#BlackLove (Show and Reunion)

I am not sure how many people watch this reality show on own called black love, but I did and I loved it, why you ask because I am black and I love seeing anytime people can come together as a black couple and get that true black love that is strong, courage and oh so real. Now after watching the show, I saw some things I really did not like both on the men and women side. One particular incident was with a guy name Aaron who was in the final three. The women had to choose the three guys they saw as top contenders, and over and over again I saw these women all think that Aaron was a good choice, but for me I saw this man is manipulative, very untruthful and not direct. Now all these women on the reunion said they saw the same exact thing but yet they choose this man to be in the final three, so why is this. I was very puzzled because I saw a lot of the other men that should have been in the final three, but yet Aaron, who was clearly being deceitful was chosen. I tried to figure out why, over and over again women choose men who they know are not being honest as a good mate choice. What made it really bad is that a few of these women wanted Aaron and they choose Aaron. When asked by the host why did they choose Aaron knowing that he was hiding something they all said the same thing, he was a very smooth talker and very manipulative, but yet I also heard some of these women saying he could not pull the wool over their eyes. If this was so why did they choose him to be in final three. Apparently Aaron pull the wool over a lot of these women eyes because they choose him. I started wondering if maybe these women all felt as though they could maybe change this man, if they all thought maybe Aaron was really hurt by a woman and they could make it all better, we as women for some odd reason have that sense of need to rescue a man, but the man feels as if he needs no rescuing and his entire agenda becomes about getting back at all women, wow. A hurt and damaged man can all ask God for help and get help within himself before he even approach a woman. Now Aaron was truly wrong for coming on the show as if he really wanted love, when we can truly see he is a damaged man and if a man does not love himself how can he love a woman. Aaron kept with his lies and said the only real connection he had was with one of the woman, Ashley, and he said this because this was the only woman who stood by his side. No matter what Aaron did not seek any connection, he does not in my opinion even know how to have a relationship with a woman, the entire time he was awkward talking to these women on stage, he was very pitiful and sad and like I stated, he can only be helped by Jesus. But who else was wrong was all these women, they all say they was hurt and mad that this man tricked them, but they choose him???? Aaron may have deceived these women, but in my opinion they knew there was deception and they accepted it as a challenge, too see which woman could help him overcome his ways, wow. So the women have to admit to their part that they too were wrong for chosen and going in with an attitude that they could actually change this grown a** man. This man is grown, he has been obviously hurt and he has some work on himself he needs to do. With all this being said I was so happy that two of the couples seem to really have found love, plus some of the guys who were eliminated, God can work in mysterious ways. And I think the two couple who remain are really good for each other, but unfortunately one of my favor Alex is really sick, this man is in ICU and has the brain flu, wow. He was such a down to earth man and I was really praying for him to find love and he did and now this man is fighting for his life. The woman of his choose is so hurt and she is trying to help him fight, what a test of God's faith right, but we know God makes know mistake and what ever Alex journey turns out to be, we do know that God choose what path Alex must walk and whatever that path is, it will be one of real healing. God journey will be a journey that helps us all and for that we must say thank you Jesus. Alex mother has started a go fund me page for Alex medical bills as he was a truck driver and for all us who know the truck driver business a lot of these guys do not have health insurance or no financial benefits. Yes there is money in trucking, but if you own your own truck, you have to pay everything yourself. If the truck breaks down that money comes out your pocket, you have to keep your insurance coverage for all that is required on the trucks. Everything you need for travel on the truck is out of your pocket in expense, you don't have a 401k, health benefits, sick leave, vacation leave, etc. So if you are not establish enough to have accomplished for putting aside for these things, or you have not been able to invest money because of coverage for the truck, then most truck drivers are literally screwed if they do not work for a company. So prayers goes out for all these couple that found someone and I am truly praying for Alex recovery, so we can see that beautiful smile on television again.