The Real Housewives of Atlanta (#RHOA)

I did not write about the real housewives of Atlanta last week and I thought I would do a quick update of my opinion on what I thought of last Sunday's show. I watch Cynthia and Peter hunt for a new location for the bar one business, which they said the landlord had some issues he had to straighten out, that is their story and they are sticking to it, but me personally is not buying it, really I do not buy to much bull Peter ditches out. I am more and more becoming less of a fan of Peter because in my opinion Peter is one of those men that think man are first and women are second. He seems to think that he can do anything without Cynthia's knowledge because he is the man and she should never question him. All I have to say if my money is involved than hell I will question the man all I want. Cynthia, who is seeming to become more and more of an airhead to me, talked about bloggers and them talking about how Peter is spending her money, well Ms. Cynthia I as a blogger heard you and yes Peter is spending your money and that statement you made about we are married so my money is his money is bullsh**. Being a married woman and a woman who were in different relationships when I was young, I have learned that a man or any other significant other can screw your money and credit up. I have learned that if you do not keep things separate then you are asking to be screwed, especially when you have a man like Peter who is always spending the money without your knowledge, um hmm. I had one of those men when I was young and had to learn the hard way when my bank account was cleared out before I knew it. Now me and my husband have separate bank accounts, we made a decision on who pays what and he does not have access to my account neither do I have access to his account, it works out better for us and we like it this way. We do share some things or help each other out if needed but this way he has to actually come to me and ask me what he needs and I have to do the same thing. This way no one is surprised when the other goes dipping into your account without your knowledge or buying something you have not approved, oh it can be done and I have other friends who decided to do the same thing. I know of some women who will go through their husband accounts like water, so I have advised men to do this as well. I told one young man if his wife wants an account together, get one together but keep another account that you have to yourself that see can not access with the bulk of the money in it, this way if something goes wrong or she over spends on this account, then you are covered, think about it. So to me the bulk of this past episode focused on Cynthia for me because she was going with Peter to find a new location and she was overly excited that Peter actually was including her on the investment, I guess us bloggers do have a little pull in you guys opinion. Cynthia I as a woman do not dislike you, I as a woman just want you to protect yourself like Ms. Phadera, you have to be smart about it and think about you. As corny and as oddball Phadera can be, I say this because people consider me to be a Phadera, tough and stern and don't show others what I am going through so they call me odd. Phadera is very smart to protect herself and it showed when her husband went down for all this mess he was tied up in. By the way congratulation on your award Phadera, I am sure it is well deserved. As for the rest of the cast NeNe shrugging the new lady Claudia I can understand, if you are friends with someone else that makes jokes on me all the time, then yeah I would be leery of you. You know NeNe watches the previous episodes and she you along with Kenya joking on her so don't act stupid. Be your own person Claudia and NeNe might warm up to you it will take time, as a matter of fact I can see NeNe and Claudia being close, they have more in common than Kenya and Claudia. Now that girl that Kandi invited to the party that stated she dated Roger Bob when the Demetria was dating him was totally uncalled for, I wonder if Kandi set that up on purpose. I am finding myself starting to dislike Kandi more and more as the show goes along, it looks like she is trying to get in everyones business and stir the pot. Is this because everyone was down on her marriage with Todd, I still do not like the marriage myself and think she should do like MaMa Joyce say and put a spy on Todd when he goes out of town, I still think he is not to be trusted, but this is just my opinion.