Tamar Braxton (What Are You Saying)

Wow Tamar I thought you were getting it together when you walked out a relationship that apparently was becoming on healthy for you although you will not admit what really is going on and you seem to be hiding a lot of things in your closet. For every reason Tamar it is that you don't want to say things are not as they appear, I myself was respecting you right to privacy and what went on in your own private life, although you threw a lot of stones at your sister's houses. But Tamar what was that statement that you got on the Steve Harvey show and made. You said that a woman should change herself for a man, or what did you mean a woman should become whomever that man wants her to be. Tamar are you teaching young girls that they should pretend to be someone they are not for their men, or they should become something they are not for their man's satisfaction, or our you just saying a woman can't be herself too her man if that is not what they want? Really Tamar can you please explain this to me because I am so confused right now at the message you sent to so many young impressible women in the world. You said you had over a 100 blonde wigs because you knew that is what Vince liked, but you did not explain how that really worked out for you, especially since you are in the process of a divorce and things are more then a bit crazy. So Tamar you said Vince was happy when you became this other person with the blonde hair, or when you were not who you really wanted to be or when you decided you had to be someone other than yourself all the time? So Tamar can a women really be happy when she has to pretend to be another woman for her man all the time, or can a women really be happy when she tries so hard to please her man she forgets who she is and becomes someone who she do not recognize? Tamar I am still trying to understand is it really happiness if a woman is pleasing her man but in the process loses herself. I am not understand Tamar if you were making your man so happy by doing everything he wanted then why is it that he still stepped out on you, allegedly. You can try as a woman to please your man over and over again to make him happy but when two people get married in the eyes of God, I thought they both make that promise to make each other happy and work together in the marriage to make it a union that God is proud of. One that is filled with communication, respect, honor and love. Not I will make you happy as I am miserable in the process. I will do for you while you do not do for me and give me all the excuses why you should not have to do for me because I am the one with the money. So Vince apparently when Tamar married him had plenty of money and apparently this was a motive for Tamar to marry him and he controlled all the money so Tamar was his paid wife, wow. That is it, Tamar was chasing that dollar bill and in the process she got played. People are so quick to sale their souls for a dollar bill and in the process don't realize what they are really doing to themselves. Young women I have a word of advice and it is not the one Tamar gave you from her book of lessons, but it is from that book called the Bible, you know the one with God words are written in. If you keep God's word and follow what God has told you to do in his book the Bible and apply his plan to your life, everything else will fall into place. That husband, the children your long life journey of living and watching those around you prosper. So you don't change who you are for man because man can steer you wrong, you don't do things to please a man because man is just that a man and if he is not happen with you, a child of God, then he can be happy with no one and you should not have to change who you are to make him happy because he will not find happiness in you unless he puts God first. Put God first women, not men, and walk that walk to greatness in Jesus name, Amen.