Love & Hip Hop NY 11-11-13(#LHHNY)@LoveHipHopVH1

I saw the Love & Hip Hop New York on Monday night and all I can say is wow. The incident between Tara and Amina was more than enough to show us what happens to a relationship when one of the person in the relationship choose to cheat when the other chooses to remain committed. Some people do not know how it hurts when you are so in love with the other person and you think that everything is going great, never knowing that the other person, whom you are totally in love with is actually having an affair on you. I know how Tara feels, you feel like the biggest idiot, you start thinking were did you go wrong and you are so mad with your significant other because you truly trust and love this person with everything you had only to find that the trust and love was wasted on this person for absolutely nothing. This person someone how either did not love you as much as you loved them or never did love you at all. Tara has every right to have that feeling as though she could kill Peter Gunz and some people would say well why did she not attack Peter instead of attacking Amina, that is because Amina being the young and naive girl that she is had to just throw it in Tara face and tell her that Peter and her are married. Amina if you were a real women you would have let Peter Gunz tell Tara and not have been so hateful as to tell this girl in front of her friends. Amina any girl can make an azz of herself by acting out and having the last laugh, but a real woman would have walked away only stating that you really need to sit down and talk to him and tell him to tell you he entire truth, this would have given Tara the opportunity to hear it from Peter herself. Amina you yourself need some help because why would marry this man knowing he had a woman and two children at home, what the hell are you are a woman or girl thinking. Why do some women choose to bring other women down, there are other men out there that are not in relationships so why choose one that is. Why not be that real woman and say that since I found out that you do have a woman, I will pass on your advances. Now when Tara did lash out at Amina you could truly feel her anger, I almost stood up because I knew how she feel when she tried moving that guy our of her way by almost ripping his shirt off, she was really angry. Tara wanted to get to Amina so bad but there were so many people standing in her way and all you could see on Tara face was the hurt and pain that she was feeling at the time. This was on fight that I really wanted to happen, I wanted Tara to get as many punches as she could on Amina and then be broken up. Tara did get a piece of Amina's hair, I just wish it could have been a little more. This entire scene had me so hype I almost forgot about the other scenes. I do remember that Tahiry found that Joe Budden had another girl in the bed in which she sleep, now someone please tell me why should she be surprise with this one. Tahiry knew of Joe's history, she has be friends with the man for a very long time and she watch this man break another woman's heart last season while at the same time woe her back into his life. Again here is another situation in which a woman seems to think it was okay to get in between another woman and her man's relationship, wow. What are we as woman coming to when we think it is okay for a man to do another woman dirty all because we think he will not do it too us and when he does, we have the nerve to really act surprise. I myself though Tahiry seemed to be a pretty smart girl from last season but she proved me wrong we she took Joe back. Are all these women on the love and hip hop show delusional or are they just immature and young, please tell me what is it. Now as for Erica Jean and Saigon, I am glad that Erica decided that she would get the DNA done for Saigon to know if their child is his son, because even if Saigon believes that her son is his, in the back of his head he will have that doubt, so good for you Erica, it will not hurt a thing to get the DNA done. As for Nya and Erica Mena, this is a really screwed up friendship, it ended as quickly as it started. I am not sure what kind of relationship these two had, because Nya and Mena was suppose to do a song together and then it seems as if Erica blew Nya off when she tried calling her, but what really was sad about the entire situation is that when the two women got to arguing about it, neither woman had anything more to say to other as far as who had the worst record because they both are novice and neither of them have any credits to their name in the music business. I was stunned just watching them get out something nasty to really say to the other, and to think I actually thought that these two women would actually hook up, stupid me. Now as for the rest of the cast members it is a little blurry since the fight between Tara and Amina took a hold of all of my attention.