I Got wise Advice From Catfish(Who Would Have Thought It)

I was watching one of the episodes from catfish, something I do not do on a regular but every now and than. On this episode they found out that a guy was setting up guys who are in relationships with someone else but want to talk to other women. Yes he was pretending to be a girl to set up these guys because he believe they are dogs for talking to other women online when they already have girlfriends, he was like a vigilante. The reason the guy said he was doing this is because he believed that he was helping women, like his girlfriend, yes he has a girlfriend, fight against these men who go online and talk to other women hurting their hearts. This guy said his girlfriend knew what he was doing and agreed that he should do this. Now the host of the show(NEV) was taken by the act of this guy, he said that he did not agree with the guy he was helping find this girl having a girlfriend either, so he told him before he would help him he had to tell his girlfriend what was going on, in other words he had to be honest with his girlfriend, their relationship and why he was talking to this girl online. The guy did this and even told the host he felt better for doing so, this hardcore guy said he did not care what he had done to this guy because he was in the wrong and he is glad he broke his heart. He said that he did not care about anything that he said to the guy or anything about his feelings on the intimacy he had with him online. When this guy said he just did not care the host explain to him and this is the wise advice I am talking about that (Do you realize that when you do not care about anything you set yourself up to not be cared about). This advice is so very true and I think people do not realize when they adopt that don't care attitude they are setting their self up for failure. When you don't care, that same attitude is returned back to you. You have to care for something to receive it in return. This man still said he did not care and went away, for me I thought it was very sad and for someone who is suppose to have a girlfriend he was not a very feeling guy. I believe this guy was lying about having a girlfriend, frankly I do not think he has anyone and I think he was the person hurt by someone online and he wanted to hurt someone back. I believe this guy was so cold because he has been hurt and really is a lonely person and the reason I believe he is lonely is because of what Nev said that he has set himself to not care so he leaves that door closed to being cared about. Think about it, I work with someone who does things for herself and she is always making that comment that she does not care about what anyone else thinks or what happens to anyone else, it is all about her. This women is alone and wonder why she is alone and I feel that because she cares for nothing or no one else feelings, that door for her to be cared about is closed and it will stay closed until she understands that caring for others will leave a door for her to be cared about, that door will continue to be closed. This is really something to think about and it took me watching the Catfish show to remember.