The Black Ink Crew 11-25-13(@BlackInkCrew, #BlackInk!)

I watch the Black Ink Crew last night and I watch Puma and some of his friends go to Atlantic City for his bachelor party. Now I was glad that Teddy took the time to talk to Puma about letting Ceaser come to the party and Puma actually saying yes. When Ceaser came to the party it was a shock for Puma because he really was not expecting Ceaser to show up and there is still that doubt in Puma about Ceaser true friendship. Friends can be friends but everyone knows when it comes down to business then you have to separate the two yet last night Puma told Ceaser that he should not have been treated like any of Ceaser other employees and my question on this is why not. Too me a real friend will understand when you have to lay down the laws when it comes to taking care of business and if you are a real friend you will stand behind this friend who owns this business and help him or her if needed. I was really glad that Puma and Ceaser did talk although there was a little back and forth of misunderstand before this happen, it was good to see everyone together again and just having fun and I again applaud Ceaser because he took it a step further by pulling Puma aside on the beach and talking to him seriously one on one. Now as for O*sh** and him finishing a tattoo on his crazy ex girlfriend, you know the one whom think she can fight but did absolute nothing but sneak in a sucker punch. I was wondering why did it take O*sh** so long to finish this tattoo on his ex and I hope his ex is telling the truth when she means that she has really let him go and that she is through with him. She should have been finished with him a very long time ago, some woman again just do not know how to move on and her continuing to sleep with O*sh** when she knew he was messing with other woman is her fault for not moving on with her life and she only had one child, why not date around, was it because she is on the crazy side and can not find anyone else who will deal with her. I love that tattoo that Dutchess did of the Geisha girl, she seems to do her best work when she is depressed and under a little strain, the absence of Ceaser was on her mind as well as Ceaser missing her which is bond to happen when two people are in love and separated for the first time. Separation is not something easy to get over and with any real relationship there will be that complete feel of missing something that is a part of you, but if you do decide to completely break up of course time will have to be your sole relief. The question is where will they all go from here, Ceaser has connected back with the people from his old crew and they seem to still have a closeness. If you ask me they can all continue to be friends, why stop being friends just because they no longer work for Ceaser. They all can work separate and continue on with their own businesses and still party together, that way no hard feeling when it comes to their jobs. I am still not sure if O*sh** will switch teams and work for Puma, this may cause another rip between the two shops but I think as long as O*sh** decides to leave he should explain to Ceaser why and tell him it is his decision. I still am not liking the location of Puma's shop and would personally find it hard to have to go pass people begging me for money. I hope that everything works out for everyone at Black Ink and I want to continue to see Ceaser keep his friendships along the way, like Ceaser said, life is never promised and you never know when the last time you say goodbye to someone is the last time.

Chrissy & Mr. Jones 11-25-13(#ChrissyandJim)

It was nice for Jim to send Chrissy to send Chrissy out on a girls night and although I do not understand the joke between the two with the pink limo ride, I do still like the relationship the two have with one another. Jim does seem to be on a different level than Chrissy but it works for them. Chrissy is always thinking about the business and I think she will take lady vamp to the next level. I think that Chrissy coming on set while Jim was shooting a video to put some of the shirts on Jim's dancers was a great idea and what was even better was that Jim did not get mad with Chrissy, he understood that Chrissy was not there to snoop but to help promote their line and he did not mind at all, this is trust and these two really understand one another. Now the sending her out for a woman's night is something I think all men should do for their women, I wish my husband would do this and actually make the plans, do what Jim did if you are not sure get one of your woman's girlfriend or sister to help you come up with a great plan. As for Mama Jones going into Chrissy closet and telling her grandson not to tell was a little sneaky, although Mama Jones let it be known on camera that she took the shoes and there to Chrissy. I must say I wish I had someone closet I could go into and they had some many things that they did not even realize that I took a couple of things from their wardrobe, it should be a law any way for one person to have that many items, did you see Jim's watch collection. I am still of course waiting for the planning of the wedding to begin and something else I would like to see is the family having a holiday meal together. I want to see how the Jones do their holiday meal together it would be great. For me the overall show is great and Chrissy and Jim has one of the best relationships  that I have seen in a long time, some people may say the way they do things is different but this does not matter because they are good together and I see their love and trust for one another.

Love & Hip Hop NY 11-25-13(#LHHNY)

I watch Love and Hip Hop New York Monday night and I do not know what to say about these men on this show or how to sum them up because what I have been seeing on this show is what is really happening to our so call men of today. They are being arrogant, self indulgent, greedy and just right down nasty. Peter Gunz is the prime example of how men want their cake and eat it too and what really makes it bad is that on last night episode he says that he want both women and will use them both until they really decide they have had enough. The sad thing about this situation is that both women still want him and this is the prime example of what are happening to are young women today, they have no pride or they except what these men are doing to them. Why would you not completely cut off a man once you found out that he was sleeping with another woman while sleeping with you. What is even worse about the situation is that Gunz tried telling Tara that it was all her fault that he went into another woman arm, wow this is the second time he cheated on her and it is all her fault. Now if last night show did not show women how stupid we can be when it comes to a man than nothing will. Now I was trying to find out the situation between Erica Mena and Nya because Nya called up Cyn, who is Erica's girlfriend and I am not sure why and neither was Erica Mena. Cyn tried to talk to Erica and she got her to meet up with Nya to talk for what I am not sure but this was a scene that definitely went array. The two got in another heated conversation that ended up with them calling each other names and dissing each others career. One of the most touching scene of tonight for me was the talk between Yandy and her father as they talked over what she will do if Mandeecee get a lot of jail time. What Yandy's father said to her made a lot of sense that she has to think of her life and take into consideration to move on. Now one thing that is puzzling me is where is Ms. K. Michelle, she came to New York and I know she is working on her singing career but I was expecting her to be on the show a little more than she has. From what will be showing on next week episode K. Michelle will show back up just in time to give Tara, who has sleep with Peter again, some advice. Yes you heard right, Tara said she could not help herself and she had sexual relations with Peter Gunz once again, the man is getting everything he wants and Tara, who I thought would move on with  her life and find someone who really wants her decided that she will get back under this married man, yes he is married and I am assuming that one of the reason is to get back at Amina so that she can now post that she and Peter has slept with one another, okay just wait for it because it is coming and it will be on between Peter and Amina. Why do some woman feel the need to lower themselves so, this is too me when you have lack of respect for yourself. I had a woman to tell me that she slept with her ex who was now remarried and she felt that his now wife did it when she was married to him and she thought that it was only right that she did it back and I had to ask her what did it solve because he still was with his wife. She explain to me that I was right and that he is cheating on his wife that he has now and that she will get what happen to her and I had to explain that it is now her problem and do she think it is the woman's fault or his fault, is he the one with issues since he feel the need to keep cheating and not be satisfied with one woman and why do the women when they know this keep going back to the man. Did anyone see how Saigon acted when he felt that his son was not developing normally. Instead of this man asking the mother that they maybe should take their child to see are doctor and ask questions on his development, he went right into accusing Erica Jean into not properly raising their child. He accused this woman who has been raising their child of being and unfit mother and said she was the reason their son is not speaking or not speaking at a level to his age. Well Saigon I for one am here to tell you that all kids do learn at different level and just because your son is not speaking now it does not mean he will not catch up and if he does has issues than you as a father should step up, yes you should step up and take him to the doctor and get him that help if needed, they do have courses that you can put your kid in for this. They way Saigon acted on last night show was ridiculous, this man seemed as though he was going to attack Erica and at one point he did when he kept her from getting in her car and when she tried to walk off he threw her purse, like a little punk. Saigon is no man to me for throwing Erica's purse in the air and if you ask me Erica should get a warrant on his a** to stay away from her. The way this man acted scared me and I was Erica I would not want to be around him with this explosive temper. Saigon is another sad sample of what is happening to our so called men today, they believe in putting hands on women and acting like a little boy instead of being a real man and walking away as Erica did.

The Amazing Race 11-24-13(#amazingrace)

I watched the amazing race last night and I am sure most of you know that the two blondes as I call them, Asley and Ally were eliminated can not say I was surprise just a little disappointed it was not Leo and Jamal, I am really not liking these guys since they are doing everything to make sure that everyone else fells. Why lie to make the train leave quickly so that the other contestants can not get on, you see what happen to the two blondes who were in agreement with Leo and Jamal at getting the train to leave and laughing at the other contestants. What they say he who laughs, laughs last and this was the case with Asley and Ally because they were crying at the finish line, it does not pay to be ugly and that is why I hope Leo and Jamal loses luck along the way. Now Nicole know she should have let Travis take on the music challenge, she seems to be a little light headed when it comes to music so what was she thinking, they would have been in first place if it was not for this. Now I do not like Tim and Marie being up front with the rest of the guys but I would rather have them then Jamal and Leo just because these two and their ugly attitudes. I know now Leo and Jamal have become the underdogs but by know means are these two underdogs in my book, I label them as dirty dogs. Now my two favorite that I have come to love is Jason and Amy, these two have really played a very clean game and I would really like to see them left in the top two I can almost say that I would enjoy seeing them win the entire race. I think someone like Jason and Amy, who reminds me of the couple Uchenna and Joyce who were so supportive of each other and ran a very clean race which lead them to crossing the finish line first in season seven, are just good enough to be the first in this season to cross the line. I would have to say the last two teams I would like to see battle it out is Jason and Amy against Nicole and Travis. Now these two have supported each other throughout the entire game but I would love a clean race at the end and with these two I do believe it would be a very clean race and not only that I think each of the team would be happy for the other team if they were the first to cross the line. What Amy did to help Nicole in the last challenge was great and I admire her for her relentless support not thinking that she could have jeopardize her own chance to be last crossing the line. I can not wait until next week to see who the final three teams will be, hoping that Jamal and Leo are out of it.

Breaking the Faith 11-24-13(#BreakingTheFaith)

I watched TLC's Breaking the Faith last night and I must say I have learn a lot about the FLDS in the short period of time. The FLDS is nothing but a cult and the organization is just controlling people lives, the way they dress, what they eat, who they marry and even the way they think, who does this but a cult. I was glad that these young men are trying to help women that are choosing to get out, helping them go. The women that are choosing to leave are brave as well, they know that they will have to leave everything they know behind and take this leap of faith to go, especially since these women have had it drilled into their heads since they were children that if they leave the FLDS they are doomed to damnation. Now why would something like the FLDS that say they are not a cult and that they do not control their people, not let their people leave if they just want to. Why do they have what they call a God's police to patrol the area and report if they see anyone doing wrong or to even stop people physically from leaving. Wow this compound that claim they are followers of God, are just really keeping these people from the outside world and these older men are marrying girls that are practically little children. Warren Jeff so call marrying a twelve year old girl, is to me just an old man being a very dirty old man. These old men who in my opinion are sick that want to sleep with these very young girls somehow have this perverted way of thinking and I can not believe these grown women who have young girls actually do not feel guilty about letting their young girls marry these older men when they know what goes on. If I was a woman who was raise in this faith not by choice would hope that I would have sense enough to know how I knew something was wrong with the way I was raised would want to make sure my daughter did not endure the same thing, and if I could not leave I would help my daughter get out. I know I say this because I am on the outside but I still would have to believe that as a mother and knowing that my child could get out I would hope that the mother instinct would kick in and tell me to get my child out of this messed up situation. Last night show was an eye opener and it was just ending with the guys picking up the ladies so there is still a lot to be told and I am waiting on the future episodes in which we get to see how each of these women will handle being on the outside and which ones will stay on the outside and which ones will go back. Oh yes we know some of these women will  possibly cave in and want to go back, maybe because of the urge to see their family again. I am hoping that most of them stay and make it and go around to tell their stories because I am one of those people that think the government should get more involved in what is going on in these compounds because if you ask me a lot of people are being held against their will. I think their should be a choice and these compounds are not allowing for choices. I think if someone could get a bunch of he kids alone and ask them questions without any of the grown up around these kids will them a lot of things that may be shocking. FDLS compounds need to be investigated, can not someone go in undercover to help divulge what is really going on,  know it will possible have to be a past FDLS member who acts as though they are coming back home to stay but then they could take pictures, record conversation and maybe put in hidden cameras all over the compound. I can not wait for future episodes, I am personally betting on Connie it is something about her that I think she will go all the way and make it in the world, she seems to really want to separate herself from the compound itself but only time will tell and we will she which of these ladies really do make it.

The Walking Dead 11-24-13(@WalkingDead_AMC)

Okay I must say the Governor had me fooled. I thought he was actually going to stay acting like a human being and take pity on people boy was I wrong. Can you believe how "Bryan" killed Martinez and the other guy, whom name I can not remember, but I know that he was a sweet guy remind me of Rick, he never had a chance against someone like the Governor. Now what this nasty man wants to do after killing most of the leaders that ran this little camp he is in, he wants to go to the prison where Rick them are at and take the prison over. Why does the Governor whom seem to have become very close to these three ladies want to take over the prison why can he not take one of the empty cities or towns and do like he did before and make that their home. I guess for the Governor who is definitely back it is all about control. Now I must say that when the Governor tried to get the girls out and just leave town at first I was understanding where he was coming from about getting them to a safer place, now maybe he just felt that the way these people were doing things just made their situation dangerous especially after they went into the woods to try and find supplies and found a camp that they actually left in tack but someone else killed everyone in the camp and rob them of their supplies. Now how many of you like me think that Carroll may have had something to do with this. I am starting believe that Carroll has ended up with her own group of people and they may be letting her lead, interesting isn't it. It maybe that Carroll has to come and save the people at the prison from the Governor and his attack, especially since this meat head have a tank. But you know another theory I had, you remember Rick 's friend that had all those weapons, you know the one in the very first episode that Rick ad the encounter with and he found him again on a later episode only to find he lost his family, I am thinking this man has got to come into play some where. Rick them will need a lot and I mean a lot of help against the Governor because this is one of the toughest enemy they have to date. I want to understand what these ladies and the little girl will feel of the Governor with him trying to harm other people, they should be trying to fight zombies together, what do they do fight each other, wasting bullets on alive people when they should be wasting them on dead people. Well the show is definitely back and it well be interesting to see how Rick and the others will handle this situation. It is all to good for me trying to guest what will happen from episode to episode. I am wondering if someone we have grown to love will die in this fight is my next question.

Housewives of Atlanta 11-24-13(@BravoATLWives)

I watched Housewives of Atlanta tonight and all I have to say is why is Kandi all up in Phaedra and Apollo's business. Now I know that Kandi is friends with Phaedra and she wants to say she have her girls back, but why do she not let Phaedra handle what has been going on between Apollo and Kenya and if you ask me when Phaedra, whom I am  not a fan of, did talk to Apollo she handled it like a real woman would. She did not yell or scream, she just politely let Apollo know that if he did not stop the foolishness she will have to do a Bobbitt on him, now you have to admire a woman who knows how to handle her man. I took it from the conversation between Apollo and Phaedra that Phaedra is real business right now trying to make her money and she does not have time to raise Apollo because she has two children that require her needed attention and if he feels the need to move on then move on and stop trying to make a fool of her. This is how a feel about a man, that if he feels the urge to cheat and is trying to sneak behind my back, do not sneak, be a man and tell me that you want to go and go, when a woman is raising children and trying to work at the same time the last thing she needs on her plate is to worry about a man who decides he wants to run around on her, you can not have your cake and eat it too, the front door is easy to open so just walk out it and keep going.  I still want to know what Kandi has to do with all of this and why did she feel the need to confront Kenya about her texting Apollo, Kandi is being a hypocrite to me because she is the same person who is complaining about her mother being in her and Todd business and now she is in someone else's. Kandi is so worried about Phaedra is not paying attention to why Todd feels the need to go out of town all the time on business, a little suspicious don't you think. I was glad the ladies took Porsha out so that she could vent and get out of this rut she is in. I know it can not be easy going through a divorce especially when you tried everything in your power to make it work. Porsha is one of those women who was willing to turn her back on her family to please her husband and before all of you judge her, you have to remember how it was to be in love or when you were really trying your hardest to make a relationship work, you did everything you could. I know what Porsha is going through because God say to put your spouse first and when I find myself stuck between my family and my husband I will usually go with my husband only because I know that I have a obligation to keep my marriage in tack and I do not want my husband to think I am turning my back on him, besides I have to sleep with this man at night and who wants to go home to an argument because I choose my family over him. Now on the other hand man do not think this way, they will almost always choose their families first and tell the women they have to live with it. Why men feel the need to put their families in front of their wife I will never know and this is not all men just most. It was good to Cynthia back on her feet again, although I am not to sure how long Cynthia stayed bed written but I had the same procedure and was running around the next day, it was an easy procedure and it was outpatient, no real major scars. I think Cynthia likes being taken care of and it did not hurt to have your mother waiting on you hands and foot. Cynthia told Nene she was about seventy percent, I am older then Cynthia and I felt one hundred percent I got up and walk around that same day and I did not have to pop a look of pain killers, maybe some people just heal differently but I not buying it. It was a great show tonight and I must say my favorite highlight was Phaedra and Apollo in the restaurant, Phaedra handle her business and although Apollo did not like Phaedra calling him out on camera I am glad she did. Phaedra I have to give you some points for handling your business like a real woman would.