Love & Marriage: Huntsville (OWN). What An Exceptional Reality Show To Date

 I know I have not written in a long time and I am being blocked, who knows why I am just little old me sitting at home writing my own opinion on things I see going on television. As I have a right to my opinion I am not threating anyone, just offering some sound advice and . Anyway I have to really talk up on this show Love and Marriage in Huntsville Alabama. I love this show because it brings so much to the screen, especially for us who are of color. It shows us how strong we are as people and couples can be even stronger. It is about real relationships with certain situations and how you these people personally handles it and it allow us to see ourselves in these people and make us question what would we do in this situation. I love how they are so real when it comes too telling their story. They bring to the table and I think because they want the television viewers perspective on how they see the situation and they are open to getting ideas as to rather they maybe handling the situation wrong or can handle it in a different direction. I just love, love, love that I can relate some much to this show and it is helping me to look for what I want in my next relationship. I lost my husband to death and I thought he was the strongest, bravest, smartest black man on this Earth and God created that man just for me and he may well have, but he also choose to take this man early out of my life which left me heartbroken and wondering what I would do or if I would get married again. It has been five years since my husband died and unfortunately I am learning of this very mean cruel world in a way I have never seen when it came to trying to date the men of today. I can't deal with these lazy, self centered, broke men who look for you to provide, wow. I pray and tell God am I doomed to not get married again, was my husband my great and only love. So I let God know if it is his will then let it be so, I will let him take the wheel as I let him do before. So watching this show I think a lot of my husband and know that these couples really have it made and although I think they know this I think they still struggle with the concept of how do we have it all and keep our marriages on track. Yes me an Joe had our problems but we had gotten to the point that life was too short for us to not work out anything and we made a promise to never go to bed angry, hash out our problems first then go to bed and make great love. We decided to do this and always put God first, and what a life we lived together and I am so happy that we did because who knew it would be short lived, but although short lived, we laugh, loved and cried together. Now I cry alone and watching the Love and Marriage group I can cry along and feel along with what these couples are going through and it really stirs up a lot of good memories believe it or not. I love this show and wish you are so much luck in the future.

Why, why Braxtons, Just explain why

Why have the Braxton Family values return with the same ratchet Tamar being that Tademon. This woman has not grown up at all and after doing Iyalna and acting as if she was so apologetic too her sisters, she turns around and said she did not like the show and she have not talk to some of her sisters since, wow, what a load of crap. Tamar is still Tamar and I think she will get even worse after having won big brother. She is making all issues everyone else's fault and that she is not to blame for anything. One thing I have learned as I became a grown woman is that I can not blame everything on everyone else, especially if I created a certain situation and if I created the situation it is better for me to have learn this and learn how to work on correcting it. I don't see Tamar accepting anything because she has a wall that says she is like Donald Trump, she did not do it, it was not her fault, she does nothing wrong and it is best for the rest of the world to accept this instead of my ego admitting that I am wrong at somethings, wow. Tamar ego is so big I don't see how anyone else stays in the room with her, or can at least fit in the room with her because it is so blown up. So here we go again with the same old Braxtons, Tamar getting away with acting so ugly towards others, and none her sisters having the balls to say so. I also am not feeling Miss Evelyn attitude either, yes Tamar gets her negative I don't care attitude from Miss Evelyn, now we all know why Miss Evelyn is not married, this woman need some deep rooted therapy, but of course being like that of Tamar, her attitude says she don't need any therapy and she said she never did need it. This woman was still holding on too that hatred with her ex that happen 40 years ago and still to this day can not face his wife and she said she does not need any help, wow, that is said Miss Evelyn. You know we like to say it is never to later for a person to change but when it comes to Miss Evelyn, it is too later she is stuck in her ways and is saying she will not budge or change her thinking or look at others opinion for nothing. Miss Evelyn said Iyalna was hard on Tamar, oh really, you mean your daughter with all the mouth that can call anyone out their name that always come to a meeting prepare to fight. Tamar needs the truth be told and stop faking the funk that she is overwhelming happy, if you guys keep pretending you don't she the big picture, you may find Tamar some where you never thought she would be. Tamar is already acting funny and doing weird things, this is a sign of something really going wrong in her life and all she does is walk away, she don't get help she latches out and walks away, only after she has put out some dirt on someone, which she finds funny. Laughing at someone else's expense is a sad way to make yourself happy.

Mama June(Why)

Why is Mama June still allowed to be on television????? Is this not a family show and she as a representation of family was caught with drugs in her vehicle and even after posting bail went to gamble, wow. You talk about double standards, it is almost expected of us to accept those of color privilege to be allowed to get away with unethical behavior. Mama June has proven over and over again by her actions that she is not a person that is a example for children or adults but yet, after her first show was cancelled because she was with a pedophile and then she gets a new show and along with this man she is allowed to be on this show, high half of the time and now it has been proven because she was caught with drugs but yet they said they will not cancel the show, so where is the ethics in this please tell me. Why is this woman's bad behavior allowed and why is she allowed to keep her television show, besides I don't see any substance to this show any way, other then the family acting as stupid as they did in the first show. Show where are the protesters against this this show. I guess they cancelled the first show because the Me2 movement would have came after her with that man who mess with little children. But guess what, she is still with a man who means no good, so where are the protestors, this woman is doing this in front of her child. She still has a underage honey boo boo in the house and yet the things like someone using drugs is allowed and we are going to watch this show knowing that this child is subject to someone who is using drugs around her and we are going to act like we never heard this, what the crap is that about. I still know it happen, I don't agree with having a drug user around a underage child and I stand firmly that this show should be cancelled and Mama June need some help and if you ask me she should have honey boo boo taken temporarily from her until she goes to rehab. Do this country not know if they allow things like this to go on they are destroying a privilege of a certain color, you bring people down when you allow them over and over again to get away with what they want, you are not helping them so if this culture disappear you have no one but yourself to blame.

The Real Lone Ranger (Can We Say Bass Reeves)

This is something I found out a while back but for someone reason I never talked about it. I ran into a black cowboy, which I never knew existed so after talking to this man I was told to do my research and I did and all I could say was wow. Do you know how much of a history African Americans have in our the American culture. I did not realize how many blacks became cowboys and how they change the history of American in a lot of westerns states. Why did I not know this before, because as in America, the white Americans does not want the blacks to know how much of a difference we made to this country. How we as Black Americans help to shape, mold and help with some of this country issues. Now with this being said, I was so excited about the Lone Ranger movie that was coming out with Johnny Depp playing Tonto. Now being excited to see the Long Ranger movie because I was a cowboy television buff, thinking nothing of no one of color were in these television shows or movie, but I loved it anyway because it was good tv. So meeting with this cowboy and him telling me how he was disappointed that in today's society they still will not admit to truth and have white Americans playing the Lone Ranger and now Tonto made him disappointed and he was not going to watch the movie. Do you know my surprise when he told me this and I wanted to know what he meant by the Lone Ranger, well because I knew that Tonto was suppose to be a Native American but the Lone Ranger, what was his real nationality and I was told to do my research. Well I did and too my surprise I learned that the real Lone Ranger was a free black man, who was made a US Marshall by a hanging judge to help clean the state of Oklahoma because it was so overrun by outlaws who sort this state to hide out in. Yes Bass Reeves was the real Lone Ranger and I am so proud to admit that he was a bad ass. Bass Reeves lived among the Native Americans, he rode out with a wagon, a Indian tracker and on his white horse. He left out gold coins as his calling cards and in his 32 years as a Marshall he was never shot. This hanging judge looked at this man Bass Reeves as the best lawman by far. Now knowing this and reading on all the fabulous African Americans that were cowboys that contributed to and also there were some that were outlaws to the western history, it makes me wonder. Why have not any producer or writer taken on the challenge of doing the real Lone Ranger Movie that tells the story of Bass Reeves, or even just have a Lone Ranger movie with the black man as the Lone Ranger, since we know the real lone ranger was a black man. I can see this movie being great. I think that should also use a real Indian who knows of his heritage to actually play Tonto. I can see this movie being one that is great and can be made great if done right. This movie will bring about people of color in grooves, using the significance of the movie and how Bass Reeves life was special. Please someone tackle this movie and I personally will help you promote it, I know I don't have much power, but I have a voice, a church family and a community. Lets do this lets tackle Bass Reeves life story and give this man who was a U.S. Marshall for 32 years he do justice, he deserves to be known in America for what he did as his part to clean up this country's outlaws that got out of control at one point.

The Cartel Crew televison series

What can I say about this new reality show Cartel Crew. I know, it sucks. Yes this is the worst reality show I have seen to date and it is not because most of the people are of Spanish decent, but it is because they just suck. Most of these reality show person on this show, we do not know but they claim to all be generations of family members of people who once ran the biggest cartel that brought the most drugs into the United States, yes you heard me right, these people are proud to be the heritage of drugs dealers who filled this country with drugs, what the hell. Now all these people, and I keep saying peoples because I don't know none of them and I am not sure what relevance they have, if any. So they are suppose to be big in the Florida area, most of Miami I guess I watch the show and still is not sure and from watching I know most of the women dress half naked, the men are like most Spanish men, woman take a backseat to their needs and they handle the children and let the men do want the hell ever they please. Did I say this show sucks. I watch the women with more botch in their asses and lips then the white women. Their asses are over the top, their lips are about to pop and I find it very hard even watching them. There seem to be no real storyline behind any of these women, I am not sure where they are going and the only thing I can see is that they are just a reality show for the Hispanic community that really must care about some old cartel that was suppose to be the hottest thing in America in the day. Are there such things as the cartel, maybe but would they actually get on television letting law enforcement know this or know that they are part of these activities, hell no. So this show does not have anything to stand on because the cartel is dead, well under that cartel name now and these group of persons are not part of or affiliated with this group, but if they are they are some dumb a$$ for putting it out there on television. So what am I getting from this show, I watched it two times and what I get from it is a bunch of fake asses, who is trying to make this show something it is not and the women are starting by coming out fighting thinking maybe this will roll in the watchers and they will be able to come on another season. Well if they make it for another season, I am happy for them and if they don't I will not know because I can tell you now that this show is not for me and I will not be watching any more episodes because as I said over and over again, this cartel show sucks. I am not sure how else to explain it. I am watching naked women walk around talking about how their family ran things. The men are being men, but these men are talking about absolutely nothing, wow. Stick a folk in me because I am done with this show.

90 Day Fiance (I can't Do this with these Grown Dependent Children)

Okay is it me or is it just how this world and the young people think so backwards these days. I am talking about Eric's who is engaged to Leida and his daughter whom was living off her daddy in his house with a nasty a** room. Eric's daughter trying not to find a job and she just live under her daddy's roof with no effort to even try and keep the house clean and what is everyone saying, how could he kick his daughter out. My question is when was he planning on kicking his daughter out, how long was she planning to mooch off on her daddy because as long as he let her stay free, she seems like the type of girl who was going to continue this because she had no conscious and she was just nasty in the way she was she kept the house. Dag if she was staying free and had not job, why was it okay for her not to at least keep the house clean, why was she allowed to live under her daddy's roof free as a grown woman with no attention on doing anything, when did this become okay and when did grown children start wanting to stay in their parents house because I could not wait to be an adult and get out my parents house. This lead me to thinking that if I wanted to get out I would get a job and keep it. But kids today think it is all a free ride, they don't give a dam* about their parents because at some point your parents should be able to have their privacy to live their lives and be happy. Children were not meant to stay with their parents forever, but yet I saw someone on facebook saying that parents should let their children stay in their houses as long as they need to get themselves together because they did not ask to be here, wow. So your child becomes an adult they have their health, all their limbs work fine, they are capable of getting a job, but someone thinks that these grown ass people, who want to live in your house and be able to do whatever they want and call themselves adults and do adult things in your house and yet you are suppose to support them and their habit, this is the biggest joke I ever heard. What is this world coming too, we would be creating adults who would never do anything if this was the case, parents would be taking care of kids to their graves and then the kids would be looking for death insurance from their parents to help them after their parents die. No grown ass kids as a parent I am here to tell you, after raising you to adulthood I owe you nothing else and nothing is written that I have to leave you a will with money, nor do I have to need enough life insurance that will set you for life. All I need is enough life insurance to bury me, money for my retirement and you can go ahead and create your own future because nothing is written that I suppose to help your future be started off with lots of money so that you can just continue to sit on your "a", besides we are only enabling you when we do everything for you and not allow you too do anything for yourself, you have to remember your parent can drop dead tomorrow and what if anything can you do for yourself. You have to be able to stand on your own two feet, we as parents don't mind helping every now or then or when you really need it, but not a hand out or hand forever. Wow, please explain to me when this became okay. Eric should not feel guilty about having kicked his daughter out, he had to do something sooner or later or this girl would have stayed under her daddy forever, and from her attitude this is what she was planning on doing. If you asked my opinion this girl acted as if she was on drugs.

Marriage Boot Camp (Love & Hip Hop Addition)

Have anyone seen the marriage boot camp of the love and hip hop addition premier on Thursday night. I have to admit I was waiting for this addition because when I saw the cast they had lined up I was all in, these particular couple was ones that I actually was looking forward too discussing their relationships on air. Yes I know this sounds rather low to want to see others and how they handle their relationship on television, but that is not all it. This also involves celebrities whom I watch all the time on television and the show that they are usually on we do not get too see much of them because the show focuses on other individuals but here on boot camp we can get more into their relationships and get to see maybe why do some of these people stay in these relationships when we see how hostile their relationships are. Now I for one was really interested in Tammy and Waka flocka because I just heard as millions of people have, that Waka was caught again cheating on Tammy, how this Thot as they call them filmed herself going through trash can in bathroom to film a condemn he used, at least he used a condemn. Anyway, as much as these women know that their men our in a spotlight and these women will be coming after them and even thought they may accept this is some sort of weird way, especially as they know their man used condemns and they tell them that there is no feeling that goes with having sex with them, the fact that these men can just sleep with these women and tell their wife or significant other that men can just have sex but women who do this feeling gets involved, if that is the case what about the women they are sleeping with, they don't think these women would actually start having feeling or think that the sex they just had something meant something other then sex. Come on lets get real, they said that Waka use this same particular woman everytime he goes into that town to have sex with, why is that? Is it because he trust her, he actually trust a thot, you know a woman that he is just having sex with. So now my question is why is all this women accepting this from these men. When women accept this kind of behavior from men, it makes other men think it is acceptable and they all think it is okay and that women are suppose to go along with this non sense. I myself believe that their our men of God in tis world and there is more to a man that can buy me things because he makes all this money and got all this fame, does not mean he can buy me. I am a child or God and can not be brought by any man at any price. So you see and hear the hurt these women our dealing with when it comes to their significant others but then you hear of things like Souja boy friend, taking him back again and again for ten years, why is she allowing this, all I am seeing is the anger that she possessing building up more and more and this can become a dangerous situation. I see lil mo with a husband that she is making feel lower than any man should ever feel. What is lil mo with a man that she thinks is okay to be able to put up with her mouth that rips this man down. He is a man regardless and you should make him feel that way, if lilmo thinks because he cheated on her and she continues to stay with him and decides to forgive, then you need to forgive and not keep making this man feel low in her presence, and you wonder why he will keep cheating on you, let it go and walk away. All I can say is this is a addition that I will keep watching hoping to understand why women choose to stay in relationships as these, so I will keep watching and trying to learn, but knowing that it has to change. When it is all said and done we will get to say on the last episode who stayed with who, and who did what, for all them to stay in the same situation because they are not sure how to change. And by the way who is this Alex and Fizz combination, because Fizz was not in a relationship the last we saw on love and hip hop show and he seems to never be able to keep any woman for some reason. I do admire the way Fizz refuses to bring a lot of women around his son, he is teaching his son to be different and walk in a different path then he is walking and for that he has to be admired for because he is putting his child first.