Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Marrying the Game(Stay Strong Tiffany)

I am admiring Tiffany more and more each time I watch the show "Marrying the Game", she is one tough woman and I think all women can take notes from Tiffany when it comes to thinking about marrying a man. Marriage is not something to be jumped into lightly, although it is done more to often and that is why divorce rate is so high. Some women just want to get married just to say they are married and to be able to have that title of Mrs., but marriage is very hard work and is not something to be taken lightly. You have to remember that vows that you make to each other is not only a promise you make to one another but to God and how you will obey what he said you both should as now you have entered this commitment. I do not like it how some people take marriage so lightly and then instead of remembering the good times, all they focus on is the bad when they go into divorce court and talk about each other like dogs. Look at the divorce court proceedings, most of the time the judge tries to remind the couples why they married each other, but she finds it difficult as most of the couples just jumped into these relationship without a thought or how hard it would be to really work at something worth having. Marriage is not a game and I admire Tiffany for understanding this and making that very hard decision I know it was for her to make in given The Game his ring back until he understands why he gave her this ring in the first place. I think the Game is taking what Tiffany is saying into heart but at the same time being on television in front of his fans he has to have that persona in which he has to be a little tough, a real man don't cry, yeah right. Hold it in and if the woman that you have loved for so many years and have had children by walks out your life so what. I know what I think will happen, I think the Game will come to his senses, like any man with a brain will and he will of course take what Tiffany has been saying to him in deep thought and he will properly propose to her again by letting her know what changes he will be making to better their lives together. I know all the man in the world are just saying all kinds of things towards my blog right now but as much as you men like to carry on how we women just like to run our mouths and just blab on about things that don't mean a thing, is not true. We women are here to keep our house in order and if we do not keep our house in order than there will be cautious. Men are men and what I mean by this if we let them do what they want without keeping some kind of order than these men will always do what they want and walk all over us as they please. A man is suppose to be that strength that stand by his woman side not that thorn that sticks in it. Tiffany I want to say bravo to you and to tell you as another woman to stick to your guns, do not settle for anything or you will do as they say fall for everything. Be that strong female figure in his presence and later on he will understand why it is there, don't rollover and play dead be that beacon and shine woman shine.

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