Love & Hip Hop NY 11-25-13(#LHHNY)

I watch Love and Hip Hop New York Monday night and I do not know what to say about these men on this show or how to sum them up because what I have been seeing on this show is what is really happening to our so call men of today. They are being arrogant, self indulgent, greedy and just right down nasty. Peter Gunz is the prime example of how men want their cake and eat it too and what really makes it bad is that on last night episode he says that he want both women and will use them both until they really decide they have had enough. The sad thing about this situation is that both women still want him and this is the prime example of what are happening to are young women today, they have no pride or they except what these men are doing to them. Why would you not completely cut off a man once you found out that he was sleeping with another woman while sleeping with you. What is even worse about the situation is that Gunz tried telling Tara that it was all her fault that he went into another woman arm, wow this is the second time he cheated on her and it is all her fault. Now if last night show did not show women how stupid we can be when it comes to a man than nothing will. Now I was trying to find out the situation between Erica Mena and Nya because Nya called up Cyn, who is Erica's girlfriend and I am not sure why and neither was Erica Mena. Cyn tried to talk to Erica and she got her to meet up with Nya to talk for what I am not sure but this was a scene that definitely went array. The two got in another heated conversation that ended up with them calling each other names and dissing each others career. One of the most touching scene of tonight for me was the talk between Yandy and her father as they talked over what she will do if Mandeecee get a lot of jail time. What Yandy's father said to her made a lot of sense that she has to think of her life and take into consideration to move on. Now one thing that is puzzling me is where is Ms. K. Michelle, she came to New York and I know she is working on her singing career but I was expecting her to be on the show a little more than she has. From what will be showing on next week episode K. Michelle will show back up just in time to give Tara, who has sleep with Peter again, some advice. Yes you heard right, Tara said she could not help herself and she had sexual relations with Peter Gunz once again, the man is getting everything he wants and Tara, who I thought would move on with  her life and find someone who really wants her decided that she will get back under this married man, yes he is married and I am assuming that one of the reason is to get back at Amina so that she can now post that she and Peter has slept with one another, okay just wait for it because it is coming and it will be on between Peter and Amina. Why do some woman feel the need to lower themselves so, this is too me when you have lack of respect for yourself. I had a woman to tell me that she slept with her ex who was now remarried and she felt that his now wife did it when she was married to him and she thought that it was only right that she did it back and I had to ask her what did it solve because he still was with his wife. She explain to me that I was right and that he is cheating on his wife that he has now and that she will get what happen to her and I had to explain that it is now her problem and do she think it is the woman's fault or his fault, is he the one with issues since he feel the need to keep cheating and not be satisfied with one woman and why do the women when they know this keep going back to the man. Did anyone see how Saigon acted when he felt that his son was not developing normally. Instead of this man asking the mother that they maybe should take their child to see are doctor and ask questions on his development, he went right into accusing Erica Jean into not properly raising their child. He accused this woman who has been raising their child of being and unfit mother and said she was the reason their son is not speaking or not speaking at a level to his age. Well Saigon I for one am here to tell you that all kids do learn at different level and just because your son is not speaking now it does not mean he will not catch up and if he does has issues than you as a father should step up, yes you should step up and take him to the doctor and get him that help if needed, they do have courses that you can put your kid in for this. They way Saigon acted on last night show was ridiculous, this man seemed as though he was going to attack Erica and at one point he did when he kept her from getting in her car and when she tried to walk off he threw her purse, like a little punk. Saigon is no man to me for throwing Erica's purse in the air and if you ask me Erica should get a warrant on his a** to stay away from her. The way this man acted scared me and I was Erica I would not want to be around him with this explosive temper. Saigon is another sad sample of what is happening to our so called men today, they believe in putting hands on women and acting like a little boy instead of being a real man and walking away as Erica did.