Braxton Family Values 1-9-14 (#BFV)

I was busy the past week and did not to get the chance to write on a lot of my shows this past week and this was one of them. Braxton Family Values returned and it was still the explosion between Tamar and Towanda. Tamar seems to think it is all about her and she feels that she has blown up but that none of her sister is supporting or is happy for her success. In my opinion what I see is that Tamar, who already had a big head, head has grown bigger. Tamar has seen the light to what she calls her solo career and she feels that she is doing more than any of the other sister but she don't have them pushing her own, when in reality all the sisters are successful and they all have very busy lives. Toni said it is their fault because Tamar was the baby they spoiled her and now she wants this to continue on. All the sisters agree that they have gotten away from the close sisterhood they use to have with talking on the phone everyday, but for me this is understandable, especially when all your lives get so busy as these girls lives have. Tamar is just acting like a brat if you ask me and what does she care, she and Vince have their own show and she has a baby now , so with her singing and solo reality show career, she should be too busy herself to worry rather her sister are there or not. If you ask me Tamar wants more support because she is seeing some of the negative things been written about her and I am sure it hurts, family can sometimes make it better. I for one, and I am sorry Tamar but I write what I feel or what I see through my eyes and for me you are not a singer or performer. You do not have a voice, that Whitney Houston said was so great, I personally would not pay money to see your concert. I understand that the sisters say they have to get that close bond back, have a one real get together every month, all the sisters, you can pick a different state to go to and get to know that states history while having fun and really talk about your issues or things you went through the past last month. Now you all have to attend not exceptions and if one sister can not make it none of you go. You all have busy lives so once a month will do fun this bonding trip.

Finding Bigfoot

Look I not even going to write the hash tag for this show or give it a date. I just wanted to write about this show because I was surfing the channels tonight and I notice that it was still on, it had 2014 listed for the show that was playing. I can not believe that with all the reality shows that are coming on or all the different things in the world, that no one can come up with something better than finding bigfoot and I can not believe that people are watching a show after this long with no proof of this so called bigfoot. Show like this is why I title my blog as I did and I put the message that I did on my site. We as Americans are apparently as stupid as we appear, especially if we believe this bigfoot reality show and with all the technology we have in this world today, no one can get a real picture of this bigfoot. So they are telling me that this creature, monster or what every you call it can out smart all these hunters in the woods every night, even with infer red cameras. I am not believing it, like I said we have to much technology for no one to be able to get a closer picture of this creature than they have or actually have captured on of these creatures. For all of you who do not know, bigfoot does not exist and the only way that you can prove to me he does, is to bring forth that creature for the entire world to see. How stupid are we Americans to justify this show continuing to be on the air, with men in hunting suits walking around in the dark, saying did you hear that, did you see that, and each and every time, guess what, there is no bigfoot. All the people is watching is a show of men I guess pretending to be hunting for something. I guess if you are in this kind of thing it is okay, but please can you find something a little more entertaining. Hell give me a reality show, my life is more interesting then these men walking around the woods looking crazy at night. Do some of us a favor, cancel the show and stop giving those idiots who keep watching it hope that you will one day find something that is not really there. There is nothing worse to me than giving people false hope and that is what this show is selling.

90 Day Fiance 1-12-14 (#90DayFiance)

Did anyone look at this 90 fiancé show tonight, well I did any you may ask why. The why for me is that I am a open person and I like to write about things that I watch, I am willing to give any show a chance and that is what I do. Now this first episode we were introduce to all the women and the country they are from. Last night episode was interesting and I will have to say it was a little easy to tell which women wanted to be their to come to the United States and which ones really seem to care for the guy. Now everyone has to remember these are my opinions and my opinions only now for me personally I really liked the girl name Paola from Colombia, she seemed to me to genuinely met Russ and felt something for him. She does not seem to need anything for this woman seems to have had it made in her country Colombia and she carries herself as a real girly, girl and the woman can dress. She does not seemed to have wanted for anything from the clothing and shoes she own. Paola is a outgoing woman who seem to want to have a fiance and have fun, she is twenty six and Russ is twenty seven, perfect age for the two of them to be marry and have children. Another possible bride from Brazil is Kirlyam, now she seems to have interest in him and she met him why he was in Brazil. With this situation Kirlyam does live in a poor part of Brazil but it is not like she has to leave because she has place and family besides she is beautiful. What I think is that she will get to learn Alan more and he is a little strange to me. I know Alan is a Mormon but he seems to maybe have some kind of agenda with this young girl, it almost makes me think he may be looking into the plural marriage thing. It is something about Alan I do not like and one of them that I can pin point right away is that he is showing tendency of jealousy for a man just kissing Kirlyam hand, this is all the man did and it was in fun, that is a red flag if I ever seen one. I hope if Kirlyam does choose to marry this man she does not end up locked up in a basement later on, just saying, but if you ask my opinion that marriage may not happen. Now for the woman from Russia named Aziza, she is definitely in my opinion there to become a United States citizen. She met this guy Mike on a learning site, yes a learning site of all things and she said she fell in love with him, yes that is what she says as a twenty one year old student. You can already tell this girl is not happy, she seems almost afraid, it is not love as she does not look at the camera directly when she talks of her relationship with him, it is so unreal. I have to say I will continue to watch the show to find out who does get married and who do not. I also will be watching to meet other couples that has not been introduce as of yet. I am hoping that this is one of those shows that will have a reunion after the last episode because this will definitely be interesting to know what happens after the season ends.

The Real Housewives of Atlanta 1-12-14 (#RHOA)

Okay last night episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta was rather busy and what I mean by this is that it was all over the place and we got to see what was on everyone minds. We started with Kenya dad coming to town, a real Texas man who does not believe in women telling him what to do, I can almost guest that he is single. I was glad to see that Kenya dad did visit her and I was glad to get to understand a little of the story behind him and Kenya mom and that was they were sixteen, she got pregnant, it was the seventies and she wanted to keep it a secret, what she meant by a secret I do not know, but Kenya dad said he was not going along with it, I wish we could meet this woman. We Cynthia's sister Mal talk with Peter on their disagreement and why it happen, in all it was understood between Cynthia and Peter that it had nothing to do with Mal but what is going on in their lives. We got to see Phadera go to Kandi's house and fill her in on the discussion between her and Chuck, and of course Kandi and Phadera joke on this man's private area, you know like women do when they are mad at someone, now you all know we always go there because that hurts a man most. We also got to see Phadera and Kandi go to Porsha's new house that everyone is in agreement that she can not afford, but Porsha chooses to not believe everyone else, just in herself, I know how funny is that without a job prospect in site. We also got to see Phadera's son Mr. President spit up on Porsha, now I have one question, did Phadera really name this boy that, I thought it was a nickname and where is Apollo lately? It was funny how Nene and Cynthia went to visit Kenya and she put them to work, help painting her house, okay I did not see any real painting going on. Another question in my mind is when will we meet Kenya's new boyfriend? Now the highlight of the entire episode was when Cynthia had Mal a jewelry party and invited her friends, all her friends came and may I point out early too. The funniest thing about the party for me on last night episode was when Phadera, who is suppose to keep Porsha's house a secret and where she lives from Nene, this is because Porsha moved in Nene's neighborhood and did not tell her, call her or anything. Where Ms. Phadera opened her big mouth and told Kenya of all people, knowing that Kenya would run to Nene with this news and that is exactly what happen. Now the funny part was how Kandi, ran to Porsha and told her that I did not tell it was them, Kandi was acting like she was in grade school and had to make sure se ran to Porsha to tell her she had nothing to do with it. Kandi is a funny woman at times to me and she has some very weird ways, instead of her being happy that Phadera and Nene got closer, she acts as if it is a problem when both of these women are from the same town. Why would any woman hate on other women getting together and being friends, Kandi is real petty if you ask me. I guess this is why Kandi relationship is in a turmoil, she is so judgmental of others she can not get her own house in order. Todd who was suppose to be helping Kandi work on his play backed out because he said he has another interview with some big agent in New York, I am not sure how many interviews this man is going on or how many times he has went out of town for job interviews, but it all sounds fishy to me. Why can he not find a job in a big booming production state like Georgia, I just don't get it? Now Nene who is upset Porsha told her nothing read Porsha up and down and continues to say she is not a friend. I am not sure what is the problem Porsha seems to have with Nene but she does have a problem with her and you can tell this because Porsha is around the corner from the woman and invited Kandi and Phadera over but not Nene, interesting. I am like Nene I notice Porsha leaves her out on a lot of things involving her and it is not clear why, I do not know if it is Nene's relationship with Kenya has anything to do with this. Anyway tonight show was good, there was not too much drama, other than I like the way Mal read Kenya, Kenya has a big mouth and usually tries to talk over people but Mal definitely let Kenya know where she stands. I think they should have made Mal a permanent part of the show, although I know she has that basketball husband who plays overseas that wants sex two and three times a day, so why would she leave this man alone to go overseas, we all can almost guest what he is doing and I am sure Mal does too, she probably just needs a break, all woman do at some time. Now I am waiting for next week show and this new couple that comes to fill Peter and Cynthia in on Todd.

Love & Hip Hop NY 1-6-14 (#LHHNY)

Monday was off the chain and it began with the return of Love & Hip Hop New York. The show confused me because I thought it was off for two weeks but apparently I missed and episode somewhere and had to play catch up. With the return I learned that Amina found out that Peters Gunz cheated on her with Tara, like we are really surprise. The only surprise from this is that Tara actually took the time to have sex with this man again and although it did not mean anything to her but sex, it is like rewarding the man because you are mad at the woman, all men like this kind of punishment. But Tara has finally admitted to herself she has to cut it off completely and she is done with him and the good thing is Peter actually got the message, so what does he do, of course he makes this big decision to try and work it out with his wife. On television he tells all of us that he owes it to his wife to work it out, but all of us in television land saw how Tara sent her message by changing the locks and now he knows she means business and she is not taking him back she he had no choice but to choose his wife. Peter Gunz is a player with no type of game, he is old and rusty at playing the game and it shows, the only fool that seems to be in this triangle is Amina, who brought into Peter's apology and now she is really all in, I must say it, she is a fool but I guest the saying is true, we all play a fool sometimes. Good luck to your marriage Amina you will need more than luck to make that work with a man like Peter. Now moving on to Erica Jean and Saigon and him asking her to move in with him so that they can be a real family to their son, I am not sure about this but I can understand why Erica is willing to give it a try. A woman wants to be able to say she did everything in her power to have worked it out with her baby's father. I just hope it works out for the two of them because a relationship is not easy and moving with that person takes a whole lot of work. I liked seeing Tahiry
hang out with her sisters and it is good to hear sisters talk because they will tell you what they truly think. As for Tahiry saying that she is really finish with Joe Budden and that they will remain friends is of course as we know is not true, as her sisters knew. Tahiry has a deep love for this man and it tells when said she would remain friends with him after everything he did to her. Now looking at next week Joe is talking about making that big move with Tahiry and we all know what that is, now will him asking Tahiry to marry him solve things, in my opinion marrying someone never solves a problem, it only create problem because you are adding a nothing situation in an already mixed up pot of mess. First clean your house, in other words get your life right, prove you have gotten your life right and then work your way back into that person life. Now this big part of the show for me on Monday night was the triangle between Erica Mena, Rich and Cyn. Now you are talking about a blow up between these three. I was proud that Erica was honest with her girlfriend about the kiss but on the other hand I thought she should not have told her in the studio much less tell her about the kiss at all. Cyn was seriously upset and you could see it in this woman eyes, she was heartbroken about the entire thing and then Rich walks in the studio after Erica had told Cyn the news and what happens, of course Cyn goes off on Rich. Rich gets upset and tells them to take the bullsh** out the studio but Cyn can not help herself because of course the woman is deeply hurt. With Erica and Rich sharing only a kiss, in my opinion I think Erica should have told Rich it would end there and that she is in love with Cyn and it would only be business between them two. Now I know Cyn would have seen the taping anyway and Erica had to tell her, but why at the studio, she should have had a private moment with Cyn to tell her and tell her why it really happen. Believe it or not I like Erica and Cyn together and I hate to see Rich coming between the two women because they really seem like they are in love with each other, although I have to say Erica seems a little on the unsteady side, so I would want someone better for Cyn because she seems like a really nice girl who puts her heart on the line when she is in love, sorry Erica hurt her so bad. Great show, can not wait until next week.

Breaking The Faith 1-5-14 (#BreakingTheFaith)

This past Sunday night was Breaking the Faith season finale and it was really enjoyable. The last to finish her make over was Angie, you know the passive one that were not sure what direction she would take and I must say who would have thought that all that was under those layers of clothing. Angie is really beautiful, she in my opinion was the most beautiful out of all the girls. Now she did still keep in a little conservative and this I understand because she is not use to showing skin and it takes a while getting too, show starting slow with a little skin showing is understandable in my opinion, but she really did look great. I was glad to see all the ex crick member get back together. My favorite Martha sucked it in and she made her apologies as well as the girls who ran Martha away made theirs, and not only that they even admitted to being a little jealous because Martha was moving fast in her transformation, I thought that was big of the girls. Martha brought her new friends over to the house and they had pizza and cake to wish Matt well on his journey to joining the military. I was a little disappointed as Zack was that he did not get that opportunity to reconnect with his mother as he found out from other members in the crick that it is mostly likely she is being punished because she was sentence to his father's compound. As for Ben he is opening up more to people and not only that he took it upon himself to go and apologize to Val for his actions towards her and to beg her to join the group for a last get together as they all go their separate ways, Val was hesitant but she showed up with her new boyfriend and they all welcomed him. As the show was ending it informed us of everyone journey, Val is engaged to her boyfriends as well as Connie. Martha is continuing with her education as well as Angie who is studying to work with children. Matt is studying for his GED to go into the military, Zack went back to high school, yes high school I am proud of him, he wants to be a doctor and he will never give up looking for his mother and as or Ben he too is working on his education an trying to make his way in his new world. It was a great ending to the show as Martha burned her FLDS dress in the bomb fire they made, wish in my opinion made for a great ending to an old life and own with the new. Now I am waiting for the reunion, I want to know what happen to Jake.

The Real Housewives of Atlanta 1-5-14 (#RHOA)

Did anyone watch the Real Housewives of Atlanta, well if you did not let me fill you in. I will began with Nene and Phadera going to Athens Georgia to do some volunteer help with the boys and girls club, great jester on the part of Chuck who is a friend of both women. Now the juicy parts comes in when Chuck decides to talk about the incident that happen in Savannah Georgia which his wife attended with the other women and Phadera as well a Kandi was incline to tell Miss Mynique their past relationship with Chuck. Now what fascinated me so much is that Chuck told Phadera that they never had a relationship and it was more like a booty call, he called her when he wanted to hit it. The discussion got a little heated as the two of them going back in forth on what they really called the relationship and as Chuck Smith said he was young just signed a million dollar contract and he was hitting any women that would let him. The back and forth conversation was making Nene very uncomfortable who was hoping that Chuck would not bring up this incident and it turned to Chuck saying all these girls he messed with during this time was drop off and it went into him divulging that Kandi was a drop off as well and she among many women was one that he made her feel special especially after he tasked her family members cooking. Chuck said that Kandi family could cook and he was enjoying every bit of it, but Kandi was nothing more special than all the other women he was hitting at the time and then he went into explaining how Kandi was sleeping with three of four men of her own at the time, now that was the kicker. I can not wait until Kandi watch this episode or respond to this episode because I am sure she has seen it already. Kandi made like she was so special with Chuck that he wanted to marry her and she broke it off, that is why no women should revile their relationship details of and ex, what a low blow. For most people the most exciting part was the divide between Peter and Cynthia and of course Cynthia's sister, but to me this is no divide at all. Peter is making poor choices and these choices include spending money they do not have. This show started with Cynthia being deeply in love with this man Peter and him convincing Cynthia to marry him, now in my personally opinion I never did like Peter for Cynthia and I always thought she was too put together for this man and I always felt that Peter was rushing Cynthia to marry him. Now Cynthia's sister wants to stay with them for some months and Peter had the audacity to say to Cynthia you did not discuss this with me first. This is the same man that did not tell Cynthia he was buying a warehouse, or car, he invested money without Cynthia's knowledge and now he says Cynthia should have discussed the decision of her sister staying. Now I agree everything should be fifty, fifty and there should be that discussions on decisions making but in my opinion Peter is one of those old fashion men who thinks women should be seen and not heard. The men handle the money and the women just let them do what they want. To this I say hell no, especially if your bad decisions affect my life, and my credit, so you will here my opinion. In my own personal opinion I do think Cynthia and Peter should divorce, I never think they should have gotten married and I thought the mother and Cynthia's sister were right when they held their marriage license. Peter does not seem as if he is trying to make any changes and he is not at all supportive to his wife, what a man right, he needs some real adjustments on his relationship part. Now we will slide over to Porsha who decided to buy a lavish house and does not know rather she can afford it or not but believes in herself enough to say that she deserves this six bedroom house for her and her only, yeah good luck with paying your bills with believing in yourself. Now I am one for believing in myself but I can do it with living in a responsible place in which I know I can afford and have enough sense to know that if I do hit it rich, I can upgrade later, now that makes sense. Poor Porsha I must say that I do believe that she is indeed a little light headed and could really benefit from taking some educational lessons, that is something that your money will not be wasted on because honey you could use it. Kandi had a little skit in which she made somewhat of a contact with her mother in Derrick's beauty salon, real awkward, these two could not even talk without a little raising of the voices, but mama Joyce said she will leave the situation alone and I am believing that she will. Way to go mama Joyce let Kandi walk into that on coming bus, as a matter of fact give a little push, she will learn. I was glad to hear all the women said they grew from the trip and became a little closer, it made me as a women feel that women can get along when they put their minds to it, as for Miss Kenya she was being herself, talking of her experience on the trip and what she got out of it. Now Kenya's father's is suppose to come visit her next week and I can not wait to see what he has to say to her. Now I am edge to learn what will help in the next chapters of these women life.