Please Stop Teen Mom 2 (#TeenMom2)

There was a statistic that came out about teen pregnancy being down and most of this was to the contribution of Teen Mom and the 16 and pregnant show. BEEEP, wrong answer, this statistic was put out by the show itself and the pole was something they did on their own, just before the return of the teen mom show, how convenient. I personally does not think either of these shows do anything to deter teen pregnancy, only make it worse because they pay these girls to be on television with their pregnancy and life. Teen these days want to make the quick and fast money they do not want to work for it and shows like Teen Mom helps this happen. If you don't believe my opinion well watch the show for yourself. I watched the show tonight for the first time and I will tell you what all these moms are doing. Jenelle, you know the one that has the baby boy name Jase who her mother has custody of, got married but she is now separate from her husband who was her boyfriend for a short time before she married him. Jenelle got pregnant and her and her mother talks as if it is no big deal because at least she was married, but what does Jenelle do, she takes a abortion pill to end the pregnancy and then plans to go out on a date the day after, yeah we can see how much this show will really help young girls. Jenelle goes out with this guy she met online, but remember she is still married although separated and her explanation for this is that she can not stand to be without a man so it is alright to go from one man to another before ending one relationship. Please help me understand Dr. Drew, what are we learning from this. Lets move on to Kailyn, she was one of my favorites, I guess this was because this girl seemed to have her head on a little more than the other girls and she was raised with a mess up mother who treated this girl like sh**. Although Kailyn does not seem to spend money like the other girls and throw it away, she has been in a few relationships since being on the show, she goes from guy to guy before giving herself a real break, but Kailyn is now married to a guy who seems to be willing to take on his responsibility because guess what, Kailyn is pregnant again, yes she is pregnant again. I know Kailyn had got a method of birth control, now the question is did she take it out or was it pass it date? The other issue Kailyn is having is that Harvey is fighting her to keep her from traveling with her own son, that is where the immaturity comes in, I don't think he would fight her if he did not have the money he gets from the show to pay the lawyer, great going Teen Mom. Next there is Chelsea, you know the airhead who is not always a blonde shall I say. I am sorry Chelsea but your are a little light in the head, she is going to another school because she found that hair school was not for her so what does she do now, it is nail and waxing school, yeahhh. Chelsea is still fighting with her ex who is taking Chelsea to court because he feel she does not give him enough time with his child, although he has been locked up in jail. This is another two people who seem to be able to go to court and fight, and where does Chelsea ex who never seems to work anywhere get the money to get a  lawyer and go back and forth to court, of course it is the show again. Funny what money can do for these young people with children together who seems to not even work in a pie shop, while the rest of us hard workers have to go into a real job. Last but not least is Leah. We all know Leah she has the twins with Corey her ex. Well anyway she is married now and she has the twins, one she found out has MS, sorry to hear that but she now has another girl, by her now husband Jeremy, oh yeah. The thing is this is not the first time Leah was pregnant by Jeremy, she was pregnant last season by him and lost the baby and then decided to go back to Corey. After going back to Corey and finding out this was not what she wanted to went back to Jeremy and begged the man back. Now on tonight episode Leah is fussing with Jeremy about this man working, he works on a oil refinery and makes really great money but because his jobs takes him away days at a time Leah is mad and she actually said it was stupid that this man was working, I am not lying people she said this. It so happen that Jeremy's mother was there and she said it is nothing stupid about it and she is right. It is nothing like a hard working man who is willing to do what it takes to make good money for his family and Leah I am hear to say if you do not stop bitching there will be another woman standing by to scoop this hard working man up. She I think Leah feels that they are making the money from the show so they don't need that extra money he is making from the oil ridge, he can take some little job around town and be with her home every night. Leah was complaining that she is home every night with the children looking at the four walls, here we go again with a young lady having a baby at a young age and then wonder why they can't have fun like most young girls their age when they choose to have the babies, they seem to not get it. When you choose to have babies at a young age you choose to make a large sacrifice until these children turn eighteen. Chelsea had the audacity to get upset because her ex new girlfriend is pregnant and Chelsea told her daddy that she does not want her daughter Aubrey to have a new sibling and her daddy told her that was out of her hand. This girl then whined about having to go up, she says I always have to be the adult and I am tired of being the adult, I am sorry to say this but bi** are you not twenty one, sorry about your luck but you are an adult and in my personal opinion you have never act like one. Watching this show is making me scared for my children future because it shows us what our world is coming to and the young people that will be in charge of us one day, no one will be in charge because none of these young people are working or getting any real education, it is sad.

Love & Hip Hop NY 1-27-14 (#LHHNY)

Love and Hip Hop New York Monday night was the season finale and although it was not really explosive we got to see where most of these cast members are headed in their lives. Poor Yandy it has been a year since Mendeeze has been in year, wow I did not know it was that long, but Yandy is being that strong woman, keeping the faith and having only positive thing to say to Mendeeze, I personally hope that Mendeeze will be out by taping of next season, I miss this man and his interaction with his boys. Now that I know Yandy more I do not know why Chrissy was so against her working with Jim Jones, unless there is something behind the scenes that was left out. Erica Mena ended up not only possibly running her business partnership with Rich, she has definitely ruined her real relationship with Cyn, too bad I like Cyn and she had a true love for Erica, but you know how it goes, Erica Mena was trying to have her cake and eat it too. You only get the cake and eat it if you plan on fighting a messy situation, like weight gain, or a man and woman both jumping down your throat. Well Erica Mena said she is were she needs to be to get her career started and that is alone, so you have to be alone to have a career, okay. Tahiry seemed to be in a good place with making peace that she and Joe Budden would not be together but then she ran into that 6ft amazon, who seems to think she is the bomb, so called friend of hers to apologize and this woman went left. Rah Ali, is something different, she is a person who claims to be a friend, who talks mad sh** about her so called friends. She was mad because Tahiry did not help her with her wedding and my thing is friend or not if you decide to get married that is good for you but don't expect me to take on your problems, your wedding is something you dream of, I have my own dreams. Rah Ali had the nerve to tell Tahiry she was jealous and that is why she could not keep a man, what a low blow, this six foot amazon needs to be lowered in a deep dark pit. It was good to see Erica Jean so happy with her move on with Saigon, this woman was smiling from ear to ear and I was smiling with her. I remember how it was when you feel that a man is really into you and he has taken that step to make you a permanent part of your life, it is a good feeling and enjoy the time Erica. I am praying that Saigon does not break this girl heart because he still says things a man says when he really is not sure he wants to commit. Nothing wrong with committing Saigon but if you find out this move is not for you, talk to Erica first and explain to her why you both should part, don't do something like start hanging out late at night and disappearing for days at a time, this will break her heart, let her go before you do this. As for Mr. Gunz, Peter is tying to really do things to show Amina that he is really ready for this husband position. Peter went to Nick Cannon to talk of his situation and why did he feel the need to talk to Nick when everyone else told him what Nick said, I guess this was his show off point to show that he had friends in high places. The advice that was given was make your relationship with your wife work, do everything you can before you say it is not working, well dah. As for Tara, I know she will be alright, she will raise her sons and make her mark on the world and find a man that really is into her and her only, remember Tara that man is out there, you have to trust God to send him your way, God first. As for my girl K. Michelle she is continuing to do her thing, the girl can sing, and she was leaving for tour as the season was ending. Something different we got to hear from K. Michelle was that she has a son that she is raising alone, I love knowing this about her I really did not know she had a child. I want to say good luck on your journeys K. Michelle and don't forget to stop in Virginia, we love you. Now next week is all about the reunion, bring it on.

90 Day Fiance 1-26-14 (#9DayFiance)

This 90 day fiance show is really starting to bother me, there is so much that can go wrong with these men and women who have only known each other for a short time talking about jumping into marriage. I not as worried about Aya and Louis, especially with Aya been thirty, this woman has been around and she knows what she want and is old enough to make a real decision on rather she wants to marry a man or not. The real problem comes in with Louis ex-wife and two children. The ex-wife is so hard on Aya about watching her boys when her ex-husband s not around and these two boys are no angels. The boys are old enough to know right from wrong but their mother is treating them like they are some type of china, but from what I seen these boys act like hell on wheels and poor Aya will be catching it. This ex-wife and her drilling of Aya and the boys acting like, hell on wheels, say what you want but they are too big to be jumping on furniture, will possibly make Aya run away from Louis, so if Louis really wants to marry Aya he needs to get control of his kids and ex wife. Paola and Russ is another couple I am not to worried about because of the age, but what does worry me is how much money Paola spends, rather how much money of Russ she spends. Paola likes nice things and she knows how to get them and poor Russ he is one of the guys that will keep spoiling her and will not stop until he is completely broke. But there are women who are like this in all of the world and there are man who are willing to spoil to the point of them going bankrupt, I do not understand it but it is not for me to understand, some people call that love I call it man on stupid. It is like Judge Mattis say, when guys got to the stripper club and make it rain on the women, it is more like a ripper club, because they are actually getting ripped off and the strippers are the con artist. Now the ones that worry me is still Mike and Aziza, who is twenty one. This young girl in my opinion seems scared, I am really worried that she is just doing it to get to this country for a better life but it seems like her heart is really not in it. Now Mike tried for the longest to get Aziza to sleep with him and she would not, but after this past Sunday night, they went out and Aziza seen Mike flirting with some girls and this prompted her to sleep with him, I do not like the idea that she felt she had to sleep with him just so he would not possibly go with another woman and she would have to go back. It is something about Mike that creeps me a little and Aziza being twenty one, is so young and she has a lot to learn. Now the couple that worries me the most and some of you may not think so but for me in my opinion Kirlyam and Alan are just two couple that has a lot of holes in their relationship. Kirlyam we all know did live in a very poor part of Brazil and Alan help her get away from that, she seemed to have a genuine love for Alan, I think this is because of her appreciation of him taking her away from that lifestyle. But this girl really misses her family and Alan and his family Mormons ways are understandable but a little weird. They are moving this girl from one place to another so Alan will not be attempted to sleep with her. Right now Kirlyam is staying with Alan parents and although they seem nice, it is something that I can not put my hands on it about this family. They seemed to understand Kirlyam and Alan's situation and they are accepting it, but why would not these persons question why their son had to get someone overseas. Kirlyam loves her family very much and if this family was as nice as they seemed to be showing us on television they will do something to try and make sure that at least her mother and father or some part of her family can attend the wedding, so that this girl would really feel special. I am just anxious to see who will really go through with the marriage because it is starting to have twist that have me unsure who will or will not go through with it.

Sister Wives 1-26-14 (#SisterWives)

Sunday Sister Wives show was gripping. It started out with the continuation of Mariah going off to college and her mother and father surprising her with a car for her journey, but Christina notice her daughter Truley was getting worse. Truley, by the was I love this name, was sick when the wives went on a short vacation last week and her mother came home and thought maybe she had the touch of the flu, but Truley became crossed eyes and her mother knew something was wrong and rushed her to the pediatrician. The pediatrician, let Christina know that Truley was very sick and that she needed to take her to the children's hospital emergency room ASAP. Yes it turned out that Truley was sicker than they thought and she was in acute kidney failure. This little three year old was very dehydrated, it was found that she did have the touch of the flu and was not really drinking any liquids which lead to her becoming very dehydrated and in serious condition. Truley could not use the bathroom, the hospital tried giving her all kinds of things to make her use the bathroom and the doctors wanted to try everything they could before putting a three year old on dialysis. By this point I was really getting scared and I having a mother on dialysis I could not imagine a three year old on it. After many tries all the conventional ways of helping Truley go was not working and the doctors told the family that they had to put her on dialysis, my heart just fail, I could not believe that Truley would be on dialysis I started to really become scared for this baby as if she was mind. After they started her on dialysis Christina and Kody explained that the dialysis was not working, Truley was still not using the bathroom and the tears ran down my face, I was not sure if I should watch the show anyone more in fear of finding out Truley had died. The family prayed and I prayed with them, this family have real faith but it was really hard on the children because they did not know if they would see their little sister again. The tears continue down my face and Christina finally came back with the news she did it, she used the bathroom and Truley was doing much better, this little girl made a remarkable come back and she came out the hospital as though nothing happen, she jump out her daddy's arm and walked into the house after getting out the hospital. Truley even graced us with her presence by talking on camera and telling us her story, very well spoken little girl and she definitely stole my heart. What a very brave and strong girl, and her name is Truley. I want to say I love you truly and you and your family are always in my prayers. This was a real life heartfelt episode and if you have never prayed in your life you would have prayed watching this.

The Real Housewives of Atlanta 1-26-14 (#RHOA)

Did anyone watch The Real Housewives of Atlanta Sunday night, well if you did not you missed a lot. All I can say about last night show is that it was flash backs of the older days but better. Nene did a little instigating on the entire thing by having a pajamas party and inviting everyone and I do mean everyone. What Nene called it was pillow talk, but she actually made up questions for people to pull out the hat and ask one another and this started some juicy conversations. But what was the most explosive part was when Nene threw Kenya under the bus by bringing up the conversation from the winery and Chris who was there to defend his wife got very ugly with Kenya. I must say I was glad Nene put Kenya on the spot because Kenya is always running her mouth and it was time for someone to have Kenya answer up to her running diarreah of the mouth. Why did Kenya stand up and try to go over to Chris's wife and confront her, I do not know but Kenya should have sat her rear end on that pillow and made her peace from there and none of this would have really started at all. Because Kenya did get up of the pillow and tried getting in Chris's wife face of course he was blocking Kenya from getting to his wife and he touched her, because Kenya kept toward his wife and this cause Kenya's assistant to jump up in Chris face because he slightly touched her and Ms. Kenya made the biggest deal of this by hollering don't touch me. Well Peter decided it was time to intervene between these two man before a fight broke out, but Kenya's assistant began pushing Peter to get to Kenya who was still arguing with Chris and Kenya's assistant started to get a little wild which lead Peter to push him back, all of a sudden Apollo jumps up and I figure this was to help his friend Peter out that he thought was in a little jam. Before I knew it Peter had thrown Kenya's assistant to the ground and Apollo began whipping on the man, oh this was a mess but all so good. The next thing I know it was Cynthia and Kandi getting into it and a lot of it was behind Chris and his wife who are friends with Cynthia and Peter. Why is Kandi so upset with Cynthia, because her soon to be husband Todd, who we learned on Sunday show hangs in the strip club and why is this so important. Kandi and Todd are suppose to be in so much love and they are engaged but the man is already hanging in the strip club.  I thought the strip club was usually for the older men who are trying to find their youth or single young men who has no real relationship, so where does Todd fit in this group, you tell me. Why can't Kandi keep her man out the strip club at least until they are about three years into their marriage. By the way we found another bit of a news that was shocking to us most and that is that Apollo who does frequent strip clubs, spends around eight thousand dollars in these strip clubs, yes you hear it right, eight thousand. Now listening to this Nene talked when she worked in a strip club and she said some of these girls did anything with money, like gave head or have sexual intercourse. So now the question is do we think Apollo maybe getting some of these favors, hell yes. I have always thought there was a big rip between Apollo and Phadera and I think Phadera is no dummy and she knows what her husband is doing and it is not practicing to be an angel. The entire night show was something to talk about, even the party Phadera had for her youngest son who she calls Mr. President that we now knows real name is Dillion. This show will be continued next week  the pajama party had not ended as Apollo dodge through everyone to get a someone, can you guess who that someone is? The fight is not over and the arguments will continue next week. So for those of you who did not see Sunday night, I guess you catch it for next week continue of part one episode, so we can all talk about it Sunday night. I for one can not wait to see what happens to all the mixed up arguments, with woman against woman and man against man.

Couples Therapy 1-23-14 (#CouplesTherapy)

I watched Couples Therapy on Thursday night and I must say that I a really disappointed and this is because the show continues to allow Farrah to Abraham to sit among these couples and hear their issues between one another as she sits alone and they wonder why there is so much resentment with this girl being there. Farrah is the biggest phony on television I have ever seen and she goes on and on about these sad stories of her life and how everyone else has made her life a struggle. Noticed I said everyone else, this girl blames everyone else for the way her life has gone and she is only twenty one years old. She continues to humiliate herself by doing things like make a porn video and lie about it not being a porn video, when she had camera people in the room taking it and she made these unbelievable loud noises, you only do if you know people will be watching. Farrah also drives me personally nuts with these fake crocodile tears she tries to make come, that sometimes don't even fall. Now on Thursday night episode because she still can not produce a boyfriend she had a talk with Dr. Jenn Berman and this girl threw her mother under the bus, now she wants the doctor to bring her mother in and they have a discussion of how bad her childhood was and that is why she is the way she is. This girl talks of such a horrible childhood of both her mother and father, but yet guess who is keeping her daughter now. Farrah is quick to let her mother keep her daughter but always saying negative things about her mother and how she treated her growing up, this does not gel with me because, why not keep your mother as far away from your child if she treated you so badly. I am sick of Farrah being in the house with these other couples and although I understand why Dr. Berman is keeping her, because the young lady does need some sort of therapy, I just do not know why Dr. Berman is choosing to keep her on a couples therapy show, maybe she thinks that if and I do mean if, Farrah does luck up and gets the opportunity to be in a real relationship, the couple therapy sessions she sits in on will help her to better understand how to keep a man. My probably with the young girl is she is always lying and Dr. Berman has really not confronted her on her lies, because she is one of those people that lie so much she believes it and turns everyone else truth around. To continue on with the real couples, it is really interesting to see John Gosselin with his girlfriend Liz Janetta because this woman emasculates John almost the way we can imagine that Kate emasculated him. John seems to loose his backbone when a woman gets in his face and although I know a man can not touch a woman, it is not good when a man backs down like this, he has to make his voice heard. Now Liz jumped on John because when she came in the bedroom, she said John was, shall we say pleasing himself and although it was hard to tell from the cameras rather he was or not because he was under the covers, I am not doubting it because he was making some really weird noise. John denies it and say he was scratching himself, as Liz said she was right there why did he not ask her, but in my opinion Liz is so emasculating of this man I see him be fearful to ask her things at times. I myself do this with my husband, especially if I know he is in a certain mood, you almost are afraid to ask them anything from the fear of them yelling and I can see this with Liz. I really think Liz and John needs some help. Another couple that really need some serious help in my eyes is Ghostface and Kelsey, I personally think these two are not on the same thinking path when it comes to their relationship. It seems as Ghostface, as old as he is see Kelsey as on of his side chicks and Kelsey is one of those women who thought he was all in and ready to settle down. By the way, why is Ghostface giving me that Jim Jones persona, does he not remind you of Jim Jones, except for Jim Jones has his woman and knows what he wants. Actually Ghostface and Kelsey kind of remind you of Jim Jones and Chrissy, can someone say reality show. Moving on I have to say I am really confused with Whitney and Sada, I love this two women but I tell you they seem to have a lot of holes in their relationship. One minute they are hugging up all lovely and the next minute they are arguing about small things. Sada had a birthday party and it was great but Whitney was highly upset because Sada was all up on Ghostface at her party and yes she was all up on Ghostface, I do not know what that was about, that is why this couple is confusing me. It seems as Sada is happy with Whitney but at the party it seemed as if she wanted to be with a man, there is something deep going on there. As for the couple Taylor and John Bluher we did not hear too much from them on the past night, they are on the quiet down but I am sure something will brew up because Taylor Armstrong has a mouth on her and she is a woman I do not see being quiet for long. Overall great show as for my opinion, I personally love hearing these couple actually discuss their problems on television, now some people might not think it is right but I think them doing this helps a lot of other couples hash out their problems, it even makes some couples understand why therapy can be good when they are having problems in their life. Now get rid of Farrah and the show would be great.

Braxton Family Values 1-23-14 (#BFV)

Braxton family values tonight featured all the sisters and their own element of doing their own things. I was glad to see Tracie getting into the studio and actually singing, I always thought that Tracie was a great singer and now we will get to hear her music, by time Ms. Tracie. It was good to see that Towanda and Tamar was talking tonight without any real attitude towards one another, we all know that sisters can not stay mad at one another. As for Trina, she is walking on her bar career, although I am still not sure how this work. Is she like a traveling bar, that goes to people party and have her ladies serve drinks to people, if that is it, what a great idea Trina. Only a drinker like Trina would think of an idea like this. Now I did not see Towanda talk of anything, come to think about it Towanda does not really have anything going on does she, we need to see what line of business Towanda has going on. As for Tamar we got to see more of her beautiful baby boy, yes he is a beautiful baby and we actually heard Tamar of all people admit that she was afraid and unsure of herself. Tamar questioned if she should be touring on the road while her husband is in the hospital and her son is with her mother. Trina gave Tamar that reassurance as a sister should, but I know I will have to throw a wrench in the situation. In my opinion I do think Tamar should come off the road and it is not because I think she is a bad mother, I do not know the woman like that and what I see on television she adores that baby boy. Why I think Tamar should get off the road is because I am one of those believers that do not believe she can really sing or put on a good performance. Tamar I am sorry but I think you were better sitting at home and now that you have your baby boy, just focus on raising him, besides your husband makes enough money. Tamar you are at an age where a lot of women are getting out of the business, not in the business, as much as you like clothing, do your own clothing line, I like the way you dress. We got to learn that Ms. Toni Braxton is writing a book and I can not wait, I plan of buying the book. Toni once your book is finish how about coming to Books a Million in Colonial Heights, Va area and let us get a signed autograph, believe you me we will be lined up outside the door if you come. I love these sisters and this is a show I see going on for a long time because these sisters always have some interesting drama going on, they are so real and they bring it every week.

Mob Wives 1-23-14 (#MobWives)

I watched mob wives tonight and I am telling you these woman are all over the place. This lady Alicia seems to be out for my girl Renee and of course my girl Renee is not having and neither am I. I really do not understand why Alicia thinks that Renee is snitching and telling things on her, although see said she did not call Renee a snitch, I am with Renee, Alicia insinuated at the last get together she had that Renee was a snitch. Now tonight Alicia text Renee to meet with her and talk about the situation they have going on, but Alicia go even more perturb with Renee because of some comment she made on twitter, coming Alicia let it go. Alicia met with Renee and went on and on about how Renee keep telling people things about her and her husband and apparently these people are using this information to snitch on Alicia, give me a break. Alicia had the nerve to say you keep talking about me and it gets back to me and people are telling me these things. Now please tell me why is Alicia arguing with Renee about talking to people and going on that she needs to be careful about talking to these so call friends because it is getting back to her, so who are these people that is telling Alicia what Renee is saying to these people? Are they the so call same people, I am trying to understand because I am really confused about who is telling Alicia everything that Renee is apparently suppose to be telling these people, apparently all their friends are in the same circle and it is just that a circle and it keeps going around and around because as you know in a circle there is not outlet. So Renee tell her friends who apparently go and tell Alicia friends, who then go and tell Alicia and then Alicia goes back to Renee and confront her about it and it keeps going on and on in this circle of friends. I am glad Renee did not back down from Alicia so called bad azz attitude because she is trying to be this so call bully now. I think Alicia never did care for Renee once she heard Renee on the audio tape hanging out with her arch enemy Carla who just happens to be her husband ex girlfriend, for Alicia it is like Renee hangs with the enemy and now she has not trust or love for her. Listening to Renee she has be friends with Alicia's husband and Carla for over thirty years and she was not going to stop being friends with her just because Alicia married this man. Alicia is acting like an idiot to me and I am starting to see why her and Natalie's are friends. Natalie's seems to be this very young immature brat and now I see Alicia's as this overgrown brat her is mad because she can not get her way and she is taking it out on everyone. Alicia's needs to put all this energy into her court case and let the small stuff roll off her back. Renee I want you to stand your grounds and do not let any of these women walk over you. To me it seems that Drita is leaning toward Alicia's side and she  thinks Renee needs to watch herself, when the hell did Drita get so close to Alicia, that is weird. I see Drita in the studio trying to rap, yeah I know, I like you as a person Drita but I personally am one of those people that believe that rapping should be left to that younger generation, to actually sing it. Rapping is a form of style and it demands new ideas all the time to keep the young people interested and I am sorry but I am not feeling you as a rapper, try country. I know you are suppose to be this bad bit** but bad bit**es can be country singers as well. As for my girl Big Ang, she seems to try and remain neutral as she always does, Big Ang loves Renee and stay faithful to her friends, love you Big Ang. I did not know that Natalie has a steady boyfriend and she is trying to pressure this man to move to Philly and be with her on daily basis. Pure Natalie you are young and you still do not understand that you can not make a man do anything he does not want to do. If he does decide to do what you want believe you me you will regret it later on when he resents you for it, it lot of time that is when the cheating comes in. I loving every minute of these women disagreement and will continue to watch.

Love & Hip Hop New York 1-20-14 (#LHHNY)

I saw Love and Hip Hop New York on Monday night but only had until now to write about it. Overall Monday night love and hip hop was a rather calm night. Where they left off from last week was Joe proposing to Tahiry and we all anxiously waited to hear what Tahiry answer was to Joe's proposal. Now I have to admit the proposal was nice and he made sure that her entire family was there, but Ms. Tahiry surprised us all and she did what she knew in her heart was the right thing to do and that is she said no to Joe's proposal. Tahiry had been through a lot of with Joe and I think she finally understand that love should not hurt, when you are in love you should be smiling everyday and in a daze to the point you do not even realize that the world is around you. Tahiry realized that the hurt and distrust she was feeling from Joe was not what you call real love and that he was by no means ready to be a real husband to her. I have to say even though Joe went out of his way to make this proposal special, I do admire Tahiry for being that woman who knew it was not right, no matter who was looking. Peter Gunz I think really understands that Tara has had enough and that she is really moving on. He even apologize to Tara for all he has put her through and let her know that he respect her as his babies mother. Now as for Peter's wife Amina, I think she has lost her mind, this woman wants to push Peter into getting a new place and working on having a baby. he wants to rush everything, I guess to compete for Peter's affection over Tara. This is what you call a insure woman, she knows Peter has kids with Tara and he still has that respect for Tara who cares for his children and she wants that and is afraid that Peter may leave her to go back to Tara. Amina your insecurity shows that you do not need to be married, especially not to a man like Peter Gunz who seem to have a problem with been faithful to his significant other. I was glad to see Saigon really take on the task of moving in with Erica Jean by actually asking her fathers permission. I like Erica Jean and as a mother I admire her raising her child alone, so Saigon I hope you take this move in with Erica Jean seriously and do not argue with he about small things. Small things are things that you can talk out with one another and it may be as easy to solve by just listening to one another and coming to a simple solution. Erica Jean I want you to understand what it means to move in with a man and that is you will have to take his good with his bad. Everyday will not be prefect and of course him being a man he will get on your nerves at times. My solution to this is that if you get angry enough, then walk away, go some where and think and once you have cleared your head then come back and talk calmly. What I ask of the both of you is to not argue in front of your son. Now watching Rich Dollaz, Erica Mena and Cyn all get into it over and over again is starting to make me dizzy. One day Erica Mena loves Rich and the next day she hates his guts. Erica Mena says that she really loves Cyn but she keeps getting these sparkles in her eyes when she see Rich, it is almost like her face light up. So where will Cyn be in this mess. Erica Mena you need to be honest with Cyn and tell her if you do not love her or if you love Rich, because I know if I am confused watching the show, I know Cyn must be puzzled. I see that Cyn really loves Erica Mena and I am really afraid that this nice young lady will get her heart broken, but I want you to know Cyn, you are a young beautiful lady and if you and Erica Mena do not work out then there is someone out there for you and God will send that person your way. Great show and I am looking for more. It was neat to see Tahiry actually almost come to a reality that she may never marry Joe Budden even though she said she may if he gets himself together, sometimes things just are not meant to be.

90 Day fiance 1-19-14 (#90dayfiance)

I am still not sure what to think of this show, I watched it and I am still a little confused on what some of these men are thinking bringing these women to this country and possibly marrying them in only ninety days. I also have a thought on my mind and that is, do woman as well meet men in other country and bring them over here with the presumption that they may have to marry them in ninety days, I am sure this happen, so why does the show not have at least one American female who does the same thing? Or perhaps this is because this is still unacceptable in our society to believe that a woman would have to almost by a husband? I watched the couples again on Sunday night and the first of the couples, Kirlyam and Alan relationship was as weird as ever as Alan was trying to be strong and decided he had to take Kirlyam to stay with his parents until they are married, so they would he would not break his vow to God. Although I admire this, it is still something very weird about Alan to me. I love his parents and they welcomed Kirlyam with open arms as they did when she got off the plane, but why don't they find it weird that their son can not find a woman that is in their church and belongs to their faith, something, something just not right. Kirlyam who is from Brazil is missing her family and rightfully so, she has never been away from them, if Alan is any kind of man he will have her family come here for the wedding, that would maybe reassure this young lady, she is too young to be getting married. There was a new couple we met on Sunday night show and that was Aya and Louis. Now Aya is thirty, so she is a little more mature woman and I think she is one who has been around and she may know what she want, even if it is a American citizenship, at least she is old enough to know what she is doing, but the problem is that Louis has and ex wife who is protective of her children, although from looking at these boys I think they can handle themselves. Louis said if it was not for his boys he would have moved to the Philippines, where Aya is from. Now for me this sounds weird but then again Louis seems a little on a lazy side and living in a county were poverty is ramped would suit him fine, slow pace. Louis ex wife scares me and Aya as well, so she may just run for the hills, who can blame her, this woman seems like a force to be reckon with. Now Mike and Aziza, is a couple that worries me as well because this relationship is one that I think is of convenience for Aziza and she is not at all feeling this man. They were in New York and finally arrived back at Mike's home and all this man could do was think of finally having sex with this young girl, who you could tell was very nervous, okay I wanted to vomit I have to admit. I hate thinking it but it is like buying some ones soul. Aziza is from Russia so maybe her country's tough persona has prepared her for this. Now as for my favorite couple Paola and Russ, these two are hot and heavy for each other and Paola is a ball of spit fire. This woman is from Colombia, she loves to try new things and have fun and she is full of sexual tension, that she really wants to release. The couples has to stay at Russ parents house and they do not believe in the couple sleeping in the same room under their roof while not married, but Ms. Paola, hot under the collar is doing a little sneaky snake and sleeping into Russ's bed and of course for this young man she is hard to resist. Russ get a apartment soon, very soon or make some arrangement that you and Paola can get it in somewhere, have fun. There is another couple that I have not met, who is Alina and Len, all I know is he is 48 and this woman is 23 from the Ukraine, can you say they will marry, she will get bored and want to be around youth of her own age and divorce once she learns her way around, yep this is what I call a bingo situation. I will explain this later. This show is rather interesting, the most interesting will be to see who actually goes through with the marriage. I hope once they show ends for the season they will still do follow up of these couple because I am seriously worried about a couple of them.

The Real Housewives of Atlanta 1-19-14 (#RHOA)

Okay I watched the housewives Sunday night and I saw Kenya be as ratchet as she always is by getting into other peoples personal lives. The woman was introduce to new woman by the name of Natalie, who is Cynthia's and Peter friend along with her husband Christopher who is still a great singer and he proved this by singing a song for Cynthia on her and Peter's third anniversary. I did read where someone talk of Cynthia and Peter having vodka and nothing says I love you like getting drunk, where this come from I do not know because I did not see that either Cynthia nor Peter was drunk and if they were, so what the hell, it was their day and they can do what they want, this is how rumor get started. Their anniversary was nice, Peter had a candle light dinner ready for Cynthia across from the bar one restaurant and he got his friend Christopher to sang a song they came up with together for his wife. I thought the jester was nice and you have to remember it does not always take money to have to show your wife that you love her. It is about the thought and time you put into making it special for her and this is what Peter did. He loves his wife and although they did have some very ugly arguments, as I do with my husband, there is still true love and that is what people hate, they hate seeing others happy. Now this new woman Natalie and husband Christopher did say that Todd, who they knew was a hot mess and he was a opportunist, yes they said it. Now where the real ratchetness comes in at is that the women wen to a wine tasting in Atlanta and Natalie was invited by Cynthia and all hell broke lose when Kenya who knew Natalie husband talked of them being only common law spouses, and then she went into detail to tell Kandi that Natalie and her common law husband talked about Todd being a opportunist. Of course this was not pretty with the argument between Natalie and Kenya yelling across the table and then Kandi getting involved to defend her man, who by the way did not take the job that he interviewed for because he said it was not what he thought. I have to say this man Todd makes me wonder, does he really go on interviews, can we get some cameras to follow him around. Well it ended, with all the woman laughing as Kandi played the entire situation off as see always do, I know I don't know what to think of this either. I know I do think Kenya is a very unhappy woman and she seems to want other women in her pool of happiness. By the way Kenya where is this African Prince, I seen a picture on Wendy Williams so when will he show up on the show? Also Kenya announced she will be having a baby, yes she is going to a sperm bank, okay Kenya you should run to a sperm bank because you are not getting any younger and carrying a baby can hurt you as well as be problems for the baby, so do it quickly. Kenya said she does not like anyone to show her pity but I can not help it she seems to be so alone, rather she will admit it or not. I was glad to see Nene be the bigger person and go over Porsha house and even bring her a house warming gift. Porsha has to admit, she is wrong for moving right into Nene's neighborhood and not going at least to her door and saying hello neighbor, you know like Mr. Rodger, yes I watched this show and I loved it as a young person. Moving on, it was great seeing Kandi getting her production for her play together and I hope it does well, I do not think it is a good thing to work with your significant other, I have done that, been there and there is usually head butting when you mix business and pleasure, especially when you have other staff. It was actually great to see that Kenya does have family support with her father and his sisters over the house for a small dinner, but she needs more in her life and it shows. Now the best part of the show for me was to see Marlo return, my girl Nene of course brought back Marlo and I love it. I still a fan of Marlo and if you ask me I think the producers would benefit from bringing her back. Marlo is a firecracker and she speaks what is on her mind at anytime, the woman knows who she is and not afraid to say it. Marlo for me is an open book and what you see is what you get, I think her and Nene could have their own show, now that would be a awesome reality show. Now looking at next week episode I see that Christopher will be all in Kenya's face about what she said to his wife Natalie, it will automatically lead to a fight between two men, Kenya's assistant and Christopher, this is funny. They said they will have pillow talk and it will be more like pillow fight, round one. From the previews of next week, it will be juicy.

Shipping Wars (#ShippingWars) Tribute to Roy

I have a lot of blogs to write about this past weekend but my first will be a dedication to Roy Garber. For all you who do not know, Roy was my favorite shipper on the television reality show shipping wars and the person whom I thought I could use to ship a item one day and have the pleasure of meeting him by having him come to my house, but unfortunately this will never happen because Roy has passed away. Yes Roy Garber of shipping wars at the age of 49, so young, has past and I have to say it is very sad news. I am a big fan of shipping wars an although I have not been writing about the show as of lately, I still watched and I still was the biggest Roy fan. I was on twitter bragging about how Roy was the best and too me he was the best. He was that man who took his job very seriously, he did what needed to be done at a professional level and although his attitude was not some people wanted it to be, he made up by just be the best at what he do. You could say I so a lot of me in Roy, I do my job at the best of my ability no matter what the job is and although I may not smile in my customers face, you can believe my customers will get the best service they will ever receive. Doing a great job does not always means smiling in a customer face or putting on these fake airs, the best job is showing you what I can do and doing it at a level above all others, and that is just what Roy did. All the other shippers on Shipping Wars have to admit that Roy was the best and when they do this dedication to Roy, which I know they will do they should admit this, especially Jen who actually had the pleasure of working with a real shipper. I knew Roy smoked heavily and he did seemed as if he was not the type of man to go to a doctor as he should and I am so sad to think this was so because of the way he died. I know a lot of men do not believe in doctors visit, even when they feel bad in fear that the doctor will preach to them about stop smoking, but Roy should have taken better care of himself. Roy was so young and it was too soon for him to die, I just really will miss him and that very classy egotistical attitude on the screen, RIP Roy. Now as far as a replacement, although I do not believe that Roy can be replaced but the show could bring the wife and husband couple who names I can not recall but they were a young black couple and they were almost as arrogant as Roy, notice I said almost. Roy was Roy and there will be no one like him and he could never be replaced.

Here Comes Honey Boo Boo 1-16--14 (#honeybooboo)

I watched the return of Honey Boo Boo and I would have to say that the family is the same, they are as loony as ever but of course I mean this in a good way. The family are who they are and this is how they have been all their lives. I remember watching Alana as she competed in the toddlers in tiaras show and I myself watched how funny this young girl was and wanted to see more of her and her family who were supporting her at the time. I myself thought they would feature her more on the toddler show, not expecting that I would she her and her family on their own show. Now they are back for a third season and although I am a really big fan of this family because they are so down to earth, they are seemingly becoming to much down to earth. Two of the sisters, Jessica and Anna, on Thursday night episode spent a lot of their time with their so called boyfriends. Now for me I am not sure if these boys are in these girls life because they are on television and we all know this is a small town of relatively poor families and they want some of these girls money. Anna has a baby already and although she is almost nineteen and can legally make her own decisions, someone really need to protect these girls from predators, a lot of young men these days are lazy and do not want to work so what do they do, they sponge of the women. I am sorry to say but these girls are prime targets for greedy guys who do not want to work. Besides I do not see either girl, Anna nor Jessica trying to get a job or do anything besides hanging out with their boyfriend, they even sit on the couch complaining about needing feminine hygiene products but none of them would go to the store to get it and when Sugar Bear came home they begged him to go out, why could these ladies not go out and get it themselves. The sister who is suppose to be a little touched in the head, Pumpkin is the only one who showed us that she is actually trying to do something with herself by taking beauty school lessons. Pumpkin actually practiced on her family Thursday night by doing their pedicures, manicures and facial, the girls teased Pumpkin about not having a boyfriend but I would have to say bravo Pumpkin for putting your mind on something that will be more use to you in your future life, I really hope you keep it up and go for your dream. The other sisters could learn from Pumpkin and focus on their careers and leave the boys alone for now. Now poor Sugar Bear who was upset about not having any peace in the house with a house full of women, could not get any quiet and needed his own man cave, which he stood up to June and actually created his own little haven away from the women and their hormones, good going Sugar Bear you deserve it especially actually after he went and got those products the women needed. As for poor Alana the real star of the show, she was feeling a little down because the other girls who are all teenagers now are doing their own thing and would not play with her and they she is not longer the baby of the family with Katelyn around, sorry honey boo boo but you are outgoing that cutesy stage. I have to give it to mama June, she knows that she has to keep Alana busy and she is always putting her into something to keep her active during the summer months, so she signed her up for cheer leading, but I tell you poor Alana has not rhythm at all. I still enjoy the family but it did seem like on the return show they were being a little more disguising than usual. I do not know if maybe the producers told them to do this to get some laughs or if this is really this family. The girls and their boyfriends were burping all over the place and they were acting really silly, I guess it could just be a teenagers thing, but I don't remember acting this stupid. Then the girls and mama were arguing about who use the last of the feminine products and what Jessica could do to reuse her other one, that was just in poor taste to me because I do not think that should have been aired on television, that is just me saying this, maybe some people like hearing this kind of stuff about other people's private area and what going on but I think it is tasteless myself. I like that the family is down to earth but I do not like how much detail they go into about their private areas. Some things I think the producers should just cut out and that is one of them. I am starting to grow away from the show because it seems as if the family has done as much as they could on television and there is nothing more for them to air. I did see that in next week episode Anna's wants to move out on her own, now I think this is great but my question is where is the money coming from. Maybe this should be the last season for this family. We have watched this family grow a little and have love what they brought to television, besides now we do have a new Hollywood Hillbillies show and I want to see how they fit into television. They do seem rather funny and definitely out of place.

Braxton Family Values 1-16-14 (#BFV)

I watched the Braxton Family Values on Thursday night and it was interesting. I say this because I know Towanda and Tamar had this big blow out, but then Toni birthday came up and Vince and Tamar had this big party for her at their house and of course all the sister was there but not once did Tamar or Towanda look at one another and doing the entire show neither of the sisters interacted with one another. Tracie and Trina went to visit Tamar and the baby, no Towanda. The girls went to check out bicycles so they could use as a possible mean of exercising, no Tamar. Towanda, Tracie and Toni took a salsa dancing class as a means of exercise no Tamar, well maybe she s busy. Anyway I was glad to see Towanda and her husband with the children as he was teaching his son to play football and Towanda was being like most mother are, she was worried that he was over working her baby, let it go Towanda, he is a boy let him take the punches and besides I think Andre was doing a good job teaching his son certain football moves, even if he did learn it online, that is why we have Internet, it is a great learning tool. It was funny seeing Towanda take Trina in the sex store to lift up her mood, but I thought this would be Trina dragging Towanda to the sex store. This two women were funny especially getting on the swinger, they said Trina was the freak I am thinking more and more that it is looking like Towanda is the freak. By the way I saw when Arsenio put Towanda on the spot about the photo she took with Cordell, Porsha from the Housewives of Atlanta ex. The picture was nothing and they seem liked they were taking it for fun, nothing looked suspicious as they were just standing and looking at the person taking the camera, but then I could be wrong. I did hear Towanda say that she wanted to go on dances with the stars and I think this is a good challenge for Towanda, she like challenges and this show would be perfect, as a matter of fact I think Towanda, Trina and Tracie should all go on it the same time, now that would be fun. Dances with the stars should give these Braxton girls a call. As for the mother of these girls, I was highly upset to hear that Evelyn had a stalker, this is nothing to play with and people like this are usually dangerous. I really think these ladies should look into getting their mother a bodyguard and Ms. Evelyn should change her number right away. People who are as sick as her stalker, who calls her up and say he loves her one day and then calls her the next day and say he hate her is a person with serious mental issues and should be taken seriously. This man is someone who will not stop until he is truly confronted by some lawful penalties and then he may not stop then, so I am sorry Ms.  but you should make some major changes like moving from your house and just disappearing for a while. Now Tamar is always bringing up on the show about her baby dressed head to toe in Gucci and her red bottom shoes, get your mother some security or get an investigator that can find out about this man and where he lives since he is supposedly ducking the cops, because a lot of times they really do not look, so you really need to take matters into your own hands before this man seriously hurt Ms. Evelyn. Ms. E I am scared for you and I beg of you to take this stalker more seriously because mental illness is a terrible thing and their are some real sick people out there.

Couples Therapy 1-16-14 (#CouplesTherapy)

Couples Therapy had another great night with the couples, with the exception of Farrah of course, talking about their problems. What got me was how bad Ghostface put down Kelsey, he was really harsh about her not mentioning she was a stripper before and he even went as far as to say we all know what strippers do, insinuating that she whore because she was a stripper. After this blow up went into affect and Kelsey walked out Farrah put her two cents in it saying that is how she feel and I have to say, who cares. I am sorry people but I am one for Farrah not being on the show because I think this young twenty one year old is just on the show to try and make a name for herself and I think Sada hit it on the nose when she said that Farrah is trying to be another Kim Kardashsian, by leaking out a so called unrehearsed sex tape, yeah right. If anyone of you could stomach to watch Farrah's sex tape you would know it was professionally filmed and she made all this noise like someone trying to do a porno tape. It is sad that this young woman is trying so hard to find fame that she would go as far as to put her nudity out there in the world on purpose. I do agree that Farrah could use some help but it is not the kind of help that couples therapy can offer because she will never have a real boyfriend if she chooses to sell her soul. Farrah claims to be a Christian but I have not seen any Christianity in this young girl as of yet. I for one hope she does not get any offer for being on the show just to gain fame, I am praying as a Christian myself that she will give up this get rich scheme and go home and focus on raising her daughter, who has her daughter as she sits on this show now in a couples therapy session without a partner? Did anyone she the crocodiles tears she tried making when Taylor offered her some advice and she said know one understood her and so on, not a tear dropped and I was really looking at this twenty one year old face and I have notice she has had some plastic surgery, at her age, really. She is almost looking like Tamar Braxton with that Joker Syndrome I call it face. Now I know you guys may think I am evil, but watch Heath Ledger play the Joker and you will she what I am talking about, pay close attention to the facial expressions. Now back to the show, here comes John Gosselin and his girlfriend Liz into the house and right away they sit on the couch with the therapist and I think she tries to study them first to understand if they are their for the cameras and show time or what, but right away she begins to see as I do that this is a couple really in need. Listening to John go on about his turmoil with Kate was actually depressing for me. John seems to be a passive person,  which and this is my opinion only a lot of Asians seem to be, they do not like to show emotions, so instead of facing a situation they will walk away. John and his girlfriend get into it right away and he chooses to walk away, the girlfriend seems hardcore, she in my opinion seems like a tough, redneck, take no prisoners woman. So of course this two will be adding some needed excitement to the show, especially since we have one who sits alone on the couch by herself talking to that imaginary boyfriend. I am looking to these future episode, maybe the counselors can get Kate to actually come on the show to talk over some issues with John and his girlfriend. I know I was just kidding, I know hell will have to freeze over before this happens.

The Haves and The Have Nots (#HavesandHaveNots)

The Haves and the Have Nots returned two weeks ago and I know I am late writing my thoughts on the show. I watched the show last season and of course fell in love with it, just when I thought soap operas were almost dead and gone, Tyler Perry brings it back to life with this show. The have and the have nots is not only a great soap opera it has some of the most outstanding actors, I was excited  seeing John Schneider back on the screen in a totally different role than that Duke boy. Renee Lawless is as great of an actress as she has always been. Peter Parros is another great actor that it is great to see back on television in a major way. I have nothing but love for Ms. Chrystal Fox another great actress and of course for Ms. Tika Sumpter who is blowing up the screen in a large way and has been since she began on One Life to Live, I love this young actress and believe you me she brings it. For the most part I have to tell you that the show came back with a vengeance. With Wyatt being high and hitting two people in Jeffrey's car, too Jim and Katheryn trying to save Wyatt from going to prison by trying to cover up his mess and believe you me it is a mess because one of Wyatt's victim has died, a little girl, and the other whom is Hanna son is in very critical condition, what a big mess. This show has so many twist and turns you do not know what direction you are going, but this is a good thing because this soap opera keeps you on your toes and it really keeps you guessing. You can guess at what is going to happen but you really do not know. Amanda is acting weird and she is almost stalking that professor whom raped her, now my guess is that when Candace helps Amanda get he trust fun, it is likely that Amanda will use it on getting this professor back. Hanna is at the hospital trying to pray for her son's recovery, not sure rather or not her faith will bring her through and on top of this she finds out that her son's father needs a kidney and he was pressuring her for the opportunity to get to know his son better, now the thought is that because he needs one of his kidney. Back at the Cryer house, Jim and Katheryn are still trying to work on a plan to dig Wyatt out this big hole he has created, while in the meanwhile Jim has another situation with his maid Celine is blackmailing him for money and I am not thinking this is to keep her mouth shut about their past affair, it seems in my opinion this is child support money, yes I am guessing that Jim has had a child with this woman, this family sure have their share of problems. Candace has been working on helping Amanda to sue her parents for her trust fund but has not idea that her brother Benny is one of the victims from that hit and run accident, but oh you can best believe that when Candy do find out it is on for this family because Ms. Candy do not play and with Candy being so close to her brother Benny, she will be looking for revenge, this show is off the chain. We are know that Tyler Perry is a talented man and everything he seems to touch turn into gold and because he is a child of God he needs not reassurance that he definitely knows his stuff. But I would like to say think you Mr. Perry for bringing a real soap opera back to the screen, one that has lots of twists and turns and not the same old repeats of people making that same mistakes over and over again. I am loving Tuesday night because of the Have and The Have Nots. Oh and by the way, Damn those commercials they just keep getting in my way of watching the show uninterrupted.

Sister Wives 1-12-14 (#SisterWives)

I know I am behind on writing about my shows in this is one in particular. I did see Sisters Wives premier last week but did not get a chance to write on what I saw. Of course the premier was about the family having settled into their houses and now it is time for the wives to work on their relationships. Last week show had a couple of friends visiting Cody and Cody getting do his manly man thing by hanging out in Las Vegas with the guys, why the ladies got to show one of Cody's friends wife around. Cody's friend wife got the chance to really talk with the ladies and understand the situation they were in, she told the ladies when her husband first told her of Cody, she was wondering what kind of freak was she going to meet, but after getting to know the women she sees they have a very loving relationship among them all, something I see as well. Now the focus the past show turned over to getting ready for Mariah's and Aspyn's graduation and this was interesting watching the woman try to plan a flash mob dance on the girls who did not want any dancing at their party. These girls said they did not really want a party, they would have been happy with just going out with the family and celebrate, but of course the mothers wanted to make the graduation big for their girls and rightfully so, mothers should be proud of their children when they graduate and make it without getting pregnant. I have to say that I love the fact that Mariah has this determination to go to medical school, I was a little disappointed that Cody was worried about the financial part of it and wanted to deter this girl from her dream because of money. It was like the counselor they talk to said, like her get students loan and pay for them, besides if she becomes a doctor and I am sure she will, she will be able to pay these loans back, besides she may obtain a lot of scholarships to help her as well. I was not sure what Aspyn was going to school for, she seems to not talk about her dreams much, by the way I love her name I wonder where Christine got her inspiration from. The entire show was very emotional for Meri because Mariah is her only child, it was so emotional for Meri that she was visibly upset at the graduation when she realized she would not see her daughter walk out, due to the position they sat at. The entire family had to move from their seats and Cody was upset that Meri made them move, so needless he was upset with Meri. Is it me or has anyone noticed that Cody has been losing patience with Meri lately. In my opinion Cody seems to have little patients with Meri any more and a lot of it is because he says that she gets overly emotional about things, sounds like my husband. Why do man hate it when women get so emotional, they act like we are exarating when we do but we a usually really upset or concerned about things. I guess man hate it when they have to be in touch with their emotions, a man thing I guess. Well listen to everyone on the show I am finding out that Cody is apparently having issues with dividing his time between the women, anytime Christine black mails Cody into coming over more. In my personally opinion I see Cody spending more time with Robin, of course and Meri. The reason I say  this is Robin is the youngest wife and Meri has that one child, much more peaceful in the house and chance to get away from the wives house with the running around yelling children. I do think they all have to work on their relationship and a big part of this is Cody, who is getting older and is apparently finding it harder to divide his time between these women and make them all happy, what did he think would happen as he got older. I have a suggestion, maybe Cody and the wives could go on couples therapy, now that would make for a great couples therapy show, better than having Farrah sit on a couch alone. By the way I wanted to send a shout out to Mariah and Aspyn for graduating, great going ladies, now work on that great future.

Love & Hip Hop New York 1-13-14 (#LHHNY)

Love and Hip Hop of New York hit me with a lot of surprises last night. The first was that Rich D actually admits he is still in love with Erica Mena, he liked seeing her get jealous over him being with another girl and now he tells Yandy that he actually wants to be with Erica Mena in a real man and woman relationship, what the H E double hockey sticks is he thinking. I have to say that having watched Rich on the show I do know that he does want a relationship, he is a man with no steady woman nor a real relationship and I do see that this man want this and I have always wanted him to have that I am just not sure if it should be with this woman, because for me personally she is a very confused lady, she is missing something in her life. Now Rich had some kind of premier last night and he hired Peter Gunz as the DJ, now Yandy invited Tara who came with her arm candy, this new guy she met while doing her new acting thing and believe it or not I was surprised that Mr. Gunz actually did not get in Tara face about this new guy, but he said he was going to remain calm and just do his job and he did, but of course he had to throw in that he would be talking to Tara about this later on. Another surprise was that Amina actually did not come to the premier, I guess she is deciding to trust that her husband is behaving himself, I guess as long as he comes home to her, of course that is because he has no where else to go. I was glad to see Tara enjoy herself and go out on a date that was not real heavy, just starting out slow because I for one do not believe you get out of one relationship by jumping into another one right away, that never works. I must say that I did not realize how small Tara was until she wore that little one piece, it is nothing wrong with being this small but Tara you do not have a body to wear a once piece wardrobe like that, you looked like a small child. With a jump suit or any one piece a woman should have a rear end and curves to go in it, to make the suit talk to men. Moving on to another subject, Miss Erica Mena, this woman came to the premier just to start an argument with Rich and his new protégé, surprise not. Erica is a hot mess and just can not control herself and was all up on Rich and of course this caused a confrontation with her and the other woman, which resulted in Erica throwing a drink in this woman face. The security held this woman back but for once I wish they would not stop people and let Erica get that azz whipping, she needs it. The biggest surprise of the night for me was me was Joe Budden asking Tahiry sister for her hand in marriage and Tahiry sister actually agreeing to it and helping Budden to get the plans together for him to propose to her. I must say the way Joe Budden went about proposing to Tahiry had me in tears, it was beautiful and just before he could ask the question the show ended, of course it pissed me off, I wanted to hear the answer while my emotions were at its highest and the tears were running. The funny ending in the entire show was watching Rich try to tell Erica Mena how he wanted to start a relationship with her after this man hurt this woman and made her realize a good thing she had in Cyn, wow what and ego to think he would come back from that. Rich move on and find a woman that is just into you and not someone who is confused which way they are going, who they love and what direction they are headed, just let it go.

Couples Therapy 1-9-14 (@CouplesTherapy)

I watched couples therapy last week and all I can say is that it is still early in the game and we still have a lot to learn of most of these couples. The reason I say of most of these couples is because for me personally I am still not understanding why Farrah Abraham is still in the picture. This twenty one year girl is obviously only on the show to get air time, she needs to be seen to keep her name in the public mouth, but I do not know how a show is suppose to be there to help people continue to play these games and continue to put this young girl in the lime light and give her what she wants. There is some real problems with this girl and she needs some serious help. Farrah told the other couples that she is writing two books, one will be about sex and the other about Christianity, yeah think about it. This twenty one year old said that she will be giving advice on young girls and sex and the other reason she is writing the Christianity but is because she is a Christian, is she really does, does she plan on writing scriptures from the bible and tell all of us how we should live our lives as Christians. Man I never seen such a young egoistical person as I have seen of this one, see what your show did Dr. Drew for this teen mom, it is exactly as I said these girls get this easy money and that is the only reason they want to been on teen mom for the first place, the money and the fame, there is no real help. I do not think teen mom set an example for teen girls to not want to get pregnant, it is actually a reason they strive to get pregnant for, get pregnant get on television and become Farrah who is now on a show for no apparent reason. For me Whitney and Sada seem like a good couple, just trying to work on a small problem but after the other night I was taken back because these two women seems to have a serious problem with jealousy and we all know that this can be an ultimate deal breaker between couples. They even talk of it getting physical at one point and that really surprised me, I never thought either one of these ladies would be violent. What did not surprise me was seeing Taylor Armstrong go off her rocker, this woman began complaining about the temperature in the house and then she started talking about how low class the living quarters was, this woman went out on a night in the town and drink like a fish. She was definitely on a whole nother level, as they say. In my personally opinion the way Taylor was acting shows signs of some sort of drug abuse and if this is the case, this woman needs  some warranted deeper help and her boyfriend John could use this help as well because he seems to just act like this lump that does not know what to do when she gets like this. When Taylor started complaining about the temperature John went off on a counselor telling her to fix it right away, it was almost scary for the lady, what an idiot. He seems afraid of Taylor so he takes it out on another person. Ghostface and Kelsey seemed to be getting along okay until he found out that Kelsey use to be a stripper, why did she reveal this part of her life because Ghostface began acting like a fool. Ghostface seems to be worried about his manly imagine and in his world of rap, the man don't make strippers their girl, they just hit it and move on, so needless to say Ghostface believes he will be teased as a man who actually fell in love with a stripper, now that's ironic. What is said about this situation is that Kelsey is a nice girl, she did it for a short period of time to make money to support her and her child, but she also stopped as she realized it was wrong, what is the big deal. I think Ghostface is more embarrassed thinking one of his friends might have been with Kelsey, but like Kelsey said she knows she has nothing to be ashamed of, not all strippers are whores, so why can't he accept this I do not know. Besides what is the big deal, Kanye is with Kim Kardashian and walks with her proudly even after knowing she has possibly been with over fifty guys, that one I am guessing at, I am told this number is much higher. So Ghostface should just let this petty thing she did go, but we shall see what happen. Now I am still waiting on them to bring in John Gosselin and his new girlfriend. I personally think John has a lot to say and I have always like the guy, especially the way he took care of his children. This man in my opinion has nothing to be ashamed of because any man that takes care of his children and play with them the way he did his children is okay in my book. Maybe John could get a reality show with his new girlfriend and we could she him interact with his children again and for all those of you that do not agree, you need to watch old shows of John and Kate plus eight and tell me who spent more time with those children and interact with them, while she vacation and brought a new bikini body. I have been watching the clips of future episodes and it looks interesting, to Ghostface bringing in another woman, whom apparently he had all the time, to John and his girlfriend fighting , and Taylor going off a binge, and yes Farrah is still there, her so call boyfriend does come to talk but he apparently does not stay. You notice I said so called boyfriend, I do not believe this was a real boyfriend of hers, this girl lives in delusional world, she dates a gay for a few days and say he is her boyfriend, she needs some help but not what couples therapy can give her.

Fashion Queens 1-12-14 (#FashionQueens)

I just wanted to add this bit of information just in case Wendy Williams did not know, but she won the gag award on the show Fashion Queens for her photo of her in the water in her very little bikini. Miss Lawrence choose Wendy as his gag award pick. For all you who do not know the gag award is a good thing. It was a great picture and yes Wendy you look great. I always enjoy watching the fashions queens and love their takes on the celebrities and their walks on the red carpet. Now you know that last nights was the golden globes and their were a few takes on it. They have a segment which they call right or ratchet, and their was a take on Will I am, and they gave him a right because they say he have his own style and that has always been him, but I must say I can not get with the hanging pants in the middle, no matter who is wearing them. Jennifer Hudson look good as usual and they weight loss looks so good on her,  but Miss Lawrence said the shoes could have been different. Lena Dunham was given a ratchet shout out all the way around on the show for her ugly dress and sad posture., someone needs to help her, yeah look at her picture and you will see. They also talked about this thing that you have to suck on that will help people get luscious lips if they so desire, what the hell, I wonder does it really work? One of my favorite highlights was them catching celebrities that have been caught going out on their everyday shopping and what they had on to do  this, now me for one think celebrities are just like regular people. I know I have these days when I dress up to go out in case I may run into friends and then on other days I wear they big clothes the hats and I try to just hide from the world while being in it. . The reading room is another part of the fashion queens episode and they read the British fashion week for some kind of animal costumes they had the men in with things over their lips. Ann Hathaway was read by Miss Lawrence because he said she is so pale and really need some sun or a spray tan in a can, I must admits she looks a bit dead. One of my favorite highlights was them catching celebrities that have been caught going out on their everyday shopping and what they had on to do  this, now me for one think celebrities are just like regular people. I know I have these days when I dress up to go out in case I may run into friends and then on other days I wear they big clothes the hats and I try to just hide from the world while being in it. The bad thing about celebrities going out in drag is that you are likely to be caught on camera and posted every where, I guess you are not like regular people because no one wants a picture of me.

Braxton Family Values 1-9-14 (#BFV)

I was busy the past week and did not to get the chance to write on a lot of my shows this past week and this was one of them. Braxton Family Values returned and it was still the explosion between Tamar and Towanda. Tamar seems to think it is all about her and she feels that she has blown up but that none of her sister is supporting or is happy for her success. In my opinion what I see is that Tamar, who already had a big head, head has grown bigger. Tamar has seen the light to what she calls her solo career and she feels that she is doing more than any of the other sister but she don't have them pushing her own, when in reality all the sisters are successful and they all have very busy lives. Toni said it is their fault because Tamar was the baby they spoiled her and now she wants this to continue on. All the sisters agree that they have gotten away from the close sisterhood they use to have with talking on the phone everyday, but for me this is understandable, especially when all your lives get so busy as these girls lives have. Tamar is just acting like a brat if you ask me and what does she care, she and Vince have their own show and she has a baby now , so with her singing and solo reality show career, she should be too busy herself to worry rather her sister are there or not. If you ask me Tamar wants more support because she is seeing some of the negative things been written about her and I am sure it hurts, family can sometimes make it better. I for one, and I am sorry Tamar but I write what I feel or what I see through my eyes and for me you are not a singer or performer. You do not have a voice, that Whitney Houston said was so great, I personally would not pay money to see your concert. I understand that the sisters say they have to get that close bond back, have a one real get together every month, all the sisters, you can pick a different state to go to and get to know that states history while having fun and really talk about your issues or things you went through the past last month. Now you all have to attend not exceptions and if one sister can not make it none of you go. You all have busy lives so once a month will do fun this bonding trip.

Finding Bigfoot

Look I not even going to write the hash tag for this show or give it a date. I just wanted to write about this show because I was surfing the channels tonight and I notice that it was still on, it had 2014 listed for the show that was playing. I can not believe that with all the reality shows that are coming on or all the different things in the world, that no one can come up with something better than finding bigfoot and I can not believe that people are watching a show after this long with no proof of this so called bigfoot. Show like this is why I title my blog as I did and I put the message that I did on my site. We as Americans are apparently as stupid as we appear, especially if we believe this bigfoot reality show and with all the technology we have in this world today, no one can get a real picture of this bigfoot. So they are telling me that this creature, monster or what every you call it can out smart all these hunters in the woods every night, even with infer red cameras. I am not believing it, like I said we have to much technology for no one to be able to get a closer picture of this creature than they have or actually have captured on of these creatures. For all of you who do not know, bigfoot does not exist and the only way that you can prove to me he does, is to bring forth that creature for the entire world to see. How stupid are we Americans to justify this show continuing to be on the air, with men in hunting suits walking around in the dark, saying did you hear that, did you see that, and each and every time, guess what, there is no bigfoot. All the people is watching is a show of men I guess pretending to be hunting for something. I guess if you are in this kind of thing it is okay, but please can you find something a little more entertaining. Hell give me a reality show, my life is more interesting then these men walking around the woods looking crazy at night. Do some of us a favor, cancel the show and stop giving those idiots who keep watching it hope that you will one day find something that is not really there. There is nothing worse to me than giving people false hope and that is what this show is selling.

90 Day Fiance 1-12-14 (#90DayFiance)

Did anyone look at this 90 fiancé show tonight, well I did any you may ask why. The why for me is that I am a open person and I like to write about things that I watch, I am willing to give any show a chance and that is what I do. Now this first episode we were introduce to all the women and the country they are from. Last night episode was interesting and I will have to say it was a little easy to tell which women wanted to be their to come to the United States and which ones really seem to care for the guy. Now everyone has to remember these are my opinions and my opinions only now for me personally I really liked the girl name Paola from Colombia, she seemed to me to genuinely met Russ and felt something for him. She does not seem to need anything for this woman seems to have had it made in her country Colombia and she carries herself as a real girly, girl and the woman can dress. She does not seemed to have wanted for anything from the clothing and shoes she own. Paola is a outgoing woman who seem to want to have a fiance and have fun, she is twenty six and Russ is twenty seven, perfect age for the two of them to be marry and have children. Another possible bride from Brazil is Kirlyam, now she seems to have interest in him and she met him why he was in Brazil. With this situation Kirlyam does live in a poor part of Brazil but it is not like she has to leave because she has place and family besides she is beautiful. What I think is that she will get to learn Alan more and he is a little strange to me. I know Alan is a Mormon but he seems to maybe have some kind of agenda with this young girl, it almost makes me think he may be looking into the plural marriage thing. It is something about Alan I do not like and one of them that I can pin point right away is that he is showing tendency of jealousy for a man just kissing Kirlyam hand, this is all the man did and it was in fun, that is a red flag if I ever seen one. I hope if Kirlyam does choose to marry this man she does not end up locked up in a basement later on, just saying, but if you ask my opinion that marriage may not happen. Now for the woman from Russia named Aziza, she is definitely in my opinion there to become a United States citizen. She met this guy Mike on a learning site, yes a learning site of all things and she said she fell in love with him, yes that is what she says as a twenty one year old student. You can already tell this girl is not happy, she seems almost afraid, it is not love as she does not look at the camera directly when she talks of her relationship with him, it is so unreal. I have to say I will continue to watch the show to find out who does get married and who do not. I also will be watching to meet other couples that has not been introduce as of yet. I am hoping that this is one of those shows that will have a reunion after the last episode because this will definitely be interesting to know what happens after the season ends.

The Real Housewives of Atlanta 1-12-14 (#RHOA)

Okay last night episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta was rather busy and what I mean by this is that it was all over the place and we got to see what was on everyone minds. We started with Kenya dad coming to town, a real Texas man who does not believe in women telling him what to do, I can almost guest that he is single. I was glad to see that Kenya dad did visit her and I was glad to get to understand a little of the story behind him and Kenya mom and that was they were sixteen, she got pregnant, it was the seventies and she wanted to keep it a secret, what she meant by a secret I do not know, but Kenya dad said he was not going along with it, I wish we could meet this woman. We Cynthia's sister Mal talk with Peter on their disagreement and why it happen, in all it was understood between Cynthia and Peter that it had nothing to do with Mal but what is going on in their lives. We got to see Phadera go to Kandi's house and fill her in on the discussion between her and Chuck, and of course Kandi and Phadera joke on this man's private area, you know like women do when they are mad at someone, now you all know we always go there because that hurts a man most. We also got to see Phadera and Kandi go to Porsha's new house that everyone is in agreement that she can not afford, but Porsha chooses to not believe everyone else, just in herself, I know how funny is that without a job prospect in site. We also got to see Phadera's son Mr. President spit up on Porsha, now I have one question, did Phadera really name this boy that, I thought it was a nickname and where is Apollo lately? It was funny how Nene and Cynthia went to visit Kenya and she put them to work, help painting her house, okay I did not see any real painting going on. Another question in my mind is when will we meet Kenya's new boyfriend? Now the highlight of the entire episode was when Cynthia had Mal a jewelry party and invited her friends, all her friends came and may I point out early too. The funniest thing about the party for me on last night episode was when Phadera, who is suppose to keep Porsha's house a secret and where she lives from Nene, this is because Porsha moved in Nene's neighborhood and did not tell her, call her or anything. Where Ms. Phadera opened her big mouth and told Kenya of all people, knowing that Kenya would run to Nene with this news and that is exactly what happen. Now the funny part was how Kandi, ran to Porsha and told her that I did not tell it was them, Kandi was acting like she was in grade school and had to make sure se ran to Porsha to tell her she had nothing to do with it. Kandi is a funny woman at times to me and she has some very weird ways, instead of her being happy that Phadera and Nene got closer, she acts as if it is a problem when both of these women are from the same town. Why would any woman hate on other women getting together and being friends, Kandi is real petty if you ask me. I guess this is why Kandi relationship is in a turmoil, she is so judgmental of others she can not get her own house in order. Todd who was suppose to be helping Kandi work on his play backed out because he said he has another interview with some big agent in New York, I am not sure how many interviews this man is going on or how many times he has went out of town for job interviews, but it all sounds fishy to me. Why can he not find a job in a big booming production state like Georgia, I just don't get it? Now Nene who is upset Porsha told her nothing read Porsha up and down and continues to say she is not a friend. I am not sure what is the problem Porsha seems to have with Nene but she does have a problem with her and you can tell this because Porsha is around the corner from the woman and invited Kandi and Phadera over but not Nene, interesting. I am like Nene I notice Porsha leaves her out on a lot of things involving her and it is not clear why, I do not know if it is Nene's relationship with Kenya has anything to do with this. Anyway tonight show was good, there was not too much drama, other than I like the way Mal read Kenya, Kenya has a big mouth and usually tries to talk over people but Mal definitely let Kenya know where she stands. I think they should have made Mal a permanent part of the show, although I know she has that basketball husband who plays overseas that wants sex two and three times a day, so why would she leave this man alone to go overseas, we all can almost guest what he is doing and I am sure Mal does too, she probably just needs a break, all woman do at some time. Now I am waiting for next week show and this new couple that comes to fill Peter and Cynthia in on Todd.

Love & Hip Hop NY 1-6-14 (#LHHNY)

Monday was off the chain and it began with the return of Love & Hip Hop New York. The show confused me because I thought it was off for two weeks but apparently I missed and episode somewhere and had to play catch up. With the return I learned that Amina found out that Peters Gunz cheated on her with Tara, like we are really surprise. The only surprise from this is that Tara actually took the time to have sex with this man again and although it did not mean anything to her but sex, it is like rewarding the man because you are mad at the woman, all men like this kind of punishment. But Tara has finally admitted to herself she has to cut it off completely and she is done with him and the good thing is Peter actually got the message, so what does he do, of course he makes this big decision to try and work it out with his wife. On television he tells all of us that he owes it to his wife to work it out, but all of us in television land saw how Tara sent her message by changing the locks and now he knows she means business and she is not taking him back she he had no choice but to choose his wife. Peter Gunz is a player with no type of game, he is old and rusty at playing the game and it shows, the only fool that seems to be in this triangle is Amina, who brought into Peter's apology and now she is really all in, I must say it, she is a fool but I guest the saying is true, we all play a fool sometimes. Good luck to your marriage Amina you will need more than luck to make that work with a man like Peter. Now moving on to Erica Jean and Saigon and him asking her to move in with him so that they can be a real family to their son, I am not sure about this but I can understand why Erica is willing to give it a try. A woman wants to be able to say she did everything in her power to have worked it out with her baby's father. I just hope it works out for the two of them because a relationship is not easy and moving with that person takes a whole lot of work. I liked seeing Tahiry
hang out with her sisters and it is good to hear sisters talk because they will tell you what they truly think. As for Tahiry saying that she is really finish with Joe Budden and that they will remain friends is of course as we know is not true, as her sisters knew. Tahiry has a deep love for this man and it tells when said she would remain friends with him after everything he did to her. Now looking at next week Joe is talking about making that big move with Tahiry and we all know what that is, now will him asking Tahiry to marry him solve things, in my opinion marrying someone never solves a problem, it only create problem because you are adding a nothing situation in an already mixed up pot of mess. First clean your house, in other words get your life right, prove you have gotten your life right and then work your way back into that person life. Now this big part of the show for me on Monday night was the triangle between Erica Mena, Rich and Cyn. Now you are talking about a blow up between these three. I was proud that Erica was honest with her girlfriend about the kiss but on the other hand I thought she should not have told her in the studio much less tell her about the kiss at all. Cyn was seriously upset and you could see it in this woman eyes, she was heartbroken about the entire thing and then Rich walks in the studio after Erica had told Cyn the news and what happens, of course Cyn goes off on Rich. Rich gets upset and tells them to take the bullsh** out the studio but Cyn can not help herself because of course the woman is deeply hurt. With Erica and Rich sharing only a kiss, in my opinion I think Erica should have told Rich it would end there and that she is in love with Cyn and it would only be business between them two. Now I know Cyn would have seen the taping anyway and Erica had to tell her, but why at the studio, she should have had a private moment with Cyn to tell her and tell her why it really happen. Believe it or not I like Erica and Cyn together and I hate to see Rich coming between the two women because they really seem like they are in love with each other, although I have to say Erica seems a little on the unsteady side, so I would want someone better for Cyn because she seems like a really nice girl who puts her heart on the line when she is in love, sorry Erica hurt her so bad. Great show, can not wait until next week.

Breaking The Faith 1-5-14 (#BreakingTheFaith)

This past Sunday night was Breaking the Faith season finale and it was really enjoyable. The last to finish her make over was Angie, you know the passive one that were not sure what direction she would take and I must say who would have thought that all that was under those layers of clothing. Angie is really beautiful, she in my opinion was the most beautiful out of all the girls. Now she did still keep in a little conservative and this I understand because she is not use to showing skin and it takes a while getting too, show starting slow with a little skin showing is understandable in my opinion, but she really did look great. I was glad to see all the ex crick member get back together. My favorite Martha sucked it in and she made her apologies as well as the girls who ran Martha away made theirs, and not only that they even admitted to being a little jealous because Martha was moving fast in her transformation, I thought that was big of the girls. Martha brought her new friends over to the house and they had pizza and cake to wish Matt well on his journey to joining the military. I was a little disappointed as Zack was that he did not get that opportunity to reconnect with his mother as he found out from other members in the crick that it is mostly likely she is being punished because she was sentence to his father's compound. As for Ben he is opening up more to people and not only that he took it upon himself to go and apologize to Val for his actions towards her and to beg her to join the group for a last get together as they all go their separate ways, Val was hesitant but she showed up with her new boyfriend and they all welcomed him. As the show was ending it informed us of everyone journey, Val is engaged to her boyfriends as well as Connie. Martha is continuing with her education as well as Angie who is studying to work with children. Matt is studying for his GED to go into the military, Zack went back to high school, yes high school I am proud of him, he wants to be a doctor and he will never give up looking for his mother and as or Ben he too is working on his education an trying to make his way in his new world. It was a great ending to the show as Martha burned her FLDS dress in the bomb fire they made, wish in my opinion made for a great ending to an old life and own with the new. Now I am waiting for the reunion, I want to know what happen to Jake.

The Real Housewives of Atlanta 1-5-14 (#RHOA)

Did anyone watch the Real Housewives of Atlanta, well if you did not let me fill you in. I will began with Nene and Phadera going to Athens Georgia to do some volunteer help with the boys and girls club, great jester on the part of Chuck who is a friend of both women. Now the juicy parts comes in when Chuck decides to talk about the incident that happen in Savannah Georgia which his wife attended with the other women and Phadera as well a Kandi was incline to tell Miss Mynique their past relationship with Chuck. Now what fascinated me so much is that Chuck told Phadera that they never had a relationship and it was more like a booty call, he called her when he wanted to hit it. The discussion got a little heated as the two of them going back in forth on what they really called the relationship and as Chuck Smith said he was young just signed a million dollar contract and he was hitting any women that would let him. The back and forth conversation was making Nene very uncomfortable who was hoping that Chuck would not bring up this incident and it turned to Chuck saying all these girls he messed with during this time was drop off and it went into him divulging that Kandi was a drop off as well and she among many women was one that he made her feel special especially after he tasked her family members cooking. Chuck said that Kandi family could cook and he was enjoying every bit of it, but Kandi was nothing more special than all the other women he was hitting at the time and then he went into explaining how Kandi was sleeping with three of four men of her own at the time, now that was the kicker. I can not wait until Kandi watch this episode or respond to this episode because I am sure she has seen it already. Kandi made like she was so special with Chuck that he wanted to marry her and she broke it off, that is why no women should revile their relationship details of and ex, what a low blow. For most people the most exciting part was the divide between Peter and Cynthia and of course Cynthia's sister, but to me this is no divide at all. Peter is making poor choices and these choices include spending money they do not have. This show started with Cynthia being deeply in love with this man Peter and him convincing Cynthia to marry him, now in my personally opinion I never did like Peter for Cynthia and I always thought she was too put together for this man and I always felt that Peter was rushing Cynthia to marry him. Now Cynthia's sister wants to stay with them for some months and Peter had the audacity to say to Cynthia you did not discuss this with me first. This is the same man that did not tell Cynthia he was buying a warehouse, or car, he invested money without Cynthia's knowledge and now he says Cynthia should have discussed the decision of her sister staying. Now I agree everything should be fifty, fifty and there should be that discussions on decisions making but in my opinion Peter is one of those old fashion men who thinks women should be seen and not heard. The men handle the money and the women just let them do what they want. To this I say hell no, especially if your bad decisions affect my life, and my credit, so you will here my opinion. In my own personal opinion I do think Cynthia and Peter should divorce, I never think they should have gotten married and I thought the mother and Cynthia's sister were right when they held their marriage license. Peter does not seem as if he is trying to make any changes and he is not at all supportive to his wife, what a man right, he needs some real adjustments on his relationship part. Now we will slide over to Porsha who decided to buy a lavish house and does not know rather she can afford it or not but believes in herself enough to say that she deserves this six bedroom house for her and her only, yeah good luck with paying your bills with believing in yourself. Now I am one for believing in myself but I can do it with living in a responsible place in which I know I can afford and have enough sense to know that if I do hit it rich, I can upgrade later, now that makes sense. Poor Porsha I must say that I do believe that she is indeed a little light headed and could really benefit from taking some educational lessons, that is something that your money will not be wasted on because honey you could use it. Kandi had a little skit in which she made somewhat of a contact with her mother in Derrick's beauty salon, real awkward, these two could not even talk without a little raising of the voices, but mama Joyce said she will leave the situation alone and I am believing that she will. Way to go mama Joyce let Kandi walk into that on coming bus, as a matter of fact give a little push, she will learn. I was glad to hear all the women said they grew from the trip and became a little closer, it made me as a women feel that women can get along when they put their minds to it, as for Miss Kenya she was being herself, talking of her experience on the trip and what she got out of it. Now Kenya's father's is suppose to come visit her next week and I can not wait to see what he has to say to her. Now I am edge to learn what will help in the next chapters of these women life.