people can understand. But what gets me is that Todd does not want Kandi to do for her mother, like buy her a house and Todd has still yet to show that he could have been employed outside of his wife giving him a job. Todd hooked up with Kandi and quit his job and got a job with his now wife, now I am one for spouses being around one another but sometimes working with one another can be a pain in the rear end, but I guess when you are in Todd's position, you don't have to really work, just walk around on your cell phone and ask everyone is everything ok and how does that work. That was hilarious how Kandi threw out there that the play she made would not have been possible without Todd, yet this man should have gotten finger cramps from the way he walked around texting on his cell phone and by the way, why has no one brought up the fact how Todd just stays on the phone constanly even when Kandi is near by, who the heck is he talking too? Kandi is in everyone else's business, asking Kenya questions and Apollo questions, so why the hell is she not asking questions about her hubby and what he is doing. Well I guess Todd is being like Peter, Gregg and Apollo was, just the men of theses wives her really earn the money and they sit around as man and blab about what they don't like about it, yeah and man say women are the ones who run off at the mouth. Well it is still entertaining and I will continue to watch and I am so happy that my girl NeNe is not thinking about these pigs and is doing her own thing to maintain her acting career, you go girl. I am looking forward what will happen on future episodes. I am hoping that Apollo get out quickly, he did added to the show. I hoping that Kenya really finds a man that is into her, and then watch an attitude change on this woman when that happens. I am wishing that Cynthia will stop the ugliness and make up with NeNe, life is to short to put on a hater show, although I know you have to think of your pocketbook since Peter keeps adventuring into these failing businesses. I am praying for Phadera because she has a lot on her plate, but as always I am sure Phadera will pull through because she is a strong woman. I wishing Kandi and Todd good luck with the tangled web they have going on, I have to say that Kandi standing by her mother side is the right thing. You only have one mother and when she is gone she is gone and if you have the means to do for her while she is alive you should, I wish I did for my mother. I am still missing her after ten plus years. As for NeNe, we the fans love you and I hope you get another show to do soon because you belong on the big screen honey.

K. Michelle: My Life

I have to say I love, love, love K. Michelle's new reality show. Now I may be bias because I am a K. Michelle fan but I think her show is reflecting everything about K. Michelle that I love and that is her great personality, her realism and her down home country way. Now as I said I am loving K. Michelle in her new show but I will have to say in my opinion I am not feeling some of these so called friends of hers. I know we all have friends we may have grown up with and have even trusted, when we were brought and had no one who would hang around us. But K. seems to be having a lot of friends who are just needy. The need money so they borrow hers, they need a place to stay so they move in with her. K. said that they should not take her kindness for foolishness but there comes a time in your life, especially after you have blown up and is becoming this shining star when you have to separate your real friends from your fake friends. These friends does not always mean they have to be around you either. I have some friends but I can tell you right now that they are better kept at a distance, except for those special occasion and I know sometimes being at the top can be lonely but it does not have to be lonely because as long as you talk to God you are never alone, in my opinion. I saw that K. Michelle wears a cross on her neck and she said she always does, so let the cross lead you and great choice to keep it on, we need to remind people that their is a hirer power and that some of us will not be afraid to show that we still believe in him and that it is nothing wrong with showing it. So as I was saying, if anyone want to know how K. Michelle is doing, I will say it is off to a good start and of course I will be watching with open eyes, hoping that maybe a friend change or two will be in her future. Good Luck K. Michelle.

Big Foot!!! (The Reality Show)

Big Foot the reality show is returning and all I have to say to this is, really. Are we for real about having a show about big foot that is coming season after season after season without even a glimpse of a big foot. Well guess what, this season promises to bring a glimpse of the infamous creature, yeah right. I wrote this blog saying 1800SmackMe for a reason and that is exactly what I want to do to all those who watch this reality show to a point that the network believes in bringing the show back. We have people in America who choose not to believe in God but they will run around in the woods looking for a nine foot creature. If you have every read the entry to my blog than you will understand why I am saying are we as Americans becoming stupid or are we just refusing to open our eyes to what is happening around us. I want to reiterate that in my opinion we as Americans are becoming stupid. We would rather give ratings to shows like that of Big Foot, Teen Mom, Ghost in my Attics or Long Island Medium with that chick Theresa, and yes I choose not to believe that Theresa can talk to my dead kin folks because if she did she could give us more information of the concept of death, something no one is able to do. I would call Theresa out if I every met her like I would call out those so called Big Foot hunters who seems to have the highest tech cameras but fail to catch even a glimpse of this so called creature. To me it is all fake and all they are doing is making money for the network while making fools of the idiots who choose to watch this show and actually believe in such a creature. I would rather the show I watch be like that of the walking dead, which I know is made up and can get more enjoyment out the fact that the writers are great and have some awesome story-lines. What are we doing people why are we choosing to watch these programs with no proof of a ghost, dead person or creature. I want them to catch bigfoot on camera, I want to see the ghost that walk through people houses and I want Theresa to talk to my relatives and say things only they and I would know about them, then maybe and only maybe then I will believe. I know what those of you who choose to believe is saying, you are saying I can not see God and I choose to believe he exist. Yes I choose to believe God exist because it is a feeling in me an a voice that speaks to me on what I should or should not do as a guide in my life. God does not go around trying to scare me in my house, or walking in woods looking like an oversize creature, nor does he claim to talk to my dead one and tell me what they are thinking. This is why I choose to believe he can exist because he is within me and not someone else idea or what they can only see.

Maleficent (The Movie)

Now I am sure this movie had all kinds of reviews and everyone have their opinion on it but I find myself having to talk of a movie if I watched it and it really catches my attention and that is what Maleficent did. I really enjoyed this movie and I did have a small child to watch it with. I decided to watch the movie because I am a big fan of Angelina Jolie and I have always admired her as an actress, none of her movies have every disappointed me. I was actually in tears watching this movie, to she how Maleficent grow up as a very happy child without a worry in the world and grew up to really enjoy this wonderful world with a smile on her face the entire time, had to see the ugliness of this world come out by a few. Maleficent naiveness and trust of all and everything was soon destroyed as her trust was turned to be used against her, tell me I did not cry at this part because yes I did. This movie took me back to my childhood when I was so trusting as a child and had to grow up in a world that I found out was not always to be trusted. It is a hard lesson to learn when you open your heart to people only to be stabbed in it over and over again. The way Maleficent turned for a light of joy to this dark shadow that had to be something that was a force to reckon with, was not exactly all bad to me because it showed how Maleficent, who we must remember was a girl who had to become a woman to role her land, so becoming this strong woman to protect her land and her people was not all bad to me because she was so strong. On the other hand Maleficent had turned her heart cold towards love and beauty. Although Maleficent turned herself to what we saw as this dark shadow it began showing that this was not actually true, as she had a child that came into her life that needed her and from the beginning she protected this child as if she had given birth to the child herself. Oh yes the tears continued to fall. The child who had a curse put on her by Maleficent and could only be removed by a true loves kiss was soon showed to us that true love comes in many different ways, it is not always between just a man and a woman and we all know this to be true. What a beautiful, beautiful version of snow white and Angelina Jolie did a magnificent job, I am sure her kids were really proud of the work their mother did in this movie.

If Loving You Is Wrong (Season Finale)

I love, love, love Tyler Perrys new soap opera "If Loving You Is Wrong. Now it started off slow and I was not into it as much as I was The Have and the Have Nots but oh man when this soap opera warmed up, it warmed up. If Loving You is Wrong has won over my heart and the season finale was off the chain. Marcie finding out that Randal her husband was cheating with her best friend Alex or A.K.A Peppa was a great ending. The way Marcie, the actor known as Heather Hemmens, really showed us her acting skills when she went all out ham on Randal. Marcie always played this meek little woman who was just trying to please her husband and give him a baby, really showed us what can happen to a meek woman when she is scorned. Oh yeah and Marcie was all out crazy on Randal and the only reason she did not go straight crazy on Alex is because Randal held her back but we do know next season that this will have to come out some kind of way, the question is now in which way will Tyler Perry let it come out. Now the way Marcie found out was disappointing to me because Kelly, who became a friend of Marcie after Alex, led me to believe that the only reason Kelly told because she was heartbroken about her situation with her ex, so as they say misery loves company and I on the one hand feels the only reason Kelly did it is because she wanted someone to be hurting because she was hurting. Now Kelly said she only did it because she thought Marcie had the right to know, if this was the reason why did she not straight out and tell Marcie who was cheating with her husband instead of throwing out these stupid little hints so that Marcie would find out who Peppa was. Someone who has to sneak and do something is a side of guiltiness to me. Now I am very interested in how Alex husband Brad will be taking this news. Brad is one of those mild mannered guys who does not talk much and I can almost see him losing it too a point of no return. Now Brad is friends with bad boy Edward and for anyone who watched the show Edward is a cop that is way past the point of no return and he abuses his cop privileges as if he is above all in the eyes of the court. I mean no harm and I know Edward is the father of Esperanza child, but if you ask me if anyone needs to leave this show it is this man. You have citizens distrusting cops as is but Edwards is the type of cop that you despise with a passion and distrust all cops for it. This show is not just focus on cheating spouses and crooked cops, although this is one of the most entertaining, this show touches all kinds of deep subjects. It talks of war and what can happen to a man, it tackles low income struggling and trying to raise your child up in poverty and keep them safe, it shows us how just because a thing looks perfect on the outside does not mean it is always perfect on the inside. This show has everything that is everyday and I thank you again Tyler Perry for showing us a show that is real.

Hollywood Divas

I was watching Hollywood divas last week and they came up with this idea to do a show about five black witch sisters, now I listen to them talk and describe what they could do in the movie and it all sound great to me. But this week it was said that because the black people are so religious that they would not be very open to the ideas of five black witches because it is like demonic. Now as a black person who is religious I have to say because of these days and times I have to disagree. I know we do not like the idea of things like evil spirits, but we know the difference between reality and fake and how many of us really believe in witches without knowing it is made up. There are lots of movies with demonic attributes in it and a lot of young people are watching them. If anyone would not be accepting of this movie I think it is most likely the older generation and that is maybe sixties and on, the ages before that maybe very receptive of this movie and it quirkiness. I do not know who this producer Paula was talking to but I have to disagree with him although he have a lot of movies under his belt, his ideas may be outdated. He has to look at this idea from a younger generation view that actually is an influence on their parents. Most younger kids coming up these days are a bigger influence on their parent than their parents are on them. Most parents are open to what their children suggest to watch and try, they let their parents know that times have change and that they should try things out before judging it. So I for one want to say that I think the five black witch sisters movie would be a great idea. I think it has not been done in a while, especially with female black actors and it can be fun and lively, instead of some said storyline that has been done to death about a group of black sisters that all have their personally issues, including crack addiction. Now tell me that has not been done to death and is rather old in my opinion. Can we put the five black witch sisters back on the table please and may it happen.