The Kardashians??????

Can someone please tell me why the Kardashians are still on television and who in the world order multiple shows. When you get to a point enough is enough and the Kardashians are enough. They are almost in our lives on a everyday basis and they are on television constantly, from playing reruns over and over and over again on television, to showing Kim and Kourtney to Kourtney and Khloe and so and so on. Well please help those who like me to get them out of my living room. I do not want to turn on the television everyday and see they name in highlights. I know for them to be seen everyday is money in their pockets, but I feel that they have made enough money of people stupidity and now it is some other family turn to benefit from America's money. There are a lot of persons out there who want to live the American dream and there are a lot of persons with much more talent than looking good and getting naked or telling your entire business to the world to get peoples interest. I personally could put out more information on my family life and step family life that would put the Kardashian life to same. My family has so much drama, it is enough for a life time and most of the drama field people are still living. So I know there are other families who could start a show that would catch our attention more than the Kardashians because watching Bruce Jenner get a hearing aide is not cutting it. Enough is Enough and apparently the Kardashian's has to run out of things to do on television, except to actually perform a sex act in front of a camera. Lets do a Kardashian rehab show in which we have people come on and Dr. Drew gives them advice on why watching the Kardashian is now a thing of the past and why they have to start tuning out instead of tuning into them.

Dance Mom (Less Cathy Please!)

Okay I watch dance moms and I am a fan of the show and the reason that I am a fan of the show is because of Abby. Now I know a lot of you are really, why does she like Abby. If you have been watching dance moms from the beginning than you would understand that the reason the show has been a success is because of the performance that Abby has had these group of girls to do and the way be which she goes by training these girls. I think the best part of the show is the performance that Abby gets these girls to do and I will have to say, they are some great performance. One that really sticks with me is the one in which the young girls did a text and driving performance and what could happen in this case. It was so heartfelt and it really had me at home crying. Now lately I have notice that dance moms have been focusing on Cathy and the apple cores, as they call them. I am not at all a fan of Cathy because first of all I think she is phony and I personally would like to know her background in dancing, that makes her such and expert. I have never seen Cathy actually teach her students anything, she always hire people to teach. So why would someone who knows nothing about dancing get on a show about dancing just to tease another woman who has had dancing as a part of her entire life. Abby mother was a dancer and dance instructor so only does it make since that she is in the field of dancing. Cathy stands to the side and just hope that the people she hired will train her students to wind competitions and she can get bragging rights for something in which she has no part of, accept to pay the instructors to make her look good. I admire Abby more than I do Cathy and I do not like Cathy or her dance parents attitude towards Abby's group of students and parents. I have notice that the show is giving Cathy and her parents more air time and I do not agree with it. I would rather the show focus on another group of students and parents from Abby's group rather than put Cathy in the fore front. Why put someone in the fore front who does not strive to do what they are there to do and that is the best performance ever. Abby may argue with the parents and students but she only do this because she expects the best and she gets the best because of this. Lets cut back Cathy and focus back on Abby and some of her parents.

Shout out to Jay-Z

I am not a big fan of Jay-Z and I have only heard his music maybe twice but I watch part of an show in which he talks about the fear of raising his daughter and how not having his father in his life may affect this. I watched Jay-Z really get choked up as he talked about how he was not sure if he was treating his wife and daughter the way he should be treating them based on a male figure in his life, because he was not sure, since he did not have his Father in his life to teach or to watch how he treated a women. I was really touched by the small episode I saw and I wanted reassure Jay-Z that he has nothing to worry about. I think a lot of people think because they did not have a certain parent in their lives than they really missed out. It is true that having both parents in your life can be beneficial but you have to understand that you maybe who you are because that parent was not there. You may have decided to be a strong male figure because you did not have that strong male figure in your life or you may decide to be that great up standing women because you did not have that women figure in your life. Jay-Z you also have to remember that if your father was not there, it may have been a good thing. If he decided not to be in your life, this may be because he was not that strong male figure. Your father may have been one who was a bad example, a so call man who hit on woman or hit on his children. If he decided that he could not be there than maybe and this is where God come into play, maybe it was a good thing. Maybe you are that strong figure because you saw it on tv that of which a real strong male figure should be and not in reality of what a male figure should not be like. I am a female and I grew up without a male figure in my life as well and Jay-Z I want to tell you that yeah it hurt as I became a teenager and I watched my friends with their father but I also saw some of my friends with fathers that were alcoholics and I sad to say I had one friend that had a father that touched her in ways a father should not touch a daughter. What I realized as I was growing and thinking about a father was that I would not make the mistake that was made in my life and if I was to have daughters, I would make sure I choose a man who I saw would not only help me raise a child but a beautiful women inside and out. Jay-Z I will give you the advice that has been given down through the years and that is to raise a daughter will thrive through life than you have to treat her mother with respect. My husband was thirty seven years old when we had our child and he knew nothing of raising a child, he was nervous and I saw a look of his face of dismay but as the years went along and my husband help me help our child grow, that extinct that everyone talks about that kicks in for a mother, kicks in for a father too. My husband began raising our daughter as though he had been doing it for years and I can tell you this Jay-Z you don't have to worry if you are doing it right but just know the fact that you being there for your daughter is enough for her and don't worry she will let you know what to do. Your daughter will guide you every step of the way, she will let you know when she wants a hug, she will let you know when she wants you to wipe her tears, she will let you know when she wants you to hold her hand and she will let you know when you can let go of her hand, the biggest thing you can do for your daughter is be there when she needs it. No matter what happens with your relationship with your wife, just be there for your daughter. My husband and my daughter has such a tight bond that I find myself getting jealous at times, but then I think God he is in her life anytime she needs it and Jay-Z I know you will be there for Blue as well. My daughter is now 18 and will be going into the air force in August and my husband knows it is time to let go of her hand, they have really been spending a lot of time together before she leaves and he told me that he has done all that he can do and my response was 'the job you have done will never end, you have planted that seed and she has listened, now believe in God that the seed you planted will continue to grow into that beautiful beautiful flower. Plant that seed Jay-Z and watch it grow, don't worry that your father not being in your life will affect how you raise your child because the feeling that you feel while you watch Blue grow will tell you the job you are doing is right and like I said she will let you know as well.

What Do We Call People, Who?

Tell you the truth I really did not know what to title this thought that was on my mind, but I had some time on my hands and I began thinking about differents things and one of those things were about some people I know. I wanted to know what do you call people who live in their own fantasy world, I know what your thinking, crazy right. But I am not talking about person whom you would label crazy or who have been labeled by a doctor with some form a personality disorder, what I am talking about is people who may be your co-worker or even a sibiling which you may see on a daily basis who is functioning in our world. Let me began by explaining some of the issues I have encountered. With one inpertercular person I began knowing this person seemed personable, but as time went along I notice that this person was one who was a little different. They talked about their childhood and I realized they grew up poor as I did, no big deal and they overcome as I have did by working very hard, but as more time went along I guess you would say I started to notice that this person, who grew up poor must have had a very hard time with it. The more money this person made I notice the more money this person began to spend, I found out that this person has never travel anywhere but to a beach maybe a state away, again no big deal but once this person listen to others talked about different places they travel this person went on a cruise for the first time and began talking like they were an international traveler. I listen to this person brag to people about jumping on a plane at anytime  and traveling anywhere in the world. The cruise was the first time this person had been on a boat and on a plane. This person first time physically going out the country was on that cruise ship. I never said anything to this person I only listen to their lies get bigger and become different with each person they talked to. This person I learned told a story to different people based on the person they were talking to. I began thinking it was funny but then I thought the person was really said in a way. Everything anyone did the person always had to have a story of doing something similar that was a little bigger than the other person adventure. There was an incident in which one person brought food to give people to try and the people brag on how great the food was the person cooked, so this person, who I do not know what to call began bringing in food as well and wanted to get that same praise from people about their food. This person never congraulated others when they received anything as far as a reward in a great job or some kind of achievement, they only tried to match the person acheivement and if they failed at it, they made remarks putting the acheivement the person received down. I also know persons who has sibiling and whatever they do their sibiling tries to out do them, now some people would say this is sibiling rivalry but it is much more to it than that, because this sibiling take any chance to tare this other sibiling down andif someone talks bad about their sibiling, instead of defending the sibiling the other sibiling will go along with the person and then add to it by telling things that are not true to the person. I have not figured out what to call these people so that is why it is title so. There are many more that I could go on about but these are too small examples. I do not know if these persons are lost in this world, can not find there place and are jealous of people whom they see as having found there way so that is why they try and tare them down. I myself believe if you walk with the lord you walk in great steps. These people who pretend, do so because they have no path or have not choosen a path to walk in and seem to be having some serious problems in finding their way. I always choose to believe there is hope for those who seem hopeless but I have watched the first person I mentioned dig a deeper and deeper ditch for themselves. They had to me put on a persona that they are God and nothing they do is wrong, they do not see the deeds  they have performed that are right down malicious at time as bad, they can only see other people and their bad deeds. What do you call someone like this and when they act this, what do you say. Most people choose to say nothing and said they will hang themselves eventually, but it i right down crazy to watch this person at work. I have often was I watching the devil and was this a example from God that this is what I should not follow in life or maybe I should try and help this person understand their path. Anyway for now I will stay clear, watch and pray that this person find their way.

Real Husband of Hollywood(Really!!!)

Okay come on, has anyone watched the real husbands of hollywood because I have and I just do not get it. I know the men made this show up as a funny side to the real ex-wives of hollywood doing their real reality shows. But come on really we should understand that the ex wives of some hollywood husbands had to vent about their marriage to these ex hollywood men and why not vent and make money at the same time. Why not let some people of the world, like me, who are really interested know what went on in their married lives with these hollywood men. I think it is great that they are letting people know that marriages, especially those of hollywood are not easy. Marriage is hardwork and often to many times people look at these hollywood marriges as being perfect or these fake movies that shows these perfect marriage as real marriages. I know the men just are sore that the women actually went on television and told some insite on being married to a hollywood personality but let it go men. Let the women have their time and let them do their show, don't counter act by doing a show that makes fun of the show the women are doing, just to make a point that these reality shows are stupid. For me these shows are not stupid, but I think your show Real Husbands of Hollywood is stupid and there is nothing funny about it. I looked at the show a few times because I did not want to judge it on the first show but out of each of these few times I could not find anything entertaining about the show. I don't get the entire point and I am trying to understand, why the men would even make a show like this other than they thought they themselves could make money off what reality shows are doing, but for me reality shows are alot more entertaining then this show and the bad part about it most of the reality show persons are not top actors like the husband of hollywood men suppose to be. What does it mean when unknown reality stars entertain better than real actors entertain. I personally think this show should just go west some where and keep going. I am on the East coast and I could care less if the show gets lost in Bermuda Triangle. I am being told the show is a number one show, I am hoping it is a joke but if not, I think it should be on the funny pages and the title should be the clowns of hollywood. I have to give this show a thumbs down, although some of the actors I do like, unlike most of the people out there I am not a Kevin Hart fan at all, I just don't see the funny, just the over loudness, rudeness and just right down in the way. He is like a fly who you want to swat but you can't seem to get rid of him. Anyway Kevin I am sure you are a okay human being in person but as for television, you are a little to loud to me, tone it down, yelling does not always get people attention, sometimes silent is golden.

America Got Talent

This blog is a personal note for my family memeber, I have always been a fan of the show America Got Talent and recently the VSU choir along with my cousin Bernard Walker sang a gospel song with of course a little twist to it and they made it to Vegas. I have always been proud of my cousin because he has one of the greatest voice I have every heard come out of a person and he has always and I mean always understood that this is a gift that God has bestowed on him and he knows how and why he should use it. While watching them same and listening to the judges make comments about the choir, I really was brought to tears when Howie said the choir was very lucky to have Bernard with their group and they are. Melvin is a singer and the group, as me and the rest of the family already knew is very luck to have him with them. I will continue to follow the show and its entirety for the remaining of this season, rather the choir goes on or not but I have to ask me supporters to watch the show and support the VSU choir and Melvin and help them to go as far as God will let them go. They are all a great group of people, with God in their hearts and they sang from a place that he has put them. Something I know hard for some people to understand but you will understand if you follow the show and listen to them sing, it is a spirit that comes over you that will be understood by many, why they were put on the show to share it. Please help me and my family support VSU choir on America Got Talent. And as a shout out to Bernard Walker(who we call Melvin), we are here for you we are praying for you and we believe in you. Go Melvin.

Paula Dean

Paula Paula Paula, what can I not say about Paula Dean. She said what she said and she does not have any empathy for what was said. I saw the interviews she have done and have not a tear have ran down those juicy cheeks. I am a what you call a person of color as I like to say because I am far from black, but what Paula said and how she calls herself apologizing was a joke too me and others of color. What I notice is most news persons who talk about Paula's heart felt apology, shall I dare say are whites, and they talk about how very heart warming and tear felt was Paula's apology. Well from a person of color let me give my opinion. I felt her apology was a very bad acting job and whomever her coach was she should fire them, because we of people of color had to put up with all kinds of racism and we have had people apologize for it after the fact, some are apologies that we will usually say okay we accept that as a sorry will not do it again and some we just say, I really could understand it was a slip up and this person was not thinking at the time. But Paula had plenty of time to think before she did her interviews and if she really was as sorry as she claims, why not give an interview right away and don't blame the people you made the comments about the ones at fault for you using the n-word. If you used the n-word than it was you who used the n-word, you are the owner of your own actions and words. No real women who is in their sixties should blame someone else for their actions or get their children and grandchildren to pled their case. A women in her sixties should stand on her own two feets, admit when she has really made a mistake, tell what she done was wrong and move on with her life. People talked about Martha Stewart when she went to jail for not telling on her sources, well I as a person of color and a women can say Martha Stewart stood on her own two feet, admitted when she was wrong and did her time instead of taking down others with her. Martha Stewart, in case you are not aware of her Paula Dean is a real women and you could take some notes from her. I personally think you Paula Dean should admit what you said and not dance around it and explain to America, especially people of color who have brought your products over the year, as to why what you said was wrong and why you will not accept this in your life anymore, because God is more powerful than any millions you may have and you will have to face him if you do not face us and explain why those pearly gates should open for you. As for the people who are defending Paula Dean, I am praying for you all because I do know it is better to forgive and believe me I have already forgiven her but you have to remember that defending ignorance is why it continues on.