Teen Mom (Yes It Is Still a Joke)

I am writing because I have to talk about what I saw on teen mom. I am still not getting it and maybe it is just me. I listen to all these ladies talk about their so call problems and what I got out of it was that through these years this show has been coming on I have yet to see these teen learn anything from their actions and what is even worse the show has not taught them anything about themselves and they have not a clue how to work through their issues. We saw Farrah being snob from a all white affair and who does Farrah blames, she blames her. association with the teen mom show, yes this woman who was old enough to make the decision to do porn and had the nerve to say Kim Kardasin did it and became famous, why not her. What a joke this woman, as she call herself is making these decisions but then is not taking responsibility for her own actions. She got mad because her mom and the producers was bringing up that it may have something to do with her doing porn and she literally went off on them and in common Farrah action she began putting on what I call the fake tears because they never amount to anything, it just seems like a plot of Farrah's to get people to feel sorry for her. Yes I do feel sorry for this young lady, I feel sorry that she is chosen to live a life of greed and deciding that instead of turning to God, she will turn to selling her soul for money. She tries to bribe that bratty daughter of hers by giving her lots of money on television, like that makes her a great mom. Farrah daughter unfortunately is headed in the same direction her mom is and that is very disrespectful to others, nasty attitude, this is something I hate to see an adult afflict on a child because a child does not understand if they are not taught properly and definitely this child is not being taught anything but to be selfish and learn that it is all about her. All I can say is I hope Farrah is prepared to deal with what she is creating and that is her daughter will do the same thing she is afflicting on her mother, that will be ironic, I would like to see how that turns out. Okay moving on to Amber, I really wanted to give this woman a chance but after watching a couple of episodes I see Amber as the same Amber only sober. Yes Amber is being again very selfish and she really does not do anything that impresses me as far as saying she wants to make a better lifer for Leah. This woman sleeps late, eats all the time and just go out to different places with her boyfriend, excuse me finance, because she says she needs a break from it all, all of what. Can you imagine Amber having Leah fifty percent of the time, no neither can I. Amber barely takes care of herself, if she did not have a man waiting on her hand and foot she would never get anything done. The little time that Leah stayed over the house Amber's finance took out time with her and took care of the little girl and Amber has the nerve to say Gary does not spend time with Leah when Gary had this little girl the entire time Amber was so call going in and out of rehab and jail, what a joke Amber still is. Amber knows nothing of raising a child so why would a judge grant her fifty fifty custody for Amber to hand Leah over to a man that apparently is not taking care of his eight or seven children. Please I ask why is this show not giving these women help on a mental capacity because they are not looking at reality when it comes to their lives compare to how the world really works. Then we have Macy, who was one of my favorite, she is doing something I really dislike and that is trying to make a man rush into marrying her, I do not know how many times I have stressed to woman that you can not make a man marry you and if you do it will only come back to bite you on your a** in the long run. Let the man when he is good and ready ask you, most man do not like a pushy woman and that is what Macy is being at this moment very pushy. She is pis*ing me off because she is making this man so uncomfortable and I do not like seeing that. When these woman get on television and act is they are demanding a man marries them it make other woman think this is what they can do and it is almost ripping apart are males ego. Men are our warriors and we as women suppose to treat them as so, so for a woman to try and tear down a man in front of others much less on television it is very demeaning to me. Now moving on to Catelynn and Tyler, yes we have to put them together because they come as a package, Tyler is the only guy who has a permanent position on teen mom. Well these two are finally going to get married after having a second child together upon giving their first child away. I still was not sure why these two are still part of the show but I do know that I admired them the most because they gave their child up for adoption to a great home instead of trying to bring their child up in a hostile household. Now having this second child they will be doing the right thing but they are still very young and Catelynn is so unsure of herself with him. Why after all these year is Catelynn unsure of herself with Tyler. I have my own assumption that Catelynn feels that Tyler maybe unsure, as I feel because Tyler does keep bringing up his age and yes he is very young and most men at the age are not looking at a long life of marriage, just not at this age. It is almost like they are giving up a lot before they really get out into the world. They had a second chance after putting their first child up for adoption and then they go and have another baby before getting out into the world and enjoying it. A lot of this I blame on the show because this show is giving these young people so much money they do not know how real life works really. Others can disagree with me but I will say it over and over again, until the money stop rolling in from this show these young people will not really understand how it is to struggle and work for what you won't in this life and because of this they will keep making the same mistakes over and over again. Most of them are putting money first and using that to basis how their life is, they can just jump up and get a house, don't have to worry about their credit because they are on a reality show, they can walk on a car lot and just get a car don't have to worry about payments, okay what about their children futures and what are they really teaching them. I am watching Ryan in what is through my eyes, living with his parents and doing something that is just not right and no one is questioning it. Why is the producers on this show pacifying people like Farrah by making her think that she is right about everything she thinks. Farrah has the ugliest attitude of anyone I have every seen and she belittles people, something I think is the worse of the worse in a person, she needs Jesus in her life. Get her some help instead of patting her on her back. This show needs to have a reunion of a panel of people that will ask some real question and not take it easy on these women. We have to remember they are not little girls anymore they are women so they should be able to take the real questions, since they are able to act as grown ups. Someone need to ask Amber why is she in the bed while her boyfriend is feeding her daughter, someone needs to ask Maci why she feel it is okay to push a man into marriage and why she thinks it makes sense. Someone needs to ask Catelynn and Tyler do the really feel comfortable with getting married at such young ages and someone really needs to call Farrah out on her parenting skills and how she talks to her mother and why does she talk down on others as if she is never wrong. Farrah out of all these women needs some serious psychological help, she has a look of things she is lacking. What mom who is being a real mom will leave her child for a month, why not pay for a tutor since she acts if she is making so much money. It all confuses me as to why these producers think these Teen Moms as they call the show, when they are now adults, are setting a good example for the other young mothers out there. What is the show purpose anymore if it is not teaching anything because I am lost on what it is suppose to be teaching, can someone clarify that for me please.