Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Paternity Court(#PaternityCourt)

Has anyone watch the new paternity court television show. All I can say is I love it and this is one program that should have been added to a list of the courts shows a long long time ago. You would think that these days and ages there is no need for a Paternity Court, but it will surprise you how many women lie about the father of their child or really have no clue who the father is because they may have slept around so much. I do not know what took television producers so long to decide to air a show like Paternity Court because it shows young girls and women, why it is so important for to be honest about your sexual life, when it comes to involving children. If you bring a child into this world you are obligated to be honest with that man as well as that child, so that the child does not grow up believing that one person is their father when it is actually is another person and lord forbid it comes out in that child later life. You only hurt the child and definitely the father if he raised a child thinking it was his own, although that should not matter if the child is now grown. What upset me the most is that if a father, like one case I saw, did five years in prison due to his inability to pay child support only to find out years later that the son was not his. This father had doubts and wanted to dispute it but did not have the funds and now because of a show like Paternity Court, he was given the true information and found that five of years of his life was taken when the mother knew all along. When the judge asked the mother did she have an idea who the father was and she said yes of course, she had an idea it was him. So now my question is why not say this too the judge years ago before this man went to jail that you were unsure and maybe the judge would have tested both of the men and you could have stopped a man for going to prison. Is it the pride of the woman because they did sleep with one or more men around the same time and was not sure who the father was or was it because the women was married and she did not want her husband to find out that she had cheated on him. Whatever the reason is, you have to be fair to that man before telling him that the baby is his. I would never lie to a man that he is the father if I was unsure and make that man pay for that child knowing that I knew the truth. That is why the Paternity Court show is so important to so many people, because it bring a clear solution to and unclear situation. If a man has doubt for any reason, he can get the true answer in court if he can't get it from his significant other. It can also clear up situations from women who may have been with a man has doubted their baby for years and if they know he is the father the DNA testing they do on the show can shut the man up. This show should go on for a very long time as there are more and more young women having sex freely as they claim it is my body and I am an adult, but along with these adult things comes adult responsibility so if you get pregnant and not sure who you slept with at that free time in you life, then get a DNA to settle that unsure thought, not only for you but for that man and the baby.

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