Couples Therapy 2-20-14 (#CouplesTherapy)

Okay I watched couples therapy Thursday night and I have always liked the show, especially watching the couples, work through their problems. But on this past Thursday night episode I watched and there are still parts on this season that really confuses me and of course you know a big part of it is Farrah's part on this show. Dr. Berman continues to explain to us why Farrah is a essential part of this therapy and how she has manage to soldier through this therapy as a individual. I do not know what Farrah has on Dr. Berman but personally in my opinion it is all bullsh** and Dr. Berman is keeping Farrah as a part of ratings. Jon Gosselin was so upset because Dr. Berman and the rest of the couples said they did not think Jon and his girlfriend Liz was a great fit. First let me began by telling you that Dr. Berman thought it would be a great idea to bring in a company and have them do one of those compatibility test with the couples to see if they were a fit or not. Of course the test said that Kelsey and Ghostface was not a match, surprise right since they have already decided to part ways, now as for Whitney and Sada, perfect fit of course and Taylor and John another perfect fit. But when Jon and Liz results came up it was incompatible, so of course this upset the two of them because the love each other. Jon said that the test was all bullsh** and it is all about the reality television drama. Dr. Berman of course tried to stray Jon from believing this and said no way would she put her couples in such a situation and that the test was just for fun and does not mean that the couples really are not a match, yeah I was thinking the same thing, some more bullsh** out of Dr. Berman's mouth. I am sorry but I am calling Dr. Berman out because I think she is making a show production. She went around the room to have all the couples tell of bad situation to happen in their life when they were young. Taylor went first and she told of how her memory went back as far as two years old, with her mother being abused by her father, which a situation like this a two year old would remember, especially since she was in the bed with her mother when her daddy began beating her. Now it was Farrah turn and guess what Ms. Farrah said, she said her memory goes back as far as when she was two years old and it was her mother and father getting mad with her and telling her to go sit and a room, yeah very unbelievable on my part and I am going to tell you why. Farrah seems to plays off what other people are saying in the group, she never really seems to have a real situation or shall I say story of her own and she is always crying but no and I mean no tears every fall from her face, but she does keep tissue in her hand. I am not a fan of Farrah and everything she seems to say is a lie just to please Dr. Berman or the group just so she can fit in. I believe that Farrah Abraham is a fraud and she goes to shows like this of couple therapy to get her own reality show and I think Dr. Berman knows that but keeps Farrah to keep her ratings up on the show, but I don't just blame Dr. Berman I blame the producers as well, it is all about money and if Farrah makes money for them why not keep her rather she has a significant other or not . If Dr. Berman was really honest about everything she would admit that Farrah needs therapy but not couples therapy she sticks out like a sore thumb. While the other couples did compatibility test, Farrah was given a dating web site to search or possible men to meet, what the hell. If Dr. Berman is trying to help Farrah why is she encouraging this young girl to go on dates. Farrah is a mess and she needs to work on the inside out before she can take on another relationship that will end up on a dead end because this girl does not know to work on her own personal issues. I hate saying this but I see Farrah as a Narcissist, a person who is only about themselves and feels that everything should go their way and their way only, very selfish girl. Dr. Berman had the nerve to bring this girl mother on the show and tried to bash her about Farrah issues, I am telling you I am lost. The only person I am beginning to think that have some sense is Kelsey, who has accepted the fact that Ghostface does not love her and she is deciding to move on, what is even more great is Kelsey who was very upset in the beginning has decided why be upset and stress herself out, she has decided to forgive Ghostface so she can have a better relationship with her next man. I have to say Kelsey has gotten a lot out of this couples therapy and that is what it is all about, Kelsey really got it. Now I have to admit I do not think Jon and Liz are a good fit. Liz seems to boss Jon around like Kate did, but then again maybe this is really the kind of woman that Jon likes, so why did he not just stay with Kate?

The Haves and The Have Nots 2-18-14 (#havesandhavenots)

We all know Tyler Perry can act, he is funny as h-e double hockey sticks, but when it comes to writing this man has taken it too an entire different level. I love all of Tyler Perry shows but after him doing this night time soap opera called the Have and the Have Not, I found myself falling back into love with soaps again. When daytime soaps began dwelling, like most people I got away from it and into reality shows. Now I have found reality shows being a bit on, shall I see shady side, all about money and how much money they can make from just being the rear end of a donkey. So for Mr. Perry to decide that he would write a night time soap opera, brings me back to a time when the night time Soap show use to come on and Mary Hartman, Mary Hartman. I know some of you are wondering what are these shows. These were night time soap operas that made you laugh of just gave you that little enjoyment from watching it. I for one am glad Tyler Perry is doing this show because it is bringing back some great memories. What is really great about this show is all the terrific actors they have on it. This people do not just act, they as we in say can perform. Although most people will say the character of Candace carry this show, I would not say this because every time you turn around each character has a stunning part that shows you what all these actors are made of. I am looking for all these actors to win awards for their character roles. If you have not seen this show I advise you to do so and soon, I think there is only two episodes left for the season. Believe you me you will be hooked after watching one time and you will see why I am so excited about this night time soap opera, I am almost thinking they should go to daytime, but I don't want that because then I would have to record every episode. But maybe Tyler and Opera could put the reruns of this show on in the daytime, this would be great. I don't want the show to go off for the season I want it to stay on year round like the other soap opera, because this is by far my favorite. Keep up the good writing Tyler Perry, we are watching.

Basketball Wives LA 2-17-14 (#BBWLA)

Okay I am watching basketball wives of LA return and I have to say I was really excited at the anticipation of the return of this show, especially since love and hip hop was off for the season. But as soon as the show came on the first question that popped into my head was where is Gloria and where is Laura? Now  I know the last time this show ended at the reunion it was a whole lot of mess going on and some of it was behind Gloria saying that if it was not for her there would not be a show, bad mistake I thought on her part, although it was really true. I liked Gloria and Laura on the show and I am sadly disappointed that they are no longer on the show. The entire show is beginning to be on a negative side for me because someone has decided that Jackie is the matriot of this show and why is this. Jackie is a joke to me and the last time this show had a season the reason it went haywire if you ask me is because Jackie screwed in up trying to be a twenty year old in a fifty year old body, and yes you read it right, her body looks fifty plus to me, my personal opinion people. As I watch this show return I see most of the new girls joining the show all being friends of Jackie and Jackie is trying to be this well spoken woman, who is understand of everyone ideas and opinion, can anyone say horse manure because I can spell it. By no means am I buying the Jackie the good witch act because I have never seen anything good about this woman before, and why is a woman who can not really get a real relationship with her own daughters worrying about other people daughters. Here me producers of Basketball Wives LA, I do not care how much new women you added, bringing Jackie back was a bad idea. I was glad to see Draya back because this young woman brings it, as for Malaysia for me she could have been cut out because she does not really want any drama, no fun at all she is rather boring, although her new friend seems to be bringing a little spice to the show. Lets talk of these new girls, there is Brittish who in my opinion is in that fairy tale world of her relationship right now. She says when she meet her man he was a whore and they have been through that phase of their life and everything is perfect for her now because they are so in love and is about to be married. So are you thinking what I am thinking, it is all cake and ice cream until that honeymoon is over because there will be a chapter two to this relationship which has just started.  Brandi who is a friend of Malaysia is a cancer survivor and had a rather sad story but don't let this woman fool you she is a firecracker and then some, she do not mind asking a person a very personal question, although you could take this as someone who will ask you to your fact instead of talking behind your back. Sundy was one of those woman that I did not know how to take at all, other than she revel something very private details of her life and the others wanted to know of it, really awkward but she handle it well. Now She Media although I am glad you brought the show back and you have added some very interesting ladies, I am still in disagreement of you getting rid of Gloria and Laura and keeping Jackie and Malaysia, can you possibly flip flop this set. It is not a slam dump in my persona opinion as some say with Jackie still in the ram, especially since this woman is older and her husband has not played in a while, so why is she still trying to hand around these young girls, be around women your own age and talk about the joys of your grandchildren. Sorry I know it sounds sexiest and it is, she keeps talking of having repaired her relationship with her daughters now she should get off the show and work on it like she really means it.

90 Day Fiance 2-16-14 (#90dayfiance)

I am watching 90 day fiancé and some the couples are very close to getting married. First at the alter is Kirlyam and Alan, now this girl seems to genuinely loves Alan but I am still not to sure about Alan and his real reason for doing this. Their wedding was quick and simple, which nothing is wrong with that at all, but this girl is still so young to be marrying and this still worries me. It was funny to hear Kirlyam be questioned about her sexual tension with Alan, especially since this will be her first time, she was so cute and said she is not sure what to do, but listening to Alan who is twenty nine, neither does he. Alan a virgin, now this wedding night will be interesting, what do they say the blind leading he blind, I am sorry but I do not see this marriage lasting, especially if Kirlyam sleeps with someone else who does know what he is doing. Now for as for Aya and Louis that ex-wife is something else and she is always staying in the two of them business but I must say that Louis ex-wife on tonight show did give some good advice to Aya and she did make Aya feel comfortable by telling her that she knew how it was to be with Louis and his homebody ways. I am not sure if Aziza and Mike will make it, there is just to much things that are unsure as to what direction they are really going in ad Aziza is so hard to read so you do not know what she is thinking. Paola and Russ the two couple that I thought would make it out of all the couples are really having some real issues. Paola wants so much of Russ time and Russ has a job that he has to travel and this is not at all making Paola happy because she says it is interfering with their wedding plans, Paola is truly a spoil brat and Russ has something on his hands with this girl. If you ask me of any of the potential brides that is mostly likely to step out, I would say Paola because when Russ is not around to play Paola will step away, yes I see this happening and I am wondering if Russ is having thoughts of distrust leaving this woman alone because she is something else. Well the finale is next week and we get to see who will and will not make that real commitment, although we know that Kirlyam and Alan has already made this jump, now what about the sexual part of their relationship, it will be interesting.

The Real Housewives of Atlanta 2-16-14 (#RHOA)

Did anyone see the real housewives of Atlanta tonight because I did and I am going to sum up my opinion on what happen. First we will began with Kandi and her so called friend Cameron coming to Kandi to tell her about the conversation she and Kandi's mom had between them and not only that Cameron added to the situation by telling Kandi that her mother plotted a scheme to set up Todd, now for all you who wanted to know what a ratchet person look like, let me tell you to look at Kandi's so called best friend and you are looking at pure ratchetness. Anyone who calls you their best friend what not have bother you with coming to you with stories of something your mother did. If you ask me Cameron wants Kandi to break up with Todd because it is seeming more and more as if she wants Todd for herself, why would she bother Kandi with all this bullsh**. What was even worse was that Kandi felt compel to tell Todd because of course he would find out anyway. So when Kandi tells Todd what do he do, he tells Kandi to call Cameron down to where they are at and the both of them jump Kandi about handling her mother situation and what is even worse, Todd called mama Joyce the b-word, now Todd is definitely on my sh** list and if you ask hell yeah with what I saw Cameron and Todd do tonight both in Kandi ear talking bad about her mother, the two of them are doing something together. Why else would Todd tell Kandi to call Cameron to be in on a conversation that Todd as a man should have just had with his woman. Todd also threaten to leave Kandi if she does not get her mother straight, what a ultimatum to make. But I have to say bravo to Kandi because she stuck to her guns a like she said, a man can come and go but your mom will be your mom for life and boy is she right. Rather you like it or not Todd if Kandi mom died tomorrow she will never get that time back with her she lost if she cuts her mother out her life and no man should ask a woman to cut their mother out their life, Todd you are an idiot and you and Cameron belong together. Kandi there are other man out there that would be a better fit for you. Now moving on to this situation with Kenya and Nene. Supposedly Kenya was had some charity event, which was a great idea but this charity even was something that Nene supports. Kenya said it was suppose to be a tribute to Nene for her charity but see did not pick up the phone and call Nene personally to tell her this. She said she sent an email to all the girls and that was it, but do you  not think if Kenya wanted to do a tribute for Nene or wanted Nene to talk at the fund raiser that she would have told Nene more of the event and her part in it. I have to say that I am with Nene on this one, it was something fishy in the water as to why Kenya did this. I have notice that Kenya has become this very clever and cunning woman and she is quick to make things turn around to her advantage and that is why I think she came up with this charity event at the last minute. I think Kenya, who really if you ask me does not have a real true part on this show, never ever having been married, is trying to fight to keep herself on the show, especially since she notice a lot of the women not feeling her. I for one am not feeling Kenya because I think she is just on the show to start trouble with the girls and their friends and if you ask me if the show decided they would have someone like Kenya who has never been married on the show, why did they not keep Marlo? I am one for Kenya, who can't show her alleged boyfriend on the show go and Marlo come back. Kenya is getting paid a lot of money to do what she has been doing for years and that is act, that is why I think Walter was someone Kenya used as a pawn to be part of the show and their entire relationship was a scene just for her to get her foot in the door, a big joke, just like Kenya. Please let this woman who is getting paid a fair amount of money go to some other show and bring someone with a real husband or boyfriend. To many ratchet people like Cameron and Kenya on the housewives.

The Walking Dead 2-16-14 (#TheWalkingDead)

Okay I am loving the walking dead writers tonight although I have always loved them, but they have taken this series to a entire different level. There is so many twist and turns to how everyone made it out that I never seen coming and to put the icing on the cake, they brought Carroll back, oh yeah I was so glad to see Carroll and she showed up at the perfect time of course. Oh and what about the baby, how many of you saw Tyreese ending up with the baby. I personally though Glenn and the baby were on the bus but was I ever wrong. I was a little disappointed that they did not tune back into Rick and Carl meeting face to face with Michonne but I quickly got over it when Beth and Daryl showed up on the screen and I realized they were going to show us what happen to everyone once leaving the prison, great idea. I am so glad that they brought Carroll back into the group of a friendly basis, without Tyreese knowledge of what she did, Carroll has always been a great part of the group and I am so glad she is back to help with some of the future challenges I see the group facing, especially after Glenn and the other girl ran into this almost military para group who watch them fight of the walkers by themselves I guess as a test to see if they could fight. Watching upcoming episodes seems like the new villain will be this military group, apparently they are up to no good, as usual of course. Why can't these human beings just get along, oh then we would not have such a great show to watch or have the pleasure of guessing which one of these great actors will be killed off in up coming episodes. Anyway I am definitely watching as millions of others, I do feel for the other shows who have choose the same time slot as the walking dead, what were they thinking? My future wish, to be a writer for a day on the walking dead, only if.

Growing sensation future Gospel Singers

I usually don't promote many things but I have watched a family that is friends on my facebook posts videos of there sons of the last few years singing as they do in their church. These boys have been singing since they were little together and now I would say they almost have there act together. They know when to just let the other sing, when to chime in and how to move to their own beat, they are so cute, especially having watched them over the years. I got to see them sing as they eat ice cream, and do other cute things all at the same time, this is just priceless. Take a look and tell me what you think.  Young Gospel Singers on the rise or what?




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