Saturday, August 31, 2013

The Game(Say It is Not True)

Now I heard from a source that the character Malik on the Game will be leaving the show. I saw the last episode and the upcoming episode and I know that Malik is supposedly going to be alone in a not so good neighborhood without protection and on top of that I am being told it is possible he will be leaving the show. I hope this source is incorrect and I hope this is just one of those great finales that will leave us guessing and waiting on the next season premier for the show to return because I do not see the show continuing on without Malik. Malik has been a big part of the show from the very beginning and I do mean very beginning when the show was a spin off from girlfriends and first started on UPNCW then was cut. I have always enjoy this show from the very beginning and of course my favorite characters were Melanie and Darwin who the entire show began its focus on these two young couples when Darwin was drafted to the Sabers. I immediately fell in love with the show because it was not one of those reality shows but on the other hand it reminded me of a reality show. The show was so well written that I really thought that what these characters did on the show is what real football player wives and girlfriends do in real life. What had taken me the most about the show was seeing Tia Mowry in such a different role, she was all grown up and she played that part so good I forgot about that little sister sister role she played years ago as a young girl. Now when Melanie and Darwin's character was cut from the show I was heart broken and how they had Darwin exit the show was priceless, he played that part on point when they announced that he was being traded from the team, if Darwin did not have me fooled that he was not really being traded, man I tell you my eyes was full with tears. Anyway the show went on and I accepted the fact that they had two bring in two new characters and believe it or not these two characters are great actors and they really add to the show contents. Now hearing that Malik may possibly leave the show is upsetting me because although the two new characters are strong, I feel there is not show without Malik. After losing Melanie and Darwin to me Malik is the only person who really saved the show, his cocky attitude and his outrageous antics have made the show what it is. Malik is one of those guys who knows what he wants and go for it, not only that Malik knows how to party and he is not selfish about including others in on his fun.Tasha his mother is a crazy woman and Malik is her everything, if Malik dies off the show I do not she her character continuing on as well. So for now I am choosing not to believe the roomer that Malik is leaving because I do not think the writers are this crazy to do such a thing and I am choosing to say that this is just one of those finales that will have everyone hanging until next season. A finale like this will of course bring us back to watch the next season. I did think it was time for Malik to slow down, I even thought it was time for him to become serious about one woman, I know I know, everyone think what makes Malik is his crazy single life, but we all have to grow up sometime and maybe they can bring in someone who can party harder than Malik.

Teen Mom 3(Please Stop!!!)

Can anyone please tell me why there is a teen mom three. I watch the show and I still do not get it, it reminds me of Teen mom 2 and how really immature these girls really are. These girls all do the same stupid thing, they get pregnant young and argue with everyone in their families how they are mature enough to take on caring for a baby and then they get mad when the young fathers of their babies do not take on more responsibility. Come on girls, they are young boys not grown men and they like you are not ready for this responsibility. Why do these girls feel that they have to first of all have sex at such a young age and second think they are truly ready to take on the responsibilities that come with have sex at such a young age. None of the girls talk about actually catching a sexual transmitted disease from having sex with no protection and if they are supposedly so close to these guys at the time they are dating them, why not express that if they have no glove then the get no love. All I think this show is about is young girls getting pregnant and trying out to be a part of this show so that they can make some fast and easy money. I still do not see any benefit from the girls being on the show because none of them tackle the real issues in their lives as to why they are having sex at such young ages and trying to be grown ups before they are ready. I watch and listen to the girls talk about how they will make the guys be fathers to their children and a real grown up knows that you can not make someone do something they do not want to do. What about the guys families, why do  we not get to see the guys side of the story or how their families are handling their young children having a baby at such young ages. The guys are just as affected by the situation and a lot of time I see the show as bashing the guys for not being there but we do not get to see why maybe they are not there. Even if they guys are not there, why do we not get to see what their families think about this. In all the show is just unbeneficial to me because all we here is these whinny girls crying about the fathers not being there after they sacrifice so much to have their babies. What was these girls thinking, are they really that dumb and think it will be all diamonds and roses and her, the baby and father will run into the sunset together and live happily ever after. I really hope these girls are not that stupid, but from my point of view they seem that stupid, they do not think with a lick of sense of what is really reality. Most of these girls have watched their families struggle with being single parents but yet they really don't get it. Why not put the babies up for adoption so that their child can have a better life than they did, if you really see it is not working out between you and the father and you really see that you can not have the life you really want with raising a child. Give the child a chance and stop trying to use the baby for your own gain of money. This is my opinion and my opinion only, the show is a profitable gain to be made by these girls, money in the bank to tell your story of your messed up, young pregnancy life. How great would it be if all teenage moms could make money off having a child so young. What makes it even worse to me is that most of the teenagers are white, yes I went there. I here of statistics over and over again that there are more African Americans and Hispanics that get pregnant at a young age in this country but yet these shows feature mostly White Americans, what is that about, why do these White Americans make money for getting pregnant. I guess the statistics will be changing because I can see more White Americans getting pregnant just to be on this show. What am I thinking, the statistics will stay the change rather or not more White American young girls get pregnant or not, facts are always not facts in the America as some of us know. Well this is one show I will not be watching or rooting for to be successful because I have a big dislike for what it is standing for and too me that is nothing or than helping some young girl make money for getting pregnant

Friday, August 30, 2013

Amish Mafia (8-29-13)

I just watched the past Amish Mafia and as always I enjoyed it but I have a few quirks. I see that Jolin has helped Levi with his problem and Levi gave him the community he wanted. Now I thought that Jolin was going to help Levi with this one problem and that was it but Jolin is continuing to help Levi and I do not know why other than him giving him the paradise community, but the funny thing about it is Levi is not giving Jolin the paradise community, he is letting him run it. Running a community is not like having entire control over it to me but Jolin is happy about it and to him this was a big step up. Now I do not know how things run in the Amish community so maybe Levi letting Jolin run the place is a big step, but my question is does this means that Jolin actually gets all the profits from what he collects from that community or is it just a matter of Jolin handling the problems that goes on it that community? Now I was one of those people that thought that Jolin and Ester should have hooked up and they did but something went totally wrong with that situation and now Levi is asking Jolin to collect money from Ester, can you believe that Levi has to get Jolin to do his dirty work and I could see the awkward tension between Jolin and Ester when he went to collect the money from her. I do not know what happen between the two but I still think Jolin and Ester should pair up as a team in both work and marriage. I know I talked about Ester marrying Levi but this was so they could be a powerhouse but I would much rather her marry Jolin just because I think they make a good couple, yes I like them together. Now as for Merlin and Allan this situation seems to be a joke, Allan is good at what he does and I know you all are saying what does he do. Allan knows who to get money out of Amish kids by setting up some great parties, setting up illegal gambling bets and just creating money making business, yes Allan is a hustler and sometimes you have to be a hustler to make money. He is not hurting anyone but just trying to make money like Levi is, same thing different person. What I don't like is that Allan is partnered with Merlin, who in my mind is the weakest Amish person on the show. I do not like Merlin because he does not fit the show and everything is tries to do is not backed with what I call real power. Merlin is one of those guys that you want to say, you are the weakest link, goodbye. Now one of the persons that confuses me the most is Freeman but at the same time I understand him. Freeman is weird and he is what the Amish say is possessed and that is why the Amish hate dealing with him because they think he has a demon in him. Freeman from my point of view has issues that he has dealt with in the past with the Amish community and now he chooses to just sit and starring at people and not say a word. Now for me I am understanding this point of view because when you have had a community to shun you and do what with I can only imagine what the Amish did with Freeman, I would be highly upset with that community as well. From watching these Amish shows I come to understand that the Amish handle their own problems and this is not always a good thing in the way they handle things. Like the English community the Amish community have their own terrible situations and things going on, like rape and drug abuse. The Amish community to me to seem be harsher than the English community to me because they claim not to judge when they really do. They do more judging and they if something terrible happens in the community instead of handling it by the law, they handle it themselves and a lot of persons may get by with something like rape, which can affect a person if they do not get help with handling a situation that has happen to them. A lot of the Amish kids to me need counseling because of some of the things they have been through and I feel that Freeman might have been one of those children and maybe he went into some kind of personal world in his mind. Yes Freeman maybe touched in the head and it maybe a reason for this, so he does not scare me but Freeman makes me want to understand more about why he is the way he is. I hope the show features more about Freeman and his life, Ester tells us some things but it seems to be a lot more to the Freeman story that is not being touched on. I do not know what is going on with Alvin or John they are two characters that I agree with being on the show but I do not understand what they are doing Alvin is trying to get back into Levi graces, which again I don't understand and John is doing absolutely nothing but beginning to act as weird as Freeman. What happen to John he was in the beginning of the Amish Mafia show wanting to be the big bad member of the Amish Mafia but then he seemed to have punk out and went into some sort of egg shell like a little wimp. If you ask me John need to take some lessons from Ester on how to handle some Amish Mafia men. Now I do not agree with what Join and Alvin did too Allan's dad chicken coop, one thing I don't agree with is messing with a persons way of living, all because big  Steve's house was trashed and he got the man a little hooked on drinking again, Steve is a big man he should have known better, now Ester trying to turn on Levi is a little disturbing for me. The thing I did agree with the most on last night episode was with Wayne leaving Merlin, he should have been left Merlin's side because Merlin is a joke. I am looking for a tougher crew to get together and go against Levi and put him out of business, anyway I am enjoying every minute of the show and look forward to each episode.

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Tickle(Without the Moonshiners)

I see that Tickle from the moonshiners has gotten his own show and I do not know if this means that the moonshiners will not be returning or Tickle just got his own show. Now yes Tickle was pretty funny and he did some hilarious things on the show but I do not know if he was actually worth deserving of his own show. You know how you watch a show with multiple people and there is one particular person that is funny who seems to make everyone laugh, well Tickle was a funny part of the show moonshiners but he was not the only one. Tim Tom was also very hilarious and I personally think he was funnier than Tickle because Tim Tom has age on him and he has been through a lot, so he has some real funny stories that he always humored us with, this is not something we got from Tickle. Tickle, most people thought he was funny because he stayed drinking the moonshine as he was trying to make it, now personally I did not think this was funny because to me you should not be drinking the moonshine and trying to make it too, it is also a quick way to get killed. Tickle seemed like to me he lived on the edge and some people think this is the way to be, laid back, lazy and not really have a care. Now it is okay to be laid back sometimes but what Tickle has soon people is a live style of what our country has seem to become to be and that is lazy. Young people today are lazy and they believe everything should be handed to them on a silver platter, they do not want to work at anything and they think that life should be easy for them. Young people today what the quick way of doing everything and they don't have an understanding of why working hard and living a life of righteousness is important in their lives. They do not believe in repercussions and Tickle to me represents this young generation. Not to say that Tickle is not funny as has a sense of shine but he to me is not deserving of his very own show. I have not seen where this show is something that is worthy of real air time, yes Tickle is doing some crazy things and I have to admit he can come up with some of the craziest ideas, he prove this when he rig up that trailer on one of the moonshiners episodes, in which he had the moonshine coming out the faucets and he acts as if he was almost like a ice cream man, going in the neighborhood serving up moonshine instead of ice cream. Now this episode was pretty funny but at the same time Tickle was pretty stupid for taking such a big chance, but that is what these young people do, they rather take chances to make easy money than actually working hard to make honest money, so that worries me. I like Tickle but I am worried for the young people watching this program and our futures, it is almost like those pregnant teen mom show. Young people watch these shows and think that is how I can make some quick easy money, what a future we shall have.

Marrying The Game(8-26-13)

I watched Marrying the Game and although there was not much to this Episode I like the fact that Tiffany took the time to go out of town and go visit her family, she really needed that and I think it did her some good. The most I liked about this episode was the advice that Tiffany's Aunt gave her. She said Tiffany and the Game was trying to make a relationship work as a marriage without really being married and in God's eye, you have no relationship until you have made that commitment. How can God help you work on your problems when he does not recognize the scene. You already have the children and the relationship now how about having what God believes you should have and that is that real marriage. What this is telling me is that Tiffany should make up her mind rather or not she really wants to marry the Game and if so go ahead and marry him and work on this marriage with God. Tiffany's Aunt is telling her that if she gets married and needs help, then God, who will then recognize and honor what they have will show them the way. Like I said I believe this is great advice and I believe Tiffany will marry the Game but I want her to really believe that it is right for her. I was with my husband ten years before we got married and although I knew that living together was not the answer, I waited because I wanted to make sure, we had my daughter and she was eleven before we actually made that commitment but I knew when I said those vows it was truly meant to be. I began understanding that making this commitment in front of God was something very special and that it was something to be honored. I was very happy and I understand that I was meant to be by this man side for a reason. Now as me and my husband grow older I realize that maybe this commitment may not have meant the same to him as me, maybe I should have talk with him about what we was about to do and if it was what he really wanted to do. Maybe we both should have went to a marriage counselor or pastor before we made this commitment to understand if it was right for us, or for him to listen to what our pastor say what he is to expect with a commitment in front God. I wish the best for The Game and Tiffany but I have some advice for both of you as well, I think Tiffany you should let the Game know that you really want to marry him but that you should both go to a pastor and tell him that you are both about to make this commitment and what is it that God has to say about this long turn commitment for two people. My advice for you Game is to listen to what the pastor say and from their decide if it is what you are willing to do to keep your marriage going for the long run.

Basketball Wives(Evelyn Needs Some Real Help)8-26-13

Yes I watched basketball wives and yes I am sad to say that Evelyn has officially become one of those person who I really despise. You know those people who pretend they are the victims when they really are the aggressors. Evelyn has return to the show as this innocent, passive woman who has done everything to please her man and what she got in return was a head butt. Now I not saying what Chad did was right, but what I am saying that we all know Evelyn is not as innocent as she is pretending to be on  the show. If anyone watch this show from the beginning we all know how and what Evelyn can be and it is far from those crocodile tears she has been showing us on every episode since the show has been back on and I have to say I am feed up with her crying in every scene. Evelyn has always been a big mouth bully who instead of channeling her anger into something positive has always decided to turn on people with it and physically put hands on them. In every season before now, Evelyn has always had mouth towards others and she always and I mean always turned that hateful attitude of hers into some outright nasty confrontation with people. If some people choose not to believe me then look at last season in which Evelyn turned against her friend of many years, Jen, she not only turned a long friendship into something that was ugly and right down nasty, she threaten the woman non stop and even brought others in on with her to have the ugliest confrontation I have ever seen on television. There was a dinner in which Evelyn brought this other lady to confront Jen and then while this lady argue with Jen, Evelyn launched across the table to actually fight Jen. Now this is a woman who in one season of getting married for a whole 41 days, has now all of a sudden become this crocodile crying victim, yeah right. I am sorry Evelyn but I do not believe your tears, I think you are using this victim angle to get others to side with you and to help you get your own popularity ratings up, yes you are using this as a scheme and one thing that I really do not like is people who act as victims to take advantage of others who may not know any better. Women like Evelyn who cry wolf, make other women who really are victims look bad. I know Evelyn did have something awful to happen to her, but her making the statement that she sat in the car quietly as her and Chad discussed the condoms she found and out of know where he got angry and head butted her is a crock of bull. With Evelyn's mouth it is not way on  this green Earth that she sat quietly in the car with Chad and discussed patiently with him about condoms she found he had after only so many days of marriage. I believe that Evelyn went off on Chad about the condoms and there was nothing quiet about it, she was running her mouth not letting the man get a word in edge wise and on top of that, I do believe she was all in Chads face and that is why he headed butted her. If you look at pass episodes there was nothing quiet or out of your face Evelyn has showed us, so put two and two together and think how she probably really was and you will find that you will smell a skunk. She is using this angle to play a victim and now she is getting all these offers to do adds and commercials. I am waiting for the commercial that she does for victim advocates and then I will be waiting for someone to turn it on her and ask do she not think anti bullying is a big part of victims advocates rights and why did she bully so many people on the show to the point of making these women scared or practically afraid for their lives. Bullying is a no, no, as well as abusive relationships and Evelyn is a big bully and she did it on the show for millions to see, including children who bully other children in school and think it is okay, especially after watching a person like Evelyn do it to people. No Evelyn I am not buying your innocent act, I choose not to believe your tears and I think you should be your true self. I do believe people can change and if you choose to change Evelyn then do so the right way, get counseling and work or why you are such a big bully. Don't try to cry your way as a victim or bring in new friends who are more classy, trying to fool others that these are the kinds of friends you associate with now. Get the real help and admit what you done to people like Jen was wrong. That is why I have grown to like Tammy, she still have issues that I think she could really work on but at least she admits that she has a problem and she is working hard on getting rid of these issues. Evelyn I hope you get that life and that husband you are searching for but I don't see it happening anytime soon because you are closed to what God has provide for us. If you take God's words and work it in your plan and then only then will you understand, think about it.

Monday, August 26, 2013

Breaking Amish LA(8-25-13)

Okay did anyone watch Breaking Amish LA last night and did anyone see what happen coming. Who would have thought that Ivy would lie about what happen between her and Betsy and go as far as take it to the police, wow. I sure no that Ivy was embarrassed about what had happen after she done it, that is what happen Amish kids when you put that bottle to your mouth to much, stop the heavy drinking, gees. I know young people like to party and drink but I think Amish kids have got English kids beat by a long run. Drinking is not all that English kids do either, the Amish kids have to understand that their are some kids that restrain from having relations and drinking. That is why have to admire Mat so much, the other guys and girls give him a hard time but Mat is like one of those kids that the other kids pick on because he refuses to drink or have relations, Mat to me is a hero for the English kids who are trying to stay strong in the mist of all this sin around us. What is wrong with not wanting to have relations until you are married, is not this what we are trying to teach our children. This entire night was a bit of a twist for me, I know the Amish kids were raised differently and have different belief on certain ways but for me all these thinking went out the door when they put on English clothing and decide to drink, have relations and just get right out crazy. Why they judge Darwin so much I do not understand, they said because he was going to let Ivy throw Betsy under the bus and was not a real man for not standing up to Ivy about the Betsy situation. I am with Darwin, this was between the two women and he did not know Ivy was going to take it to the police, he thought that Ivy just wanted him to lie if her boyfriend asked what happen. This was a big mess and none of those kids should have been drinking or ended up in the room together. I am still confused on some part of the tapes, I was trying to understand why Betsy who claimed to be so innocent and because she had a husband would not dare touch a woman sexually, touch Darwin private part and whey did Betsy go in the room behind the other two. Ivy and Darwin went into the room first and then Betsy followed and she shut the door, why is this not explained more on her part. Betsy is married why would she even consider being in a room with these two, I am like the other kids, there is more to this story and when will Betsy husband come to the show. How is it that Betsy be marry and her husband not come behind her or no one in her family intervene on her hanging out in the English community, doesn't she has children as well or not? I don't know it is starting to be more confusing to me so I want to know more about these Amish kids family now, it is not like the originally breaking Amish, there is a lot we do not know about these kids and there are pieces missing. I am glad next week show will actually start focusing on the kids in the English employment world because now we can find out if these skills they have can stand up to our standards. I will be watching the show next week and hope that later on down the line they clear up some of this confusion. As for Lizzie the pregnant Amish girl, why is she even there, she can not do anything because of her pregnancy and so she is not even on the camera much and she can't get into anything. I can understand what angle they were going at by having Lizzie on the show but boy is her part on the show so insignificant she is like a plant holder that just sits in the corner of your house and does nothing unless you decide to move it. Maybe there will be more excitement once she has the baby but it seems to be a little down the lines a ways, how long is she anyway, will she be having the baby on the show? If she does not have the baby on the show, her part on the show will be pointless. I want her to her go through the labor on the show, this will be the only reason I can see why she s really on the show. I will continue to watch because there are a lot more angles I can see them taking this show in.

Sister Wives(8-25-13)

Yes I watched sister wives and it was good watching all the family in one house to have church and enjoy a meal. I am glad for them all and I glad to see that the family has a house in which they are just walking distance from each other and I must say what beautiful houses they are. There was not much on this season finale other than Robin telling the kids how she gave up her purity before she should have and this for me was a powerful story that Robin told because more than often to many young girls have, shall I say relations, before they should and then they meet the right guy and understand why they should have waited before they gave it up. I do not like how our young society today think having relations is no big deal and they give it up so easily. For me young girls today have no sense of worth and have relations to them is something they think they should do when they become teenagers or they feel like they are looser for some reason. Why do young girl not understand that having relations comes with lots of responsibilities. When a young girl have relations with a young boy as a teenager, nine times out of ten that boy does not plan on being with that girl in the long run, it is just a bragging right for these young boys or some hormones that have just gone wild. These girls find out all to late in their lives that have relations so young was a very bad choice but of course this is their choice to make and we can only hope that they take their elders advice and why it is so important to wait. Robin hit it on the head and the story she told got through to some of the kids, I did hear one of them say if you are both responsible enough why wait, this shocked me, I think this was of course one of Jenelle son's, not a surprise there. For me I have a teenage daughter and me and her daddy had the talk with her and she has made us so proud so far, she is now eighteen and it is truly her decision but I hope she waits for that right man and I have let her known it might not seem like he will come into her life but he will and she will know it. Now as for the second half of the show it had the families asking questions that interest the viewers, one of the question was the famous, what is Cody doing to take care of all these women in bed. Of course these adults will not answer this and I can understand because it is very private and me myself is one of those persons that believe that what happens in the bedroom stays between those in that bedroom. But I have to say I have my own theory as to how Cody is managing to keep up with four wives. Now you have to take all the wives in consideration, most of them are up there in age and as for Jenelle she is overweight and all us women know that with the weight comes the lack of a lot of things and one big one is having relations, we are less likely to want it becomes we are self conscious, for Christina she has a little weight as well but I see this women as the very busy housewife because she is always cooking, taking care of the children and I see her as so busy with all the house work and taking care of the children that she is totally exhausted by the end of the day and the lack of energy is there. Now as for Meri, my favorite, I see Meri has been with Cody the longest and over the years if anyone has been with one person for a very long time, there becomes that wear and tear and you become complacent and get stuck in the routine. Meri to me is satisfied with the time she gets with Cody, I sure she makes it memorable but she does not need him as often as she might have needed him in the past. Now Robyn is still the new bride and her and Cody are very focused on each other as you can really see this on the show. Robyn is younger than the other women, she is smaller and she is someone that Cody not of yet come complacent with or is tired of as yet, there relationship is still very much new and fresh and I am thinking that Robyn is the one that Cody gives all his energy too. I think Cody does not really give that much time to the other women, other than the occasion kisses and maybe some quickies, but Robyn I think is where he put all his focus for that long drawn out love making and that is why Cody can satisfy all the women. As a woman we know that as we get older our physical need changes and things we might have needed a lot of in the past is not the same as we age, are focused is more on other things and I am sure this is especially true with these women and twenty some children, gees. Can you imagine, I can not I had three and they almost drove me crazy but than again I did not have any sister wives to help me. Anyway they will continue the asking questions next weekend and I will be watching just to see what questions are asked, I only wished I had the opportunity to be one of those viewers who got to ask a question. My question would have been for Meri, my girl, and it would have been that very personal question of does she really think she should have a new baby at her age? I know Meri really loves her husband and wants to please him but again as we women age are body changes as well and having a baby could be dangerous for Meri and the baby. I must say to all of the Brown family, I love you guys and wish you the best of luck for the future, can't wait until next season starts.

Sunday, August 25, 2013

I Got wise Advice From Catfish(Who Would Have Thought It)

I was watching one of the episodes from catfish, something I do not do on a regular but every now and than. On this episode they found out that a guy was setting up guys who are in relationships with someone else but want to talk to other women. Yes he was pretending to be a girl to set up these guys because he believe they are dogs for talking to other women online when they already have girlfriends, he was like a vigilante. The reason the guy said he was doing this is because he believed that he was helping women, like his girlfriend, yes he has a girlfriend, fight against these men who go online and talk to other women hurting their hearts. This guy said his girlfriend knew what he was doing and agreed that he should do this. Now the host of the show(NEV) was taken by the act of this guy, he said that he did not agree with the guy he was helping find this girl having a girlfriend either, so he told him before he would help him he had to tell his girlfriend what was going on, in other words he had to be honest with his girlfriend, their relationship and why he was talking to this girl online. The guy did this and even told the host he felt better for doing so, this hardcore guy said he did not care what he had done to this guy because he was in the wrong and he is glad he broke his heart. He said that he did not care about anything that he said to the guy or anything about his feelings on the intimacy he had with him online. When this guy said he just did not care the host explain to him and this is the wise advice I am talking about that (Do you realize that when you do not care about anything you set yourself up to not be cared about). This advice is so very true and I think people do not realize when they adopt that don't care attitude they are setting their self up for failure. When you don't care, that same attitude is returned back to you. You have to care for something to receive it in return. This man still said he did not care and went away, for me I thought it was very sad and for someone who is suppose to have a girlfriend he was not a very feeling guy. I believe this guy was lying about having a girlfriend, frankly I do not think he has anyone and I think he was the person hurt by someone online and he wanted to hurt someone back. I believe this guy was so cold because he has been hurt and really is a lonely person and the reason I believe he is lonely is because of what Nev said that he has set himself to not care so he leaves that door closed to being cared about. Think about it, I work with someone who does things for herself and she is always making that comment that she does not care about what anyone else thinks or what happens to anyone else, it is all about her. This women is alone and wonder why she is alone and I feel that because she cares for nothing or no one else feelings, that door for her to be cared about is closed and it will stay closed until she understands that caring for others will leave a door for her to be cared about, that door will continue to be closed. This is really something to think about and it took me watching the Catfish show to remember.

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Marrying the Game(Stay Strong Tiffany)

I am admiring Tiffany more and more each time I watch the show "Marrying the Game", she is one tough woman and I think all women can take notes from Tiffany when it comes to thinking about marrying a man. Marriage is not something to be jumped into lightly, although it is done more to often and that is why divorce rate is so high. Some women just want to get married just to say they are married and to be able to have that title of Mrs., but marriage is very hard work and is not something to be taken lightly. You have to remember that vows that you make to each other is not only a promise you make to one another but to God and how you will obey what he said you both should as now you have entered this commitment. I do not like it how some people take marriage so lightly and then instead of remembering the good times, all they focus on is the bad when they go into divorce court and talk about each other like dogs. Look at the divorce court proceedings, most of the time the judge tries to remind the couples why they married each other, but she finds it difficult as most of the couples just jumped into these relationship without a thought or how hard it would be to really work at something worth having. Marriage is not a game and I admire Tiffany for understanding this and making that very hard decision I know it was for her to make in given The Game his ring back until he understands why he gave her this ring in the first place. I think the Game is taking what Tiffany is saying into heart but at the same time being on television in front of his fans he has to have that persona in which he has to be a little tough, a real man don't cry, yeah right. Hold it in and if the woman that you have loved for so many years and have had children by walks out your life so what. I know what I think will happen, I think the Game will come to his senses, like any man with a brain will and he will of course take what Tiffany has been saying to him in deep thought and he will properly propose to her again by letting her know what changes he will be making to better their lives together. I know all the man in the world are just saying all kinds of things towards my blog right now but as much as you men like to carry on how we women just like to run our mouths and just blab on about things that don't mean a thing, is not true. We women are here to keep our house in order and if we do not keep our house in order than there will be cautious. Men are men and what I mean by this if we let them do what they want without keeping some kind of order than these men will always do what they want and walk all over us as they please. A man is suppose to be that strength that stand by his woman side not that thorn that sticks in it. Tiffany I want to say bravo to you and to tell you as another woman to stick to your guns, do not settle for anything or you will do as they say fall for everything. Be that strong female figure in his presence and later on he will understand why it is there, don't rollover and play dead be that beacon and shine woman shine.

Amish Mafia(Oh Yeah Baby)

Okay it is back, one of my all time favorite shows, yes the Amish Mafia. I do not care how much anyone says that this show is fake, this show is one of the most excitement filled, action packed shows I seen in a long time and the return has not disappointed me. I have to admit that some of the things on the show has disappointed, like Jolin teaming up with Levi again and Ester brother going cuckoo for cocoa puffs and Alvin looking to help Merlin but other than my expectations not being what I thought it is full of action. I like it that Merlin found out about Levi's secret business and decided to crash it, I like it that Ester turned her crazy brother in and I like the deal Jolin made with Levi to get his own business. Merlin is still someone I do not see as a strong personality and I think that it should be Jolin who actually goes up against Levi with Alan as his side kick to help him out. Things with Ester and her brother did not work out as plan but don't worry Ester is one tough woman and she has plans, even if it is a back up plan. I even like the episode that the little man who works for Merlin had with the people who were running the bed and breakfast and how they paid him and he kept the money to himself not telling Merlin anything. He only has a right because this little dude has stood by Merlin side with nothing to show for it, he has been Merlin's strong arm man but has not received a dime or benefit from doing all this dirty work for Merlin, it is about time he sticks it to Merlin. I have been watching up coming episodes and if what I saw is any indication of what is about to really happen, I was a little disappointed in Ester as it showed her going to Levi bagging for forgiveness, but knowing Ester this may be some ploy. I see that Alan will be helping Merlin by hosting parties for the Amish kids like he use to do for Levi, I just hope this does not all blow up in Alvin's face. Merlin is not very tough and if Levi wants to take Merlin down he can and will take anyone working for him down. Now this new guy working for Levi, named Caleb is not at all appealing to me, he does not care for Jolin at all and as far as I am concern Caleb can go back were he came from because Jolin is one of my favorites and when push comes to shove, Jolin will drop Caleb off a cliff some where, because Jolin is not a Mennonite to be played with. Now as someone who has been watching the show from the beginning I have my own opinion of what the powerhouse would be that could go up against Levi and win. I personally think it is time for a take over and Levi should be out, now as for my powerhouse group, it will be made up of Jolin as the front man, Ester as one of his main powerhouse side kick and Alvin and Alan although now Alan has been sentenced to time in prison and of course will not be on the show for a minute. Anyway with all the changes happen and so many things happening on the show, I think Jolin should in charge and Levi should maybe go off and get married and go on a really long honeymoon. After getting married and settling in than maybe Levi can work on coming back. Would it not be funny if Ester and Levi disappear and come back married, now that would be another powerhouse that we never saw coming and I can see Ester ruling Levi and actually being the real person in charge. Oh I am getting so excited just thinking about the possibilities of what could be on this show, it is one of my all time favorites and it is a show I will keep watching as long as they keep the high pack entertainment going. I am on the edge of my seat trying to figure what this season finale will be like already, I am loving it.

Monday, August 19, 2013

Basketball Wives Has Returned

Okay basketball wives has returned and I was a big fan until the show kept changing cast and one of my biggest fall out with the show was when Tammy came into play and how she was intimidating everyone on the show because of her insecurity but I have to admit I like that Tammy has worked on making a change. Another very intimidating person is Evelyn and yes Evelyn was one of the biggest bullies before Tammy came on the show and now this big bully who ran multiple cast of the show because of her scare tactics has now been head butted and wants us to feel sorry for the bully, yes the bully has been bullied, how ironic. I agree that no woman or man should hit or hands put on and although some people can make you very angry and I can only imagine how mouthy Evelyn mouth was although she acts as though she was talking to Chad calmly in the car when out of no where he head butted her, yeah right Evelyn was calm. Evelyn from what we have seen on television was probably very loud and all in Chad's face calling him all kinds of names, so what should Chad have done, stepped out the car and walked away, no run away and he should have filed for a divorce as soon as possible. Although I do not think Chad would have filed for a divorce as long as he knew that money could have been made from being married to Evelyn, with the new show they were planning on having. Evelyn said Chad keeps doing things to get her back and making comments about how he wants his wife back, I have to agree with Evelyn on one point, I do not believe him and I think it is all because he has lost so much because of the incident. Chad has not learned any lesson as Tammy claim in this short period of time, the only lesson he has learned is that you can lose money when you do stupid things. Chad realized that the reality show they were planning is gone as the football contract he was getting. You do not learn when you do not apologize for your actions in front of everyone, I agree with Evelyn that when you have women in your life you have insulted all these women when you head butted another women. You have disgraced women every where when you made this statement that women deserves nothing but to be head butted, instead of being that real man and just walking away from it all. Walking away from it all would have made Chad to me a man that was much more worth Evelyn trying to work on saving her marriage with, but as for the Chad she divorced, I think Evelyn did the right thing and I agree that you Evelyn should stick to your guns. Now as for Tammy I am not surprised that you no longer have your man, because you as much as you have cleaned up are still a big bag of mess to me. Tammy how old do you have to be before you let things go and grow up, because it seems as though you are taking longer than any person I have ever seen or known in real life. Well right now everything is starting of slowly and I guess this is just because it is just the first show and we have yet to learn what is really going on in the other women lives but I will continue to watch because the up coming episodes I have seen are pretty explosive. There seems to be a divide between Shaunie  and Tammy that seems really good. Shaunie seems like she will not be taking any shi* and she is aiming for Tammy, that sounds like some juicy entertainment. Only time will tell if the show is worth watching, now I wonder if basketball wives LA will be returning.

Breaking Amish LA(8-18-13)

Okay yes I watched it and yes Betsy is off her rocker. The entire cast is still a little weird to me and I am still trying to understand each one of them. I have to say the situation between Iva, Betsy and Devon I was a little confused on but when I was what little clipped they showed us I saw something different then what Iva was saying, I have to say I believed Betsy because Iva went into the room with Devon and I think there was the expectation of something happening between the two, now as for Betsy coming in I do not know what her intention was and I think Betsy just decided to take advantage of the entire thing, especially since she knew Iva and Devon were drunk. Anytime when young people drink there is the chance of things happening that they soon regret later and I think that is what happen to Iva and after she realized what happen and thought about it was going to be on television for everyone to see, including her boyfriend, she decided that she did not want this to happen. Instead of Iva coming clean with her boyfriend and explaining everything to him and telling him how she got drunk, she I think was afraid and is trying to lie her way out of it. I think Iva boyfriend loves her no matter what and I think if she was straight up honest with him, he would have forgiven her anyway but lying to him maybe something he can not forgive. Although I do not care for Betsy I do think she is telling the truth about the situation and I feel sorry that she has no where to go, I do hope that Betsy husband shows up on the show one day and bring everything to light about Betsy and her strange ways. Listening to Betsy talking about having sex with Satan and how it was like a snake crawling in her, sounds more like this girl may have been molested when she was young and how she may have been drugged or somehow out of it at the time and did not understand what was going on. Listening to a lot of this young Amish people it seem as if the Amish community have a lot of secrets and one of those secrets is adult men molesting young girls and boys. Betsy has some that happened to her when she was young and I do not think it has anything to do with demons or witchcraft, I think it was someone who messed up this young girls head by doing some ungodly things to her. I think Betsy could use to psychiatric help along with some good advice on how to go on with her future. Now as for all these other strange things going on my question is when will they start with everyone careers. Iva can bake and I was looking for her to get into something regarding her baking skills like a culinary school and Matt who loves to sew so of course everyone think he is gay, I want to see him sew some outfits together, other than the Amish ones. I personally do not think anything is wrong with a man have a love for fashion and that does not necessarily mean he is gay, okay, okay a man on a sewing machine locked up in a room all day long could be considered a little on the feminine side. So when will they start with getting these young people into job situations, the only one I seen worked was Sam and I did not think he was suppose to be part of the show but now he is one of my favorites and I would like to see him do more, especially since he is so open minded and stands by his sister side, like any good man would. The one who I am not sure of place on this show is Lizzie, Sam's sister. Her being pregnant just does not fit with the show and she can not really do anything, like work or party. Why would you have a pregnant woman on a show and all she can do is watch everyone else act crazy and give her opinion, will she actually be having the baby on the show or what, please tell me why is she here. Maybe they have some big plans for her toward the ending of the show, I guess we will see. I am anxiously waiting on next week's episode in which Betsy shows the video of what really happened in that room and Iva's boyfriend sees it all.

Sister Wives(8-18-13)

I watched sister wives and I was very glad to see that Meri finally got her house, although it was after actual Christmas. I still feel that Janelle and Christina as sister wives to Meri did not show a big of compassion on Meri's part. I know everyone was moving and trying to get their house in order but I still show that divide between the women and I have to admit that Cody was not happening in that divide. I know Cody can see what is going on between the women but he does nothing and although I know like most men Cody don't want to come between the women but he is a man with sister wives and his situation is different so he should handle it differently. Not only did Cody not help the situation I think he edge more feelings on by asking the women to have a bake off to see who made his mothers caramels the best. With this bake off I learned that Janelle could not cook, I did not know that Janelle could not cook. This is a woman who is the worse in handling her kids, is a bad housekeeper and now I learn she can not cook, wow. I guest Janelle feels that she has a career as a realtor and with this she does not need anything else. Janelle seems as though she is one of those sister wives that wanted the gratification of having the man and some children for the man but she expected the other sister wives to take care of the housekeeping and raising her children. If that is how some of the sister wives think than leave me out. I have enough with taking care my own house and children, why would I want to add ten more children someone else had and the headache that come along with disciplining them and on top of that cleaning your mess up. Janelle may have feel that some of the women were not being good sisterwives because they got away from keeping her kids and cleaning up her mess and she had to actually take care of these things on her own. Big deal Janelle, you ever think you were not being a good sisterwife by leaving your sisterwives to take care all of your duties while you were working outside of the house. I listen to Janelle said for this cooking bake off she had a ace in the hole, her mother was there and use to help Cody's mother bake her caramels and then what really upset me was that Janelle had the nerve to say I need this advantage because I am the only woman who can not cook so this makes it fair. Now how long has Janelle been married to Cody and see never learned to cook, not even take any pointers from the other women, is this because she was just to lazy to take the effort or because she always had the other women to do it for her. I have to admit Christina is a homemaker and her and Janelle seems to be close, why would Janelle not get advice from Christina. I want to know why Janelle does not have a firm hand in raising her kids either, Cody had the gull to say that Meri attitude is why Mariah behaved as she did and that he is afraid of Meri's and Mariah's relationship, I guess he was trying to say it was toxic and the way Meri handles Mariah. Does Cody not see Janelle relationship with her children, it seems to be none existence. The kids are yelling and fighting and calling out to Janelle and all she says is quit it and she keeps working on whatever she is working on. Janelle may walk into the room where the kids are but she looks at them as though she does not know what to say to them and then she walks out. If Cody does not go to Janelle house much I can see why. I have to say that I do like how the show ended with a little laughter with Meri and Robyn going out and buying caramel because they were tired. This put a little light heart into the women prospective on things as for this competition but I could still she it in Janelle face where she did not think it was that funny although Christina got a good laugh and the better cooker, who I always thought it was Christina actually won the competition. Christina is a homemaker and she is a perfectionist so she kept at the baking of the caramels until it was exactly right, nothing wrong with that Christina. Now I want to get back at the rip between the sisterwives, I always thought it was more to why Cody seemed to be getting so impatient with Meri lately, you could hear it in his voice every time he talked to her and I don't know if I notice this more because of my own issues going on with me and my husband and he talks to the me the same way, as though he does not know me and as if he have not lived with me for years and that anything I say is annoying and that my attitude is something new to him. This is how I feel Cody is toward Meri and because of this I felt it was something deeper and looking at next week episode I see where Cody ask Meri has she made a decision on the baby situation or not. I had and aha moment in which I thought this could be it, Cody could be resentful towards Meri because she had not made up her mind about having another baby for him and the way Cody is about his wives and multiplying with them, Meri's attitude toward not really showing interest to having another child could be a blow to Cody's ego. Wow, I could see why someone like Cody ego would be shattered when his first wife is not sure about having his baby, but Cody has to look at Meri's age and why it would be such a burden on her, not to mention how the baby as well as Meri can have some serious issues during pregnancy. A person like Cody have to stop being selfish and if he really loves the woman than think about her circumstances. Look at that father on nineteen and counting, it is right ridiculous, the doctor told the wife that her and the child could die in birth or she could die because of her age and health but yet they continued and the baby died. They keep trying and instead of the husband having the forth site to say no more to his wife, he brings God into it saying it is God's will, like he know what God will is. Why not appreciate what you have with your wife enjoy that and accept that our bodies, just as men body do get older and there is a time when certain things, like childbirth comes to an end.

Sunday, August 18, 2013

Porter Ridge(What Do you Think)

Has anyone watched the new show Porter Ridge, they are saying that this is the next Duck Dynasty. I have watched but do not agree with it being that next Duck Dynasty, at least not with what I have seen so far. Yes these guys are down home country people who leave a simple life and barter for a lot of their items and to do business deals, but what the show is missing for me is true reality. I watch it and did like some of the people like Mr. Porter himself, he seems to be a little short on education, which is no big deal when you live like these people do but you don't want to be cheated by your competition and just what seems to happens to him for  the lack of knowledge. Education may not be big on the ridge but you do need that knowledge. A lot of the show seems to be just an act and the cast seemed to be putting on an act as to make the show a success, although I do not doubt the guy who owns the bear, I just think he is plain crazy. Bears are dangerous no matter what environment you are in and anyone who choose to live and train bears will soon meet what I call their demise if they continue on this path. Now I did not say I dislike the bear, the bear is cute and a good part of the entertainment but to live with an animal like he is human is a little crazy thinking to me. Well anyway I will continue to watch the show just to she what how it continue on, it may be more to this show than I am realizing and I may grow to understand the cast and animal more as the show goes on. For now I am doubtful and I do not see it being a Duck Dynasty at all, other than they trying to work at copying the Duck Dynasty legacy, certain things you can not fake and the Duck Dynasty family was not faking it when they were aired, they were just being themselves. I know some people watch a show and realize how others are making money off it and they say to themselves, we are as just as good as them and we have as much laugh and our family is as down to earth and funny as they are, so they think they can do a show. Okay Porters I am giving you a chance and I will keep watching, all I ask is you be yourselves not the Robertson and do you and maybe your own spin will work.

Being Maci(What The???)

Okay has anyone watched the new show being Maci from one of the Teen Mom 2 moms show, you know Bentley's mom. Now I have to admit out of all the teen moms Maci was my favorite, especially because she took being a mom so seriously and she understood that being a mom meant that they way her life was had to change a little. What I did not care for was Bentley's dad(Ryan), he is a real a** to me and the only reason I think he stepped up to be in Bentley's life was because he realized that Maci was making money of the show and he wanted part of that, his family is a piece of work as well. I watched the show and saw how they defended their son's terrible attitude and on top of that they let him sit around the house and do absolute nothing while they paid for his habits, on top of that they let this teenager stay in the house with other girls, how stupid. His family seemed as if they were almost scared of him, to keep him from getting in trouble with the courts they paid his child support instead of teaching him tough love and letting him know that having a child is not a joke but a responsibility and his family taught him nothing of this. That is why Ryan did not take his responsibility of being a father to Bentley as serious as Maci did, so why would someone actually give Maci her own show. Like I said I like Maci but I do not see her being worthy of a show, I know she may have a lot of fans but this show after watching it is just the camera following her around on her everyday life and who is also on the show continuing to make money for doing nothing, you got it Ryan. All we see is Ryan lying in bed with a girlfriend while he waits on his turn to take Bentley and he deserve to be on the show for this. I really do not want to see Ryan, who I think is the sorry excuse of a father to me and I do not want to see Maci running around living her life in a apartment with friends as she drops Bentley off at daycare and she goes on to school. I do not think someone who was a teen mom is worthy of a program in which we see her do a everyday life routine in which we all have similar everyday life routines. Why is Maci everyday routine any different from another teen mom routine or grown woman, which she is now because she is twenty one, just unmarried as a lot of women are unmarried with children in our country. What makes Maci's life any better than some other woman who may be struggle with raising a child and going to school, other than she was on teen mom and she is making money on a local radio station in her county and she is making money on the show and is obviously making more money than most single mom's out their are making. I am sorry but when I meant I was through with teen mom 2 I meant it and I do not think any of the mothers, including Maci who was a favorite of mine, deserves to make another dime off having become pregnant as a teenager. To me the show is still glorifying teenage pregnancy because other teen girls will still think this could be them, if they get pregnant they could possibly land on one of these teen mom shows, of course they already have teen mom 3 starting, and they could become one of the fans favorites and offered their own show, like Maci. Why is the television programming continuing to glorify teen age pregnancy, young girls are not getting a lesson as to why they should not get pregnant but a lesson as to why getting pregnant young can possibly make you money and we have to remember these girls are young and stupid and that is how they think. Young people in our society today think totally backwards, they do not think as we did in our younger days and all they think about is how much money they can make and how to do anything to make this money. There is very little pride in our teens today and they do not care what they have to do to make money in our society, be it stripping, porn, whoring or becoming pregnant teens to get free government assistance. It is sad but it is true and these television shows are not helping to deter teenagers from becoming pregnant to me and I think they should work at a better angle for these shows. I will not look at "Being Maci" because I do not need to see her living her everyday life as a single mom when I have friends and others around me who are living this on a daily basis. I applaud Maci for making something of her life by going back to school and I am a bigger fan of hers for raising her son Bentley totally opposite of what his father Ryan is raising him as, I notice Bentley have attitude that takes on that of his father and his father along with his family and friends all think it is cute and funny, Ryan really needs to grow up but apparently his family and friends will not let him and he is fine with it. That is the saddest part to me that Bentley has to be around Ryan's ugly attitude, but like the saying say " you can't choose your parents", to bad for Bentley. I am personally hopping the show will not be successful and gets cancelled because it is nothing to the show that I can see, Maci is twenty one and Bentley is three, they live in an apartment with some of Maci friends as they share rent, nothing real exciting about the show at all to me.

Friday, August 16, 2013

Marrying The Game(This Episode Was Close to Home)

I watch the last Marrying the Game episode and I understand exactly where Tiffany is coming from when she said she does not see the Game is not ready to settle down and she does not want to marry him until she is sure that their family is what he wants. I have mentioned that I admire Tiffany before for being that brave woman who did not just jump into a marriage just because she could. Anyone can get married but the real thing about getting married is making sure it will work. A wedding is not just about the cake, the wedding dress or the planning, it is about two people who really do understand what they are getting into and what it will take in the long run to make the vows you promise to each other lasting. I believe on of the most important part of any wedding is the vows that the two people make in front of their family, friends and foremost God. I did not have a big lavish wedding and I did not need one, the lady that married us was a justice of the peace and it was just me, my fiancee and her and what made it extra special was that her husband had not to long past so she was very sentimental when ready the vows to us. The vows she sited to us was so special to me and I took every word she said to heart, because it talk of us being strong together and keeping God in our lives as we go on this journey together. The words were powerful and like Tiffany believes any marriage is not to be entered into likely and anyone should make sure before steeping in front of that preacher that they are really ready to commit to the promise they make in front of God. I did not take the vows that justice of the peace sited for us and took them very seriously but I down the line found out that my husband did not take the vows as seriously as I did. We are now going through our issues and I am trying to understand where we went wrong. I told him that those vows meant the world to me and I was sure that he would be the man beside my side for the rest of my life. My husband who now seems to being going through a mid life crisis, says he too took the vows seriously but has his own demons he is struggling with and it is not because of me, but for someone reason he will not talk to me about it and he is not by my side as the vows said he should be. I still take my vows very seriously and still want my husband by my side but he is not here. If I have to give Tiffany any advice I would say stick to your guns and do not marry the Game unless you are really sure he will stand by your side when times are tough. I feel as if the Game thinks like my husband that Tiffany is just being drama filled and it is no big deal. The Game has the attitude like why do we just not walk down the aisle and get it over with, it is not that simple and the wedding is just a performance for friends and family. The real wedding are those vows you will make in front of God with your wife and the promises you make that you should know will be kept for the many years you are together. Don't just get married because you think it is the right thing to do and you have children together, get married because you know being with this woman is what you want for the rest of your lives. I thought about it before we got married but I made the mistake of not making sure that this is what my husband really wanted, I don't think he understood how important those vows were and if he did he would not worry about getting older and wondering if he still has it or not by sleeping with and younger woman. I expected my husband to grow old with me and if he found that he was troubled that he would come to me and let me know. I want to grow old with my husband but I want he to understand that I am here for him and that he can trust in me and God for that ear to listen to when he needs it. I think Tiffany wants the Game to understand that it will not just be that persona he has known as the Game she will be marrying but Jayceon as well. The Game I have a special message for you, I know that you have to put on this persona for your career and that is how you are making the money to be able to afford this expensive items but you have to remember that you can cross over from the rap persona to other personalities. Look at ice cube and ice tea and how they were once these hardcore rappers but made that transition to these great actors and producers. Ice cube and Ice Tea understood that there was a time for everything and a life once lived was not the life that was the future for them. They are now both family men and respect and enjoy their children and wife, look at how ice tea put his wife own a pedestal, he has come to known how she is his queen and if it was not for her he made be dead like Tupac and Biggie. You the Jayceon aka The Game have to make that decision for your children what life and path you will choose. I am not even including Tiffany because you are not married to her as of yet so your children should be the biggest factor in what decision you will be making in your life. I am rooting for you Jayceon and I know you can make that transition into another profession, you can hold on to that rap and slowly drop it as you transition into something else you want to do and what is great about this is you can do this very slowly while taking your fans along with you. Ice cube made his transition slowly and as he was rapping and starting to do little parts acting, he took those fans like me along with him. I never forget watching him do Boyz in the Hood, I did not know ice cube had it in him but what I realized as well as his acting in Boyz in the Hood was part of his real life that he brought on to the screen, great job. You can take what you as the Game have endured in real life to that big screen, think about it.

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Love & Hip Hop Reunion Part 2

Now looking at the Love & Hip Hop Reunion part two, Shay acts like one of those popcorn ho and she is talking crap to Erica about how she has a man but can get hers anytime she want, now if Shay's man is watching this show he should have enough sense to just run because if my woman was on television talking about she can have another man anytime she wants than that means he can as well have her anytime he wants. Do you hear that Shay's man? If there really is a Shay man I am starting to doubt this, especially when she talks about being able to tap Scrappy anytime she wants, what woman you know would disrespect her man by saying she can tap another man anytime she wants on live television. If after watching this show no one can see how dumb Shay really is than they are as stupid as her, Shay is to me in the place of a popcorn ho, because she has no real place on the show other than sleeping with Scrappy when it pleases him and she is stupid enough to keep sleeping with Scrappy when he is using her as a dipping ho. Who would be so stupid as to disrespect themselves on television by being that dipping ho unless she just wants to on television but still why would you disrespect yourself in front of millions because guys will she you as this popcorn ho whom they can have their real woman on the side and sleep with you just because they can. As for K. Michelle I have to say I really like your singing, you go girl, there was one thing I think you can work on and that is your hair coloring and that big rear end. Now K. Michelle I have a rear end and think a real woman has a rear end but yours is too huge, so maybe consider getting a little deflation. I have to say K. Michelle I love the way you have worked on your attitude and you have won me over as a fan and I for one will be following your career. Just consider working on those few things and I think your dream may just become bigger than you realized. I was expecting a little more from part two of the reunion but it still satisfied some curious parts that were on my mind, like Mimi still being with Nikko, which puzzled me for some odd reason, the talking she did was all fake and apparently her and Nikko worked it out. Well Mimi does deserve someone and I hope Nikko is the one for her. Now as for Joseline and Stevie J I think their entire relationship is a joke and Joseline have actually one a place in my heart because she actually have opened up to us and has showed us that she is not just this cold hearted devil woman. We now know that Joseline respect the relationship between Stevie J and Mimi as parents of little Eva and I can only respect this aspect of Joseline, but I do think Stevie J is a joke and he is making a joke of his relationship with Joseline. I am kind of rooting on the side of Joseline and hopes she finds a man that will really treat her with some real respect and she leaves Stevie J high and dry and looking like a real dummy in the front of a store with that stupid surprise look on his face. As for Rasheda and Curt their relationship is a big mess, the reason because they have years invested in each other not to mention children and one child on the way, so where do they go from here especially after Curt disrespected Rasheda on live television. Curt did the ultimate betrayal that a husband can do to a wife and what made this betrayal even worst is that it was not done in private so they can not work on this relationship in private and then Curt had that stupid smirk on his face like he thought the entire situation was funny. Curt ask as though he was not taking what he did seriously, I was not sure how to take Curt other than saying he seemed like a true idiot to me on the stage. Well I will be looking forward to the next season although I have to admit K. Michelle brought that pow wow to the show and there will be that empty space where she use to be but I do she Tracie possibly filling in this spot, that ex of Tracie to me has some serious issues. He wants his cake and eat it too and see nothing wrong with the way he interferes with Tracie relationships. Tracie is a grown woman and he decided years ago to move on so let her move on, if she makes mistake along the way then they are her mistakes to make. I also have to admit I would like to she another person exit the show and that is Shay Johnson as the host called her, she has not relevance to the show other than being that famous popcorn ho and she can exit right, left or what he heck just fall of edge, better yet why not let Erica give her a little push off the edge, now that is funny. Benzio to me is a big mess and all the women said he tried to hit on them, now in my personal opinion is that Benzio feels that he has no place on the show and he may be thinking that if he does not do something to add to his character on the show he maybe leaving so I think he is trying to get a relationship started so this will add to his place on the show and he will get more camera time. We can't blame Benzio or trying, he wants to keep his place on the show and I feel that if he does not add to it soon he may just be axed. I think that after his relationship with Carlie was over, so was most of his screen time. Maybe Benzio can work with that Joseline look a like angle, the girl did seem to have a little spunk and if not her how about Benzio hooking up with the other girl Stevie J was so call managing, she just disappeared off the show after her and Joseline got into it but I think it would be a great angle if maybe Benzio started managing her, now this would be an angle I could see happening. As for Scrappy I am really hoping him and Erica gets back together because they belong together and Mama D can go sit in a rocking chair some where and rock the rest of her days out, she is now to old to be anyone pimp and needs to retired that mouth in a museum somewhere out of range where we human people can not get too. I do not like Mama D and she is too involved in Scrappy's relationship and Scrappy is a grown a** man. Maybe if Mama D found a man of her own she would not have to be so involved in what Scrappy is doing, talking about some castle in which she is the queen, what an insult to a real Queen like Queen Elizabeth who has the quality only a real queen posses and that is pose, dignity and oh real money. Sit down Mama D just sit down, this is not the hood and you are not running shizane.

Excitement On Return of Duck Dynasty(8-14-13)

Okay it is almost here, Duck Dynasty is returning and who is the first person I see on the screen, the one and only Sal. Sal of course is a favorite fan and he really does make a big part of the show but I will be missing Phil's so famous prayers at the end of the show but I am also waiting on the participation of the other brother who was not a part of the show from the beginning. I am hearing that this brother is a preacher and I am sure him and his family will bring as much joy as the other brothers to the screen. There is nothing bad at all that I can say about the Duck Dynasty show because this family is a very strong praying family that through the rough times stick by each others side, what bad can you say about a family that has each others back. I always believed in the power of prayer and I believe in the saying that a family that prays to together stays together and this family has showed that they are not afraid to pray together. I am all about this family love that they bring to the screen, it is a great difference from all those realities shows in which everyone is hating each other, back stabbing and just right out rude to each other. Duck Dynasty is a change of paste in which you have a loving family who at times have falling out with each others but at the end they take the time to understand anything a family member has done was out of love and that these family members only have each others back and that it is more important to come together as a strong unit at the end of the day and to forget and to forgive will give you much more piece of mind than to hold that anger in your heart. I love this family and like I said before I hope they never change and always keep that love of God in their hearts and  prayer on their table and to make sure they continue to pass these values on to their children. I will be watching the show as long as they are on the air and will always make sure my children know why these family unity is such a important factor in any family relationship. So Wednesday night August 14th I will in front of the television waiting on the Season 4 debut on A&E.

Monday, August 12, 2013

Moonshiners

Do anyone watch the show the moonshiners, I love this show and one big reason I started watching it was because I was curious how it would be portrayed especially since I grew up in this kind of environment. My grandfather on my mother side had thirteen children and doing that time he had to have another way other than farming to feed his children so my grandfather was a moonshine maker and runner. I remember being a little girl at my grandparents house and me and some of the other children where play hide and go seek when I ran way into the back of the woods and found what I called a beautiful shining machine. When my mother came to pick us up I told her of this beautiful machine I found in the back woods of my grandparents house and she said that was not just any machine, it was a moonshine still and that I should never go back there again, she my mother would never lie to me anything we wanted to know I mother would tell us the truth. This is when my mother sat me down and told me how her father made moonshine to feed his family, she also told me to never speak of it and too stay from back there. I thought this was exciting but wanted to know more so when they said they were actually making a show about men making moonshine I was all in. Now I can understand some of the things my grandfather may have went through to feed his family. If you watch the show, these guys are really hard workers and moonshining is by no means easy. These are good old fashion, hard working men who are basically either trying to help out other family members by making this shine or trying to feed themselves and this is the only life they knew or was raised up with. The funny thing is that moonshining to some level is legal now and the government will allow you to make it as long as they can regulate it and of course get taxes from it. So there are some legal moonshine makers and some of these guys are trying to go legal. I am happy for the guys if they can go legal but I also understand the guys who choose not to go legal as well because the government is trying to regulate what they do and how they do it while taxing as much as they can on what they are making. This country really must be going broke if they are willing to let the moonshiners go legal so that they can tax it, so why not let weed go legal, oh that is right there are some legal weed facilities that are again monitored and taxed by the government, just not all states are allowing for this. So all the states should allow for legal moonshine and weed, that way we can tax it in all the states and get out of this debt we are in. I can see us coming out of our debt fast if we legalize weed and moonshine in all states and having more and beyond money to use for other important things. That is why I like this moonshine show, it helps me get a clear understanding of why this country so allow for certain thing, such as moonshiners to do what they do, just legally and do not give them a hard time about getting a license for it. I can see it now, moonshine store on every corner and a weed store on every other corner, now that is a thought. Now back to the show, Tickle has become a very popular character on the show and I know why the guy is crazy, he can make moonshine but he can drink it too, it is funny to see if he will make it or drink it because you can always find Tickle somewhere knocked out in a corner or field. Now one of the best moonshiners I think is on the show is the group of Jeff, Mark and Jim Tom, this is one great group of guys and some hell of some moonshine makers. With Jeff moonshine making skills, Jim Tom still mill making skills and of course Mark survival skills these guys are a power team, they have everything covered. What confused me at the end of last season was that Jeff and Mark fell out with Jim Tom for some reason and I am not sure why. All I heard at the reunion, which Jim Tom did not attend, was that he talked to much. I guess maybe he said to much on the cameras that could have jeopardized the guys safety. Now the two that worry me the most is Bill and Josh because they seem like they  have know idea on how to make still and if they do then they sure do catch hell making a actual still mill itself. These two should recruit someone who really knows how to make a still mill but I think they are too afraid they will have to share their money. Well with all the trouble they have been having and actually not really getting to make a steady batch of moonshine, I think they should reconsider paying someone because they seemed to have lost a lot of money trying to take on this task themselves. The two guys said they just had a run of bad luck but I do not believe it was just bad luck on Bill and Josh part but their was a lot of lack of knowledge that did them in as well. I hope that Bill and Josh will make moonshine this season and would like to see it but I only think this is possible if they recruit some help. Now from the previews for this season I noticed that it seemed to be focused on Tickle and I know Tickle has become popular with the fans and I myself am a fan of Tickle, especially since he is from my home state but I would like to see Mark be featured more. Mark is usually a quiet guy and he stays to himself but I would like to see him have his own still going on and the guys helping him because the past season Jeff called on Mark for help and being the friend he is, he was all to happy to help. Mark seems to be one of those friends that will do all he can to help you and his military experience has proven to really top notch and really has helped Jeff keep his still mills secret. I thought Mark was there only to be a look out for Jeff and to make sure he was not caught will processing his moonshine but them Mark jumped right on in and started helping Jeff to process the corn and barley. That what makes Jeff moonshine so great, he is flexible and can use barley or corn to make different types of moonshine, I like seeing Jeff at work. Waiting on the next season to see if Bill and Josh have learned anything and stopped making stupid mistakes.

Amish MaFia is Returning!!!!

I am a big fan of Amish Mafia and can not wait until its returns tomorrow night. I have watched everyone fight over control of handling the Amish personal affairs and personally I think Merlin is a joke, Levi is finished and Ester does not know where she is headed exactly. I have to say out of all the Amish trying to take control I am rooting for Jolin, yes Jolin is my favorite he has always sat back and done Levi's dirty work for him while being quite as he did not agree with some of the things Levi was doing. The only thing I think Jolin needs to do is to get some back up because right now he is alone and he can not do it alone, someone has to have you back. From my standing I think Jolin should talk to the black Amish and try to sway him on his side because Ester and John are on their own agendas and they have recruited their crazy brother. Merlin like I said is a big joke and although he does have some people to back him, he too me is like a loose cannon and he breaks under pressure because I have seen that. Jolin could use the black Amish to help him get Levi under control because he has so much information on Levi and Jolin can use this to control Levi. I think Jolin will have no problem with Merlin, he could just push Merlin on the ground and step on top of him and he is finished, I think his crew will wither and die once he is gone. As for Ester and John I actually think they will be a problem for Jolin but Jolin I have learned is very smart and he will figure out how to handle those two. Now Levi talks a good game saying he is not worried about any of the other Amish rivals that are trying to take his place but you can hear it in his voice that he is really scared. I know it would be foolish for Levi to admit it and you should never admit you are afraid to your enemies but if he is not running scared he should be and he should be recruiting some serious help to back him up with all that will be coming at him. I was a big fan of Ester and I still am because she is the toughest Amish woman I have ever seen. Ester seems as if she don't play and she don't take crap from anyone. I would like to see Ester on breaking Amish, I can see her kicking some of the other girls a** and some of the men too. I have to admit it is great seeing strong women in our society and to know that their are strong women in the Amish community as well is only proof that women are the backbone of this country. Look at Abe's mom, she is one tough cookie and she will take any punishment when it comes to her children,  I see Ester being this same kind of mom. Okay bring on the excitement I am ready to see who will when this fight between, Levi, Jolin, Ester & John and Merlin and oh don't forget the black Amish, he is some where in this chaos as well I just don't know where. I think the black Amish should choose a side and stick with it. I have to admit it is sad to see that the black Amish is as an outsider in the Amish community as the blacks are in the English community, this world worries me, but the fireworks will be on Tuesday night. I have to ask again, why are these shows reappearing on weekday nights and not on the weekend. There are empty spots on Sunday night programming where it is really boring, why not fill these slots, well it is a good thing I have Tito because I have a lot of recording to do.

Sunday, August 11, 2013

Breaking Amish LA(8-11-13)

Okay Breaking Amish LA has finally got to the good part when all the young Amish people get make overs and how does it go. Well I thought the girls began to start looking great as they were putting on their make-up but then came the moment of hair reveling and I would have to say all the girls except Betsy hair was on point. Betsy's hairdo literally scared the crap out of me. I thought she looked like a vampire out of she Dawn of the Night flick. Betsy is already pale and very skinny so the hairdo did her no justice as to add to her already creepy look. I thought I was looking at Elvira after she has been on the biggest loser camp. I think if they had maybe cut Betsy hair and styled it into a pretty bob cut would have made her look stunning. I know Betsy probably requested her hair not to be cut as I notice none of the women hair was cut but Betsy needed it due to her facial features and her being so pale and skinny. Betsy is one those Amish person who needs a real make over, I will have to say even the outfits she choose were not right for her because of her pale skin. I think they should do another make over for Betsy, something that will really attract the guys to her. If Betsy had one of those bob hair cuts with one length on one side longer than the other and a tight black outfit that really cling to her body, ohh she would have receive some attention. personally I think Betsy could pull this off. Now for the guys their make overs was as we suspected, theirs were plain and simple a little hair cut and slap on any kind of clothing and your good to go. The guys looked okay which is basically the same just the change of their clothing. The biggest thing that happen on the show was some of the Amish children getting drunk and doing some things I am not to clear on , except it seemed to be an explosive part on the next episode, which I am anxiously waiting on because it looks like Betsy has went off the deep end and her and Ivy seemed to really have clashed. Some things that these Amish kids do even shocked me and maybe this is because drinking is involved. I not a drinker and I do not understand it when people get drunk and at like idiots and do things they would not otherwise do. I have watched people make fools of themselves and told them about it the next day and the do not remember a thing, amazing to me because I would want to know if someone caught me on camera or not because it may end up some where you do not want it to end up. I will not mention any names but this has happen to some co-workers and to this day they still think that some of the things they did while drunk is just between them and the people that were there, but it is not and I do not have the heart to tell them. Well we will see what happen next week with the witch Betsy because all that witch craft see is doing fits that hair do she has, she actually looks like a witch, please I hope they do another make over for Betsy in the near future, if she makes it that long because looking at the preview for the next episode she is separating from the other Amish kids.

Sister Wives (8-11-13)

Okay the moment arrive that I was waiting for, the finishing of the sister wives houses but I was very disappointed. All the sister wives houses were finished but for some reason Meri's house closing did not go through. Janelle got the news that her house was the first to finish while Christina had to be docks and Robin docs had to be signed. Now when the realtor was explaining all this and giving the bad news that Meri's paperwork on her house would not be finished and she did not know when was disappointing to me. Meri of all people house was the one I thought and was hoping would be finished first and I was very disappointed in Janelle's attitude about the entire thing, I know she was happy that her house was finished but she did not take the time in her happiness to at least tell Meri that she was sad for her and neither did Christina. Robin and Cody was the only two who acknowledged how upset Meri was and to comfort her without ruining the other women joyous occasion. So I have to ask where was the sisterhood at with Janelle's and Christina's attitude, why did that not even acknowledge or talk about the fact that Meri was left out, even talking sitting on the couch Janelle just talked about her house, her house, her house as to rub it in that her house was ready and Meri's was not. Janelle had to know that constantly going on about her house was not making Meri feel good at all, I think this is all about that jealousy Janelle has with Robin and the fact that she feels that Meri sides with Robin and Christina is slightly on the same side as Janelle. Like I said before it is two against two, Robin and Meri on one side and Janelle and Christina on the other, I am starting to believe in the sisterwives less and less with the attitudes of Jenelle and Christina. Christina I have to say tries to make the family stronger by coming up with these great party idea and if you asked me out of all the mothers, who would I choose out all of the sisterwives to be my mother, I would have to say Christina and if you ask me out of all the sisterwives who would I least choose as my mother I would say Janelle. Janelle to me has a very ugly attitude and during most of the season she has wined about know one helping her with her children or duties while she lived in her own house. Janelle is very slop and lazy to me and the only reason I seen why she was complaining was because she was use to the other women doing most of her duties for her. Janelle may be in her house first but I see her house being just as sloppy as the rental house she had, but of course since the women live around her she probably will be calling for help. I know I am sounding harsh but it really surprise me how the women were not more supporting of Meri and as they sat on that couch none of them acknowledge how hard it must have been for Meri. I was disappointed in Cody as well and looking at next week episode it looks like Cody is putting all the stress their daughter is having on Meri. Cody should know that a child Mariah's age and being Meri's only child will have that strong compassion for her mother and if her mother hurt she will hurt. Mariah knows that the house is not signed off and that her mother will feel left out because of this, Meri does not have to say a thing to Mariah, as a matter of fact Meri putting on a happy face for Mariah makes it worst because this only upset Mariah even more. I can not understand how this sisterhood is a sisterhood when all the wives are not trying in all their power to make the other women life easier. I do not know where Cody stands in all this because his attitude is completely confusing me, he seemed as if he was just glad he had one of the houses in which he could sleep in. I also heard Cody said Meri has issues with her vehicle, she can't get in her house like the other women and she has the crappy car of all of them. I know the women were jealous of Meri because she got the same size house as them and they have more children but they have to let this go, Meri is the first wife and she was nice enough to share her husband with the other women without complaining once. Meri can not help that she have issues with her body that will not allow her to carry another child, this happen to some women so why punish her. I am team Meri and I will stay team Meri, I will never respect Janelle because I think she has the worst attitude of all the women because of her low self esteem. I know how it is when you get fat and feel that your husband no longer is attractive to you and I think this is Janelle's problem, that is why she is so mad that Meri brought in much younger skinner Robin.

Storage Wars(How Is It Doing?)

I was wondering how Storage Wars have been doing since no Dave Hester. I disagreed with the removal of Dave and became one of the Dave's cheerleader. I do not know why the show thought that removing Dave and putting the camera more on Brandy's breast would make us watch the show more was a great idea but as for me a female, this was a stupid idea. I think the show think that men, who do seem to think with one thing are their biggest watchers so this enhancement of Brandy would keep the ratings going. Well I would like to know because I have not watch the show since Dave was removed and I was wondering how it was working for the show ratings because I am one of those person who choose to believe that this plot would not work for viewers. Now I have to say I do miss Barry, next to Dave I loved and enjoyed Barry little pranks. I did not know what Barry would do from one show to the other and always waited on his little antics. I just personally think the show made a very bad decision in firing Dave because he spilled the beans about the show letting Brandy and her husband know what were in the storage units ahead of times so that they could bid on the good ones and it would look like they were the better bidder. I agree with Dave when he said this was his lively hood and this was just not a show for him but how he made his income and how he ran his business. Bidding on these storage units is something that is very serious for Dave and he has a huge store and people he has to pay depending on what he can get out of these storage units and for the show to interfere so that Brandy and her husband get the better bids, all for the sake of television performance and to make the fans happy. The show really sucks for this and I hope that Dave Hester goes on to get his own show, if someone has the guts to take on a show that is about Dave and his entire business. It could be called (Yeppp here Is Dave). The show could be focused on Dave as a hard working man and how he makes his everyday living bidding on storage units and being honest while doing it. That would be a slap in the face of the producers of Storage Wars, I think that would work, especially since they do not believe in having a reality show based on how reality really is but how they figure the show should be played.

La La''s Full Court Life

I have watched La La's Full Court life since it has aired and in the beginning I was into it and I do not know if this was because of the anticipation of possibly getting to see "Mel", as La La calls her husband(Carmelo). But as the show went along I have lost interest and I guess it is because I do not look at the show as I did in the beginning, it was not just a show about La La's life it also was about her friends and their life. Do not get me wrong I do not dislike La La friends as a matter of fact I think her friends do make the show. I think the show is more about La La and how she help her friends with their lives, although I think her friends can handle their own lives and does it well. I think that the show is making La La to be more of a super hero who comes in and sweep down on people in need to save the day. But I think if La La did not have these friends, she would be like other celebrity wives who have to hang out with other celebrities wives and decipher who is and is not really who friends and then they will talk about each other behind their backs, ahhh this is starting to sound like one of the wives show. Yes that is it, if La La did not have her friends to do this show with then she would probably be on the basketball wives show, in which the women have caddy cat fights and talk about each other. I have to admit that I admire La La for not joining one of those caddy wives show and she may have been made and offer and turned it down because she did not want to be seen in such a negative light. I have to say if I was a celebrity wife I would have to turned down one of these caddy shows and if I could would have started my own show as well. For me I would have to say that La La show is missing something and I do like the friends and think they can start their own show, something like (Friends Of La La). Some may say it would not work without a celebrity but I think it would because her friends have their own lives with their own hidden drama and usually when La La has something going on it is because of her friends. Yes I know La La has her own drama going on as well but sometimes when I listen to the drama going on with La La it almost seems fake. It seems as though La La may have produce some of this drama so that she can have it on the show to make it more interesting, especially since who wants to see La La real life which includes her running around, making performances, acting in shows and just plain having it all. Us commoners do not like seeing someone who complains about their life or air their life just to show everyone else how they live the good life. Think about it if La La did not have the little drama that she had on the show all we would be watching is her having it all and on top of that getting hosting jobs and performances because of it, we can not get that .